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Why?Why is it that I cause the ones I love pain, aggitation?
Why, when I want only happiness and joy for them, I give them guilt and shame?
Why, when instead of Respect and honor, do I say and do things that dishonor or cause disrespect?
Why do I say harsh, cruel words, when I want them to hear nothing but soothing, kind words?
. . .Why can't I treat them the way I want to treat them?
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Soulshards [2004-04-23 05:05:47 +0000 UTC]
you like analogies, don't ya LF?
whenever you allow yourself to get close to someone, you both become vulnerable. It takes a lot of hard work to sustain a relationship, whether friendship or more. It is so easy to lose sight of another person's needs and feelings because of your own, seemingly more important needs.
don't worry, the best way to learn is trial and error... eventually it either works out, or you become an old hermit living in a hole in Bag End... i mean...
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livingfiction [2004-03-15 04:40:00 +0000 UTC]
Often times the things we say to others are more a relfection of how we feel about ourselves than how we really feel about them. You can't get apple juice from an orange. Look within to change what comes out.
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hanaofthedark [2004-02-22 21:30:00 +0000 UTC]
*sniff* most of that really hit home wil.... wow.. like i said before trying to explain to you... your readers can just feel it... right? arn't i right people?! of course i am!!
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LovelyJadedLoner [2004-02-22 21:12:19 +0000 UTC]
I know how you feel completely. It's a sad truth... realizing that... those emotions. Having read this in words, it makes me think.
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