ddrfreak573r In reply to ??? [2008-03-19 02:23:47 +0000 UTC]

first of all, congratulations on being open with your friend! that's very brave of you.

but to answer your question, it really depends. do you want people to know? It has its advantages, as in the other bi/lesbian girls will know that you are also into girls. but, just be careful. i don't know where you live or what type of school you go to or anything, but just be prepared for people to judge and hate you. just be careful. you don't want to set yourself up for shit.

don't make it so obvious by maybe not wearing any rainbow stuff, don't talk about liking girls, and just don't bring homosexual stuff up in conversation.

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w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k In reply to ddrfreak573r [2008-03-19 05:07:46 +0000 UTC]

thanks but she already knew, apparently im very obvious
i dont want people to know but have no idea how to stop it from spreading. and like i said before, i really want to be one of those proud people (like u)-- well i cant do that either...
AH! im so mad at my bff's friend, i asked her and the excuse is that she tells everything to the big mouth girl. WTF?!?! its not her secret!!!!
and my bff? what did she do about it? nothing. nothing at all, she asked me y im freaking out. what a great friend, shes bi too, she should know y im losing it!
stuff like peace signs?

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w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k In reply to w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k [2008-03-19 16:07:58 +0000 UTC]

thats great advice but the only problem is i dont actually know how many people they have told by now. its seems like everyone has been acting different around me (except for the people who ive already told), but maybe its just me, maybe i think theyre acting different but theyre not at all.
idk... do u think that saying its a rumor will convince them?
thank goodness, almost all of my shirts have a peace sign on it somewhere. but just curious, y not rainbows? is it like a quiet way to show our sexualitly or r we just more attracted to that kind of stuff? (...some how...)

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ddrfreak573r In reply to w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k [2008-03-20 02:22:21 +0000 UTC]

are they really acting different? they definitely could be, but a lot of it could be you feeling like they are or you being nervous that they might treat you differently. they might be, but at least they're not being mean or anything. so if they're just acting different, it will stop after a while once the novelty of your secret wears off. so don't worry about it.

well, you can wear rainbows if you'd like. i'm just saying, if you want to keep this really secret, then i wouldn't wear them. but honestly, you can never tell if someone's gay or not, and seeing someone wear rainbow is usually a pretty good indication. so it's up to you how open you wanna be.

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ddrfreak573r In reply to w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k [2008-03-19 10:53:41 +0000 UTC]

you're right, it's not her secret, and she should respect that. you should tell her that, and maybe she'll stop telling people. go to the people that know and ask them very seriously to not tell anyone else. because really, your sexuality is no one's business! if you want to tell certain people, that's totally fine, but the general population does not need to know that you're bi. and tell them that too.

just make sure to have a serious talk with each of them telling them that you don't want it spread around, and you should be fine.

but, if it still gets spread around, just be prepared. if you really want to keep it a secret, you could just say it was a rumor or something.

peace is great, for straight and gay people...you should definitely wear peace signs.

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ddrfreak573r In reply to w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k [2008-03-12 00:07:09 +0000 UTC]

which part of my signature?

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w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k In reply to ddrfreak573r [2008-03-14 00:48:26 +0000 UTC]

"That's what writers do. We cut ourselves open and we bleed all over the page."
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ddrfreak573r In reply to w-o-o-d-s-t-o-c-k [2008-03-14 00:52:12 +0000 UTC]

we open up to people and let our deepest emotions/feelings/thoughts out through our writing.

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LindenRose In reply to ??? [2008-01-31 03:58:04 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for the fave!

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EMOLovechaos In reply to ??? [2008-01-15 00:29:10 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for the all the favs & watch much love

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ddrfreak573r In reply to sciencegoddess26 [2008-01-11 01:22:35 +0000 UTC]

i totally understand. only a good book will make you do that.

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Have a nice time!

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