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Published: 2017-11-11 08:21:52 +0000 UTC; Views: 3018; Favourites: 26; Downloads: 0
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Please note that this stamp is referring to hetero pairings in fiction.I have seen a stamp like this around before and decided to make my own to emphasize a point. While I for one do have some hetero ships I enjoy, it is not my preference in comparison to MLM and WLW.
Anyways, to clarify, I have seen people dislike hetero ships for disgusting reasons, one of them being because it's not yaoi or yuri. Because of the fact that it isn't such, these people would often refer to the character of the opposite sex (this is more common with yaoi fans/fujoshis more so than yuri) with derogatory terms. It even goes far to the point where they warp the other character in the relationship (most likely their favorite) and turn them into misogynists/misandrists for the sake of their yaoi/yuri. It is clear that those who do this are only fetishizing gay relationships because its "hot."
While you don't necessarily have to be a fan of hetero ships in general, there's a major difference between respecting those who do and just being flat out sexist about it. Most of the time, those who are obnoxious about their hatred of it will often assume that every character, regardless if canon or someone's headcanon, are straight and cis (looks at a certain hellsite). Not once do they realize that not everyone in a M/F relationship is straight or even cis for that matter.
As a gay male, I have even seen people try to justify their own trauma as an excuse to hate on all hetero pairings. While I certainly had plenty of bad experiences with females in the past, I absolutely despise misogynists. Just like mental illnesses/developmental disabilities, trauma shouldn't be used to excuse bigotry. The same can go for women trying to excuse their misandry with it as well.
There are much better reasons to dislike hetero ships, a example being how sometimes they're forcefully written into a show and or movie when the plot could do without it. The same can go for a unwarranted romance implied in a video game as a form of fanservice where a company caters to fans of a popular M/F ship in their series. Another valid excuse to dislike a hetero ship is its abusive, pedophilic, incestuous, etc.
It's perfectly fine to dislike hetero pairings, as long as you respect those who do, respect their preferences and don't be sexist about it.
I do apologize if my words sound jumbled up. It was quite difficult to convey them into coherent thoughts.
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