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wonderbandalice โ€” self-harm is not always obvious.

Published: 2012-02-28 01:45:37 +0000 UTC; Views: 87056; Favourites: 4343; Downloads: 3970
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Description March 1 is self-harm awareness day. Wear Orange!
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I am always here for anyone who needs to talk. Send me a note if you want my msn/cell number/some other third thing.

**Sometimes it is obvious. And that's no less legitimate.
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Tigrette-of-Fire In reply to ??? [2012-08-27 05:21:04 +0000 UTC]

Thank you! People really need to understand that not all self harm leaves physical scars... Hell, self harm doesn't even have to be physical in the first place.

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H-Everybody-Lies--MD In reply to Tigrette-of-Fire [2012-12-09 02:37:35 +0000 UTC]

Oh? Can you elaborate on that?

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Tigrette-of-Fire In reply to H-Everybody-Lies--MD [2012-12-09 06:17:06 +0000 UTC]

Sure. I mean, people put themselves down all the time. And when you're depressed, it just happens more severely. You talk yourself further down in to the depression- a little closer to suicide, a little further from recovery. Plus, if you tell yourself sonething long enough, you start to believe it.

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H-Everybody-Lies--MD In reply to Tigrette-of-Fire [2012-12-09 14:16:53 +0000 UTC]

Aaaaa, a very interesting spin on that! It's definitely something you wouldn't think of in the forefront, but definitely a problem underneath. Very interesting

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Tigrette-of-Fire In reply to H-Everybody-Lies--MD [2012-12-13 03:14:46 +0000 UTC]

Thanks. I give this kind of thing a lot of thought.

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H-Everybody-Lies--MD In reply to Tigrette-of-Fire [2013-01-27 00:34:09 +0000 UTC]

As one should

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Tigrette-of-Fire In reply to H-Everybody-Lies--MD [2013-01-30 18:40:34 +0000 UTC]

Indeed

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Floppylou In reply to ??? [2012-08-26 16:41:19 +0000 UTC]

Love that. Exactly what people can't understand. I guess. Or they don't want to.
Bravo, trรจs rรฉussi.

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PossumLunges In reply to ??? [2012-08-20 20:46:59 +0000 UTC]

Its quite limited during summer. It looks quite odd wearing Jeans to the beach

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wonderbandalice In reply to PossumLunges [2012-08-21 03:46:25 +0000 UTC]

Tights are a lifesaver! You can wear a short skirt with tights with a pattern (H&M, American Apparel, and Simons all have lots) and you can't see cuts at all

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Raveness13 In reply to PossumLunges [2012-08-21 03:34:46 +0000 UTC]

There are still places and ways to hide it. Trust me.

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samantha994 In reply to ??? [2012-08-17 23:11:16 +0000 UTC]

.... search for the places that no man or woman would ever look or that would ever have to show

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ArticShadow In reply to ??? [2012-08-15 05:28:04 +0000 UTC]

True, trust me I know.

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IlOvEwOlFe In reply to ??? [2012-08-12 06:24:15 +0000 UTC]

Very true.

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OAspiringMultitskerO In reply to ??? [2012-08-04 19:32:22 +0000 UTC]

Thank u for this

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FragileButts In reply to ??? [2012-08-04 01:10:31 +0000 UTC]

i have made the suggestion for this to be a DD :>

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wonderbandalice In reply to FragileButts [2012-08-05 01:29:49 +0000 UTC]

Cool, thanks!

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Kellogez In reply to ??? [2012-08-01 05:24:42 +0000 UTC]

amen

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FeliceCavaliere In reply to ??? [2012-07-13 15:27:31 +0000 UTC]

Can anyone tell if self harming (posting pictures) can lead you to a ban on DA?
i reported my friend because i really didn't like to see him like this, and he said it was a mistake it was supposed to be in a private folder/ show a girl about the dangers of cutting.. Help?

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Raveness13 In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-08-21 03:35:54 +0000 UTC]

No, art is art. Cant be banned for photos like that, I dont think.

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-07-13 23:46:06 +0000 UTC]

Look, to be honest, if you're reporting them for this, fair enough he shouldn't be showing that to the world, but he needs your help and support.

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FeliceCavaliere In reply to ChocoCoatedLemons [2012-07-14 04:25:30 +0000 UTC]

Ive been in touch with him , i dont like seeing people IN general this way.
and i dont like others to see people like this, I've been in touch with him so hopefully he knocks it off.

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LastMinuteDotCom In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-08-28 16:41:56 +0000 UTC]

I agree with you, my friends did it and i wan't very happy with them and got quite upset about it, but i still stayed in touch with them whenever they needed me ^^

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-07-14 09:28:56 +0000 UTC]

Good, but it isn't something you can just stop... It needs a lot of support. Keep up the good work.

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FeliceCavaliere In reply to ChocoCoatedLemons [2012-07-14 15:30:48 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, and i know that kinda of habit can retain on someone for a long time. I'll try whatever i can, thanks again for your consideration.(:

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-07-14 20:03:28 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome

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wonderbandalice In reply to FeliceCavaliere [2012-07-13 16:08:31 +0000 UTC]

You're not supposed to post pictures of actual injuries. I dunno if it could lead to a ban, but the picture could certainly (and should) be deleted.

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FeliceCavaliere In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-07-14 04:25:43 +0000 UTC]

Alright thank you very much for telling me so.

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MenInTights In reply to ??? [2012-07-03 03:39:33 +0000 UTC]

I know that feel... Only, I'm covered in scars, because I didn't think at the time that people would bother checking arms and ankles and such.

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Genuine-Discord In reply to ??? [2012-07-01 19:59:21 +0000 UTC]

It's so difficult to hide, especially in the summer...

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Libby-Mouse In reply to ??? [2012-06-25 23:14:27 +0000 UTC]

I used to come up with the wildest excuses for mine...

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iloveanime2000 In reply to ??? [2012-06-20 18:26:45 +0000 UTC]

i used to cut on my caffs and say they were from climbing trees so this means a lot to me

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ItsyBitsyshutterbug In reply to ??? [2012-06-05 23:27:05 +0000 UTC]

I really love this~
Thank you.

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Vyanni-Krace-666 In reply to ??? [2012-06-05 13:38:19 +0000 UTC]

Its like the girls saying 'Look, no scars, no marks, nothing. Im fine. Dont worry. Its fine...' When really shes thinking 'Look closer, why cant you see it? Please no one notice. Someone help.'

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TheCurare In reply to ??? [2012-05-23 13:56:09 +0000 UTC]

This is really awesome, it expresses so much emotion. I can feel this very well...

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KylieDaye In reply to ??? [2012-05-21 20:00:32 +0000 UTC]

Such a beautiful and amazing photo. Such a simple presentation, yet this holds so much meaning. We are so used to seeing illness as something that is obvious, and noticeable. However with the instance of mental health and self mutilation, this is not the case. This picture admirably shows how easy it can be to "hide" our problems and why it is so important that all of us take action against these issues.

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Kadlosaurus In reply to ??? [2012-05-19 17:26:25 +0000 UTC]

I am amazed by this shot ... so powerful

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Loba-Colombiana In reply to ??? [2012-05-06 17:45:46 +0000 UTC]

same for me :T

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LoLLita-Alex In reply to ??? [2012-05-04 18:02:26 +0000 UTC]

sadly it true. nice pic. soft and hard... i ike that.

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komKovski In reply to ??? [2012-05-02 16:25:16 +0000 UTC]

This is pretty.

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AlexDbzAlex In reply to ??? [2012-04-30 02:29:22 +0000 UTC]

I Love This Its So True, Even Thought I SI On My Wrists I Know People Who Do It On Their Legs.

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BellaOSwan In reply to ??? [2012-04-26 03:21:37 +0000 UTC]

So true!

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onyxkat11 In reply to ??? [2012-04-22 18:40:43 +0000 UTC]

that whole picture is me.... it was, is and probably will be.. puts things into perspective....

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JellyBeanRainbow In reply to ??? [2012-04-21 20:38:20 +0000 UTC]

My best friend commitied suicide and I blamed myself for it for years. This meant that I began self harming just like she had. I almost tipped over the edge but I didn't suceed in commiting suicide. I still self harm even now and whatever people say. Please can you help me because I know that I need to stop but I can't do it by myself... Thankyou

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to JellyBeanRainbow [2012-07-13 23:44:40 +0000 UTC]

Are you still cutting? If you are, message me, I'll help anyway I can, I've been there. I'm always there for anyone with that problem. xx

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JellyBeanRainbow In reply to ChocoCoatedLemons [2012-07-14 14:00:49 +0000 UTC]

Thankyou and yes I still am xxx

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to JellyBeanRainbow [2012-07-14 20:04:23 +0000 UTC]

You wanna pm me about it? If you wanna talk, that is, I'd like to help you any way I can.

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JellyBeanRainbow In reply to ChocoCoatedLemons [2012-07-15 09:52:52 +0000 UTC]

Thanks, maybe soon sorry but I'm not quite ready yet thankyou though

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ChocoCoatedLemons In reply to JellyBeanRainbow [2012-07-15 14:28:07 +0000 UTC]

Well, that's entirely up to you - But if you ever do wanna talk, keep this message so you know my name and you can message me. There's always people to help.

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