Punderstatement In reply to Musashden [2017-05-17 11:18:26 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for making such sweet Samurai Jack art. It's proper badass.

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Musashden In reply to Punderstatement [2017-05-18 05:28:24 +0000 UTC]

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Punderstatement In reply to Spintherella [2017-01-02 00:10:40 +0000 UTC]

HAPPY NEW YEAR SPINTHERELLA! YAY FOR YELLING! Aren't you sweet? Consider everything I do my gift to you! Because I'll sure as hell pretend like they are! So many things are coming this year! Woot woot!

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Spintherella In reply to Punderstatement [2017-01-02 16:37:30 +0000 UTC]

<3<3<33<3333<3<333

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Punderstatement In reply to County1006 [2016-10-23 18:02:49 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for make awesome artwork!

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County1006 In reply to Punderstatement [2016-10-24 12:16:32 +0000 UTC]

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Punderstatement In reply to County1006 [2016-10-25 21:28:55 +0000 UTC]

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-25 17:07:56 +0000 UTC]

So...what is this in reference to? I can guess but still I'm not 100%. Humans are tricky creatures, anything really serious offsets them. Jokes are important and the best way to show that is to use fantasy, notice how none of my comments involve personal tragedies (and I've got a lot of those)? Because that bums people out, anything I post is whimsical and light hearted because that's what the world needs more of. I've lived my life without anyone I'd call a true friend so I think it's important you let that idea go, no one really finds someone like that, the best most people can get are people that will respond to the dumb little messages and jokes. Everyone has ideas on what they want from a partner but unless specifically asked you shouldn't share that. It should remain a personal dream. No one ever fully understands human cues completely and yes I'm aware of the ramifications of Autism but was not aware you had it. Some people have deemed to say I posses Asperger's syndrome but I shrug and say, "Nope, just eccentric." Sometimes the only thing that separates a serious comment from a joking one is an emoticon or an lol but they're important in the internet realm. You're throwing names at me I haven't the foggiest about, I mean I'm guessing Alf is DarkAlfheim but who's TwistedPixie and what are you on about, doing what out of spite? I get you like talking to Spintherella, everyone does, she's a sweet girl with an insane amount of talent who likes to be coquettish and, let's face it, is pretty damn photogenic and she knows it. But the way you talk to her is way too serious sounding and you've got to understand she's a girl and there's always in the back of their mind the need to keep distance from guys because if they come off as too friendly guys will try to put them in the girlfriend zone and come on man, shouldn't she just be allowed to do her work, flirt a little, and then feel good about all the fans and attention she's acquired? Like why would you try to guilt her over that? And don't deny it, that was exactly what happened when I gave you a piece of my mind before.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-25 17:43:19 +0000 UTC]

I DO have a problem with depression, and I WAS mentally, emotionally, AND physically abused as a child by teachers; which has led to me having emotional problems I've been working on for years...and her suggestion of a therapist failed because my last one retired and I couldn't find another in my area....

But also I honestly don't know how to tease girls.....

And pixie was a deviant that I was having talk to Spin to try and clarify this huge misunderstanding before Spin painted me as this huge Spiteful person and had her block me too.

Yeah! BECAUSE A SPITEFUL PERSON WOULD STILL CARE ABOUT A FRIEND WHO HURT THEM ENOUGH TO FUCKING ASK A DISNEY ANIMATOR TO GIVE THAT FRIEND ADVICE TO IMPROVE THEIR CHANCES OF GETTING THEIR DREAM JOB! THAT'S HOW "SPITEFUL" I AM!

And SORRY THAT I made a few accounts to try and talk to her, BECAUSE of ADVICE I got to always talk out problems you have with friends!

Sigh....I don't mean to sound snappy.....I have...maybe...20 hours MAX of sleep since Thursday when O tried to kill myself because the block was only the tip of the iceberg....I was having nightmares all summer of my past abuse....

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-25 23:21:50 +0000 UTC]

Dude you still haven't told me what you're referencing so I'll just talk about the things I can speculate on. So teasing girls is basically how you'd like a girl to tease you, playful but without all that much substance. If a situation can have some flirting, keep it really low key and short, anything else seems way too horny and is offputting (girls want to feel attractive but not just like a piece of meat). Maybe being spiteful wasn't your intent but I've seen a few of the comments you've left on the front page and they definitely seem spiteful to the casual observer so imagine it from her perspective, constantly overwhelmed with messages and comments (seriously any other deviant will maybe answer one or two comments out of 20, she answers all of them and then the follow ups) and then yours which don't seem like joking and it creeps you out so you ignore it but it keeps happening, you feel bad but you have to block them yet they go further and make more accounts. That's beyond the line mate. I mean people with talent and determination will find their way to their jobs they want so advice isn't going to help that much. I mean if you're that tired maybe you shouldn't be sending messages to people you've upset. Every one has pain mate, doesn't mean you should take the easy way out.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-25 23:31:58 +0000 UTC]

And I realized a major problem behind my attitude lately:

I've been sleep deprived.

Every night tossin and turning until 2am (at the earliest) and waking up at 7:30 am (at the latest), a maximum of 5 and 1/2 hours every night at most...

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-26 00:01:06 +0000 UTC]

I use melatonin to soothe me because I get insomnia really bad, also exercise is really good because it releases endorphins. Like I get screwy when I skip too much sleep and so I try not to comment then so that I don't say something I end up regretting. Like my insomnia once got so bad it caused me to drop out of school for a bit.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-26 00:20:05 +0000 UTC]

I hate being left out due to my childhood.but looking back, I should have not talked

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-26 01:38:59 +0000 UTC]

I mean probably but childhood is a hard time for a lot of people, sorry yours was so shitty.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-26 09:17:46 +0000 UTC]

Yeah. I'm gonna give her some time before apologizing since she's not listening right now

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-07 00:01:59 +0000 UTC]

Not sure what you're talking about mate. Again if this in regards to something I posted before then I was talking about guy culture and what we generally hold in esteem that was meant as how typical males view each other, which is not a view I endorse. Again I'm not sure what you're referencing however as a male that has taken that route and been hurt badly I think it's not that cut and dry. The measure of a true man is standing by his ideals and bringing more light to the world than he got out of it being able to be good and interesting at the same time, focusing on how he can fix a problem rather than the problem itself. The tricky thing about sex is it's misleading, we give people traits they don't have because when the love bubbles are flowing they're blinding, I once had that mentality that sex would be only something I had with a person whom I wanted to spend the rest of my life with but...people lie about who they are and if you let it rule you you'll never really be happy. I guess the main point of being a man is realizing just how important it is to stand alone before you stand with someone else. If finding someone is all you care about then you're essentially asking someone to fix you which no one can do and if you try to be that for someone it never ends well. Then again I'm not 100% sure what you're talking about, so I could give a more direct answer if you could maybe tell me what I said previously said that you're mentioning?

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-07 00:03:40 +0000 UTC]

I remember reading a comment you posted along the lines of basically if you can't make annoying puns and joke about sex, you don't deserve it...

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-07 00:39:25 +0000 UTC]

Oh, that was a joke. Another part of that is being able to be light hearted. But it holds a ring of truth, if you're with a girl and won't ever challenge her (in a teasing way) she'll quickly tire of you. Girls want good guys but want they don't want is boring (which is the true difference between a good guy and a gentleman, a gentleman knows that his job isn't just to pull out chairs and hold pen doors, he must also be spontaneous), that's why they seem to like douchy guys more, because the nice guys never want to make them feel like they're not a pedestal. They may want kids and to settle down but they still want to feel alive and life isn't just roses and smiles. Put yourself in their shoes, it's not that they don't enjoy the chivalrous guy but anything gets boring if done enough. What I'm getting at is yes it's important to be kind hearted but that can't be all you do, girls want to be doted on to a certain extent but a boyfriend should also try to trip them up, annoy them a bit (again it's SUUUUUPER important to find that balance). If something matters to you you have to be able to joke about it and take it with a grain of salt.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-07 00:40:29 +0000 UTC]

But I want to be loyal.....

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-07 01:04:23 +0000 UTC]

That's...not what I'm talking about. Loyalty shouldn't be a question, what I'm talking about is being afraid to annoy your gf. If you only ever try to be the nicest guy you can you're going to bore your partner, you need to be willing to annoy her, to be part of a relationship without becoming completely whipped. A lot of nice guys make that mistake, they get it in their head to be as nice as possible never taking any chances (again I need to stress all I'm saying is to have backbone, a girl doesn't want their guy to go simple just because she fluttered her eyes at him), if you have a joke you may think will piss her off a little, then be willing to do so. If you try to simply be that standard good guy you're doing yourself and her a disservice. Again I am only saying you should annoy a gf a little be little bit more than she can handle sometimes and then go straight romantic. Let me put it this way, ice cream is a delicious treat but if you only have ice cream you're going to be really sick of it really quick. Say you know a girl who really doesn't like puns? Well every now and then you've got to push that boundary and tell her some puns, she may want to hit you for it but ultimately she'll like that you don't roll over at her first request. Do you see what I'm getting at?

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-07 12:48:59 +0000 UTC]

Yep...all I need now is a gf....

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Punderstatement In reply to MichiganWolf [2016-09-07 21:10:39 +0000 UTC]

I mean if you make it so you NEED one you're going to to scare off a lot of them. They don't like the desperation. You should view it as an inevitability and not jump at the first girl who shows interest. There's a level of confidence in oneself that girls respond to, it's okay to be open but not overly so, proclamations of love should be something that comes later after a mutual bond is established. If you can get to that point where you're okay on your own then the fairer sex shall seem more obtainable. Also girls like comedy so jokes are good.

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MichiganWolf In reply to Punderstatement [2016-09-07 22:00:51 +0000 UTC]

Ah

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Punderstatement In reply to PoisonousTiger [2016-08-27 09:15:57 +0000 UTC]

Naturally, you're among the only three I'm watching just so you know. There's going to be some good stuff coming out of your profile, I just know it!

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PoisonousTiger In reply to Punderstatement [2016-08-28 02:01:31 +0000 UTC]

Aww thank you again

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Punderstatement In reply to PoisonousTiger [2016-08-28 04:24:40 +0000 UTC]

Well I hope you'll get some good inspiration, especially in the male protagonist area, I have a feeling you will.

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PoisonousTiger In reply to Punderstatement [2018-06-27 05:17:05 +0000 UTC]

I'm doing my best. I just discovered my male protag's emotional wound. It's a painful one and is related to the reason he hesitates to get to know the female protag. It's a little cliche--his parents both die in a car accident, but he was in the car with them and it still haunts him even years later. They went from complete peace and joy to pain and loss. I love him so it hurts to do this to him but it will become his source of strength I think.

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