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MY THIRD LOVE
“Was sweet… but things weren’t meant to be”
My third love was simply sweet; he was a friend of mine from when I started to go to college. He was very… quiet and not very social. But we spend a lot of time together because he was a friend of my first boyfriend when we I got in school.
He became my strange shadow, we talked about all sort of dumb things… and I kind of felt I needed to help him out in school. We had a couple of same classes for a year and then he had to return home. He was from another state and it was hard for him to be in that expensive school.
He came and go, we talked a lot online. We saw each other in some comic conventions, every time he had the chance. We became really good friends.
After breaking up with my second boyfriend he started to talk more with me, he invited me a couple of times out but to be honest it never struck me to be a boyfriend. He was to serious, he was hard to open and it was weird for him.
But then came the sickness, I was diagnosed with Cancer. And the only guy that came running towards me was him. It was hard for him to be there, but in his sweet way he called, he talked with me, he sent me dozens of things so being in bed wouldn’t be a pain. He took care of me while being on the state; he even managed to stay near my home when he traveled to my town.
He stood by my side in my weakest times and I shall be always grateful for him for being there at that moment.
But after a while… I saw he was a bit over protective with me. I understand he worried, but not to be over protective towards EVERYONE that I knew. And that was just dumb. We had a long distance relationship at that point… but for that to work we kind a need to trust one another. I trusted him, even though we saw each other once every 15 days, sometimes months… and it seemed every time I talked with someone else he got crazy.
He got hurt one day, after he told me he was doing some social work helping out at his school. Even though I told him to take care and be careful like he always told me… he just went out there and got himself hurt.
The thing ended sadly and we gave ourselves some time to think things through. The distance helps that a lot.
We came back as friends and we still are actually… only guy I can say that was given that chance. We had a nice friendship and if things didn’t work as a couple, well we may continue the same way as we left off as friends.
What I learned?
It’s not a bad idea to date best friends; they tend to be the best experience as a couple because you know each other. One always thinks date that one guy you hardly know so it can be an adventure. But friends aren’t the worse… unless it’s a creepy friend then I don’t recommend it.
Stay with that guy that is always there for you, the one guy that sticks with you even though times are hard. Relationships aren’t just DATING; it’s a lot more work. If it works, GREAT! If it doesn’t then there’s no point in keep going, save whatever you had and give yourselves space… which it’s not a bad thing to do.
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