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Published: 2012-02-18 21:23:24 +0000 UTC; Views: 9276; Favourites: 365; Downloads: 9
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Why should a woman be forced to carry the child of somebody who raped and disgraced her? It's her body, she should be allowed to do whatever she wants with it.Related content
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Alright. What about medical complications, where parent and foetus (i'm going to keep calling it that, because it's not a fucking baby) both die if the abortion is not had?
Why does the parent not deserve to abort the child, besides 'MURDERRRR' (im sure you've stepped on at least 50 insects in your lifetime at least, so fuck off with that card)? Would you rather they went through the rest of their life being forced to care for a child that, every day, reminds them of the traumatic situation that they were put through that resulted in that fucking child?
I'd rather just kill the fucker and be done with it.
You're a fucking lunatic and you wouldn't understand, you're a cis man.
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Who said anything about raising the child? If they don't want it they should put it up for adoption... At least then the child will have a better chance for a better life...
That's what I love about you people... So stupid yet so moronic... Thinking that there's only ever two choices that only benefits one side when there is usually always at third choice that benefits everyone...
No seriously, I love this... I bet even considering adoption never even crossed your mind...
Oh, but I bet you're thinking... "Why go through all that pain and expenses when she could just get rid of the fetus and be done with it?" To which I say... An abortion is JUST as expensive and I'm pretty sure actually takes LONGER to heal from than giving birth... Therefore, why do THAT when you could just give it up for adoption afterwards...?
Birth: You're in... You're out... You're sore for the next couple days at most...
Abortion: You're in... They cut you open... You get stitches, which have to be taken out eventually, you need weeks to fully heal...
Honestly, why the hell do women want to do this to themselves!?!?
Wow... That's the worst argument you've come up with yet... Stepping on disease carrying pests and comparing that to taking a human life... And you call me the moron... What, you think I'm one of those green piece loving vegans? As if...
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Who said anything about raising the child? If they don't want it they should put it up for adoption... At least then the child will have a better chance for a better life...
Do you have any idea how many children ACTUALLY get adopted? A google search gave me this:
In the U.S. 397,122 children are living without permanent families in the foster care system.
About 135,000 children are adopted in the United States each year.
So, less than about 1/3rd of children actually get this 'better life' and the other 2/3rds can go fuck themselves silly, because orphanages aren't usually kept in good condition. Also, adoption solves an unwanted CHILD, not an unwanted PREGNANCY. This option benefits no-one and you're a fucking idiot if you think it does.
Now, let's get on the subject of a person who, if they give birth to a fucking baby, will DIE. It's not a rare instance; you're squeezing a solid object the size of a breadloaf (without any of the squishyness) through a hole about the same fucking size as your ASSHOLE (and it's even more sensitive). You need weeks to fully heal from THAT and you run a very high risk of dying. It's only larger people that will feel sore for the next few days. Seriously, have you ever read a book on childbirth at all? Not even Baby's First Guide to Childbirth?
My mother suffered 4 strokes as a result of an aneurysm rupture. She got pregnant again, but if she carried the baby to term, then she and the baby would have died. I'd personally rather have my mother here as a 'murderer' than have her dead because of a fucking foetus. She got the abortion and she's absolutely fucking fine. She never got any stitches, she never got cut open, none of that absolute fucking bullshit which you just pulled out of your ass.
Stepping on disease carrying pests and comparing that to taking a human life...
Oh. Because it's not a baby fucking human, it's perfectly OK to take that life? I was talking about ants and bees, you moron. A bee is a very important part of our ecosystem. But no, it's not a clump of human cells barely recognisable as human, so it's 100% OK!!
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Wow... How dare your mother... She knew it wasn't a good idea to get pregnant... Yet she did it anyway... Then she easily decided to get an abortion with out even thinking...
What a selfish despicable person... Taking that innocent child's chance at life completely away... I cannot express my absolute hatred of her at this moment... She is literally the very type of person why I hate abortions...
Or wait... Maybe it was an accident?... So let me get this straight... She KNEW it was a bad idea if she got pregnant again and probably knew the last time was the last time... And she didn't take preventative measures to make sure the situation never happened again? I.E. Get a fucking hysterectomy right then and there...?
What a fucking moron... She deserved exactly what she went through... I have no sympathy...
PS... Ha ha
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What the fuck did the woman do to deserve having to carry her rapist's baby, you psycho?
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Adoption... Exact same number of letters.
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Birthing the child will only cause more depression and grief. Looking into the face of something so innocent and relies directly to you, only to give it away. Rape babies should be aborted, as the mother doesn't have to see her rapist in the eyes of a child. Yes, the baby did nothing wrong, neither did the mother. Also, there's a big chance that baby won't get adopted.
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They don't have to. If their mothers want to keep them, fine.
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Oh would you look at that, you're male and will never be pregnant. Congradulations on your privilege.
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So what you're saying is that you would let a helpless infant not even be born because of who their father is?
No wait, I know what the problem is... You think rape only has ONE definition and Scenario, that happens every single time.
This is the FIRST thing that comes to your mind when you think rape. 1 man, attacking a defenseless woman, and forcing her into sex.
You DO realize that there are at least a DOZEN different ways having sex can be classified as rape, right? A couple ways when even both parties are fully willing to partake in the action. For instance, Sex under false Pretenses.
Like when a woman says to be someone else just so a man can screw her.
You can call me what ever the hell you want. I really don't care. There is NO reason a poor kid shouldn't even be BORN for something their parents did.
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Um. I'm a survivor of rape.
Idiot.
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I find it funny how a lot of people who disagree with abortion are males who know nothing about the pain of pushing out a child from their genitals.
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Seriously, if I was raped, I know for a fact I wouldn't want that demon's seed or it's child, legal or not. It's the woman's choice, no one else's.
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Through I agree, but I must point out that the baby in the mother's wound is not part of the mother's body. The baby is a totally different person than the mother herself. Plus, another point, why abort? Adoption is another answer.
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I disagree, because the kid will grow up jumping from foster home to foster home, and they won't really get friends. They'll end up hating their life and everyone else.
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Maybe set up an adoption date for when the baby is born, and find a good, permanent family beforehand.
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Do you really think any rape victim would WANT to give birth to the child of a monster and know that somewhere it was still alive and breathing?
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well it wasn't the babies fault. i mean, i think she should get an abortion too, if she wants. but i don't think the fact that the child would be "living and breathing" would be a reason for wanting to get the abortion. it's not like the child did anything wrong.
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While it's not the child's fault, at the same time, the mother could be thinking "what if he/she grows up to become just like their father? Do I really want to bring another monster into the world after one already hurt me?"
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i don't think any one in their right mind would think that. people aren't born rapists or monsters. just because the father made bad choices, does not in any way imply that the offspring would. especially if that offspring never met the rapist father. i have a friend who is the offspring of a rape victim. it's very offensive for anyone to think that because of his fathers actions he is in any way at fault or more likely to commit a crime.
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Yeah but when you're in that situation, you're not really in your right mind. It fucks you up pretty badly to have to go through that. And of course babies that were born to a rape victim aren't less of a person than any other human. But I just think that it's not healthy to put the mother through that, because it might end up much worse for the child (her hating and abusing him/her, treating it poorly, etc). It's just a difficult situation which I would rather avoid. And I believe in reïncarnation, so I believe that the baby'll get a better life if you do. But that's just my belief.
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I agree with you. The mother also might have to face much more pressure about having and caring for a child. If she had wanted a child, she might have already had one.
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yeah, if the mother is traumatized and doesn't want to give birth, she should be able to get an abortion.
and i'm atheist, but i respect your belief.
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Exactly. But I guess this stamp was aimed at people who think those women should be forced to keep a baby, even when they're traumatised by the rape itself and don't want it at all. And thank you, I appreciate that.
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ohhh yeah. i mean, i guess my standpoint is that if she doesn't want to be pregnant, she shouldn't be forced. but i'd hope her reason wasn't for the single purpose that she is scared that her child will grow up to be like the father.
and of course! this world is so much bigger than we humans can possibly understand. just because i believe something doesn't mean i'm right. so who am i to judge or disrespect another?
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I understand what you mean but at the same time, whether it's logical or not, these are things that the victim could fear would happen :/
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perhaps for a moment, but i'm sure if she actually thought of it she'd recognize she's placing her pain on the wrong person. that being said, i'm pro-choice and think a women should be able to get an abortion simply because she doesn't want a pregnancy. i just don't like the idea of people thinking "rape babies" could be anything like their rapist parent.
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Only only only only only only only ONLY time I'd support it too.
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What if the mother's life is in danger?
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Thank you- to this day, my mother truly believes that she'll burn in Hell for having an abortion yet if she hadn't gone through with it, she would be dead right now :/ abortion shouldn't be used as a birth control but people think that's ALL it's for, they don't even bat an eye at the women who actually need it for a good reason
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Yes! This stamp. 
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I agree but if she wants it, then she can have it 
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I agree...if the option to abort in the case of rape or physically/mentally/psychologically incapable of carrying the baby to full term, she should be able to make the choice, not be forced to carry it.
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This! No one should have to have a rape baby no one.
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You mean rape victims should have a choice. You can't force them to abort.
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The creator of the stamp said the rape victim should be allowed to do whatever she wants. Read the description.
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I do think that while it isn't the fetus's fault, the fetus isn't in a state where it can feel pain or even be self-aware. A raped woman is and she's gone through enough as it is. I very much agree with this. I personally don't think I'd abort (but do keep in mind I've never been in a situation like this so I don't truly know what I'd do) but that doesn't mean every woman feels the way I do. I would never try to control another woman's right or think any less of her if she happened to choose differently from me. Especially if I didn't know her, which obviously most women getting abortions in the world are women I don't know and so even if I did want to be over controlling of her life, it's still not effecting me.
Oh, and slightly off topic, but I hate when people, pro-life or pro-choice, refer to abortion as the "easy way out." Even if abortion was the easy way out, don't you think we should be easy on a woman who was raped? Why be even more harsh on her? But it's NOT the easy way out. It's difficult and stressful in it's own way! Especially with stupid people enforcing their opinion on the victim.
So 
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Would you really want to give birth to a baby with the face of the guy who raped you? Yeah me neither..
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Yep. This is true. If I get raped, would I want the ass-hole's baby? NO. I would not. Great stamp.
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What if the woman wants to keep the child? What then?! Idiotic idea, right? NO!
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Read the description, she says the girl has the right to do what she wants with her body
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Babies are NOT problems!
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there you are again.....
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