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As some close online friends and real life friends already know, my dad is very sick.He has cancer and there is nothing they can do for him anymore.
They started chemo 8 months ago, one week after my youngest one Bo was born. It did good and it even took control of the cancer but unfortunately it also took away many of his vital functions we take for granted, like walking... writing his own signature or something simple as holding the hand of his youngest grandchild. Yesterday dad told us and the doctors he wanted to stop treatment.
This picture was taken today with tears in my eyes.
The title TimeToHoldSomeoneElse'sHand are the exact words my dad whispered to Bo when this shot was taken.
As you might understand this is my best and most loved picture I took or will ever take.
I love you dad
Please do not use my work for anything at all!!!
My works are copyrighted, some are even licened by print stores. I had to sign legal contracts for that to prevent others from using my images. I'm truly sorry but I don't have time to answer emails and notes about this question anymore.
People keep saying my watermarks are so ugly, and I really have to agree. Even if I tried several different ones they never made my images look better. And again, I hate them more than you do. Did you know that people are selling my work(s) and works from my friends? Please try and understand my reasons.
Thanks
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Comments: 105
braindead-revolution [2006-05-26 17:52:31 +0000 UTC]
ohh man
im sorry
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beautiful that u captured this moment that will live for ever
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luneves [2006-05-26 12:48:32 +0000 UTC]
Wonderful image!
This is so sad, Liek.
I'm touched by your words but I don't know what to say.
I wish peace to both you, your father, and all of yours.
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Ravendk In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 08:31:33 +0000 UTC]
Stunning picture
And such powerful words you wrote to it.
My thoughts go to you and your family in this hard time you are going through.
I remember how I felt when my grandma got cancer, it can't be described with words how hard it is to say goodbye to someone close to you.
Hope your dad have a good time and no pain for the rest of his time here.
As I said my thoughts go to you
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Liek In reply to Ravendk [2006-05-26 21:12:37 +0000 UTC]
Thanks for the warm words, much appreciated
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WindCrest [2006-05-26 03:43:29 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful image, one you will always cherish. Thank you for sharing with us.
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bitterrose6-gumitch In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 03:33:56 +0000 UTC]
like mean others i'm sure has said, i know hat your going though, theres a strong history of cancer in my family so i'm used to going through the pain your in atm though having said that it never ever gets any easier.
the photo is very beautiful, despitethe emotion linked to the photo there is the beauty of one hand that has seen many many things and one the is only just starting off. a very beautiful photo and one i'm sure you will love for the rest of your life.
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Liek In reply to bitterrose6-gumitch [2006-05-26 21:13:52 +0000 UTC]
That's exactley the way I see it to
Thanks for the warm words, much appreciated
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drippingwithwords In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 02:05:15 +0000 UTC]
Oh hun, you just made me cry. I know the feeling, at it sucks. All I could do was cherish the time I had left.
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Liek In reply to drippingwithwords [2006-05-26 21:14:22 +0000 UTC]
Sorry hon... didn't mean to make you cry
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drippingwithwords In reply to Liek [2006-05-26 21:38:16 +0000 UTC]
it is more than ok! It just means that you conveyed a message that really worked! It is a beautiful photo which depicts emotions on its own, then there is the added description. Altogether, it is very, very beautiful!
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Liek In reply to drippingwithwords [2006-05-26 21:42:02 +0000 UTC]
And I tryly believe that is the best comment and discription someone could give for this one.
Thanks so much for that
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bleedingbride In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 01:36:38 +0000 UTC]
yea ive been following your life for the past year or so... all i can say is im praying for you and your family... wish you guys all the best.. be strong! chin up! cherish the moment! i know how you feel.. its hard, but be grateful you still have the time to spend with him...
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Liek In reply to bleedingbride [2006-05-26 21:15:01 +0000 UTC]
I am sweetie... I am
Thanks for the comment hon, much appreciated
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pweenie In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 01:27:57 +0000 UTC]
it was taken with tears in your eyes, and I look at it with tears in my eyes
beautiful photography, even though the story behind it isn't really beautiful to heard
I know what you're living right now, 3 of my family member have/had cancer:
My godfather died 3 or 4 years ago; the doctors discover his cancer too late, they weren't able to do a thing for him. In his last days, he was hallucinating persons he've met earlier during the day and he wasn't able to move correctly.
My sister, its been 2 year since she began her treatments. Hopefully for her, and us too, she finished her chemo and radio *is it how its called in english?* and is now recovering... but she, more than us, have more chances to have an other cancer.
My aunt is presently having chemo, and I don't know if she'll be alright... the doctors once said that even if she had treatments, she won't pass through it
I'm sorry for your father... I send you positive thoughts *cancer is such a horrible thing*
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Liek In reply to pweenie [2006-05-26 21:16:36 +0000 UTC]
Must have been hard for you
Thanks for charing your thoughts about this, much appreciated
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imvirgo In reply to ??? [2006-05-26 01:17:55 +0000 UTC]
That's really sad. I can relate with those kind of hardships. Right now, my uncle is in a coma, so I know how you feel. This is a very beautiful picture, and I can see why you had tears in your eye when you shot this. I'm sorry to hear about it all
I really do hope things get better for you!
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Liek In reply to imvirgo [2006-05-26 21:17:22 +0000 UTC]
Thanks for the kind words hon and many hugs and good luck to you
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imvirgo In reply to Liek [2006-05-27 04:50:11 +0000 UTC]
You're welcome. And thanks as well
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JenaDellaGrottaglia [2006-05-25 23:36:20 +0000 UTC]
completely touching and wonderful piece I feel your emotions same thing happened with my nanna and I took care of her with hospice. My thoughts mamma always
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BlacksmithSSon In reply to ??? [2006-05-25 21:54:05 +0000 UTC]
This is a gorgeous photo...I'm almost sorry to say, even more so for the reason behind it. I wish the best of luck to both you, your father, and all of yours; sending the best of energy that I can your way.
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Liek In reply to BlacksmithSSon [2006-05-26 00:02:05 +0000 UTC]
I feel the same way so please don't be sorry.
I've tried to look at the picture as an outsider ( hope that makes sence ) and thought it looked good but with the reason behind it I love it more than anything in my gallery.
So thank you for the comment, it's much appreciated
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mimithefeline [2006-05-25 21:45:32 +0000 UTC]
The gift of photography: to capture a moment in time that says 1000 words in one image and this one does just that. to all. my thoughts r with u
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Liek In reply to mimithefeline [2006-05-25 23:55:31 +0000 UTC]
Thanks so much for the wonderfull words, they truly do help me a lot
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Paigesmum In reply to ??? [2006-05-25 21:06:03 +0000 UTC]
Big 's for you!!! The photo is amazing!!!
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ninazdesign In reply to ??? [2006-05-25 20:43:11 +0000 UTC]
Aww, dear, Now I am crying, i really love everything about it and i shure would love to hold you and give you a big hug...
This is so emotional to me, i don't know what to say
I am agree with you, this pictures is so loaded with feelings and you will be so lucky you took this fantastick piece with deep meaning
I love you dear and may your dad have a good time and no pain
Love always your dear friend Nina
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Liek In reply to ninazdesign [2006-05-26 00:05:41 +0000 UTC]
Thank you for the wonderfull words sweetie.
I understand your emotions and even if I'm the saddest person in the world today I also try to be happy about the fact that I've taken this picture.
Thanks for everything sweetie
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ninazdesign In reply to Liek [2006-06-05 11:40:05 +0000 UTC]
As always...my pleasure hon, remeber I will always be here for you, hope you trust me for that
I care for you and I sure hope you are doing ok?
..me
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Liek In reply to ninazdesign [2006-06-07 08:07:31 +0000 UTC]
I trust you sweets
But I'm fine really I am.
When I'm not I'll tell people in my journal so they might understand why I'm not online much
Love ya
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S-t-r-a-n-g-e [2006-05-25 20:42:54 +0000 UTC]
Amazing tones of sepia !! I like the concept and crop !!
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Liek In reply to S-t-r-a-n-g-e [2006-05-26 00:06:33 +0000 UTC]
Sad things also happen in the world
And yes... even sad things can have a great concept.
Thanks for the comment hon
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fatal-tragedy [2006-05-25 20:26:04 +0000 UTC]
that is so sad...
I'm really, really, touched by your words..
I hope you and your family find peace in this terrible time.
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Snupzy In reply to ??? [2006-05-25 20:23:25 +0000 UTC]
oh, that's a really sad story! I think the pic can tell a lot, and with that title even more!
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Snupzy [2006-05-25 20:21:47 +0000 UTC]
oh, that's a really sad story! I think the pic can tell a lot, and with that title even more!
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xOverSigma [2006-05-25 20:17:29 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful picture and thanks for sharing the background.
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