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Published: 2017-06-02 23:59:56 +0000 UTC; Views: 1616; Favourites: 21; Downloads: 2
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Longass post about me ahead so if you don't wanna read it then this is your last warning.So I guess this is technically a coming-out post of sorts? I doubt it's that important but I'd like to inform you UvU
I always sorta had doubts about it, but Recently, a certain friend of mine (*coughs* @/nosva go love him oNCE AGAIN HE IS MY SWEET PRECIOUS EGG SON WHO IS SO GOOD AT ART MM.) and I started talking and now, since it's Pride month and I've had some time to think, I'm going to be open about it.
I am a crossdresser. I was sorta hesitant for the longest to come out and say that because 1.) I was still questioning my sexuality at that point, and So thinking about that seemed a little less important at the time, and 2.) I didn't ALWAYS dress like a guy- it's mainly just when i have the clothes to do it with. But now, I feel perfectly comfortable with being a straight young lady who likes to dress like a guy sometimes.
But, in saying that, I also Want to say something else. This gets a little ranty repetitive, but it's important and i don't want any misconceptions for anyone reading.
Just because I enjoy dressing like a guy when I can, does not, by ANY means, make me less of a woman. There are a lot of misconceptions that People who dress like the opposite sex are AUTOMATICALLY assumed to be transgender. Please, do not mistake the two. Just because I dress like a man does NOT mean that I consider myself to BE one. I was born a female, and I will always consider myself to be a fefemale. I do not want to be assumed and labeled as something that I personally am not.
This goes for Trans people who are assumed to simply "dress like the opposite sex bc they just think it looks cool on them" as well. That happens a lot more than you think, and that is honestly very offensive. From my understanding, Transgender people transition to another gender because they are not comfortable with the gender they are perceived as, and saying that they are just "dressing up " is just ignoring their discomfort and it's very rude.
Ahem. Once more,
I AM STILL A GIRL. I LOVE BEING A GIRL. I LOVE MY BODY (in terms of gender/sex, anyway;;; ), and I AM COMFORTABLE WITH MY GENDER AS IS.
I still want to be called beautiful. I want to be seen as Pretty, and lovely. I want guys to see me as a sweet and respectful young woman.
Anyway that;; was my main concern.
I mean, who cares how you dress? Weren't clothes literally INVENTED just to keep you warm/keep stuff off your body anyway? I mean, people used to walk around with pieces of cloth tied over their nethers anyway so. Clothing is just something to keeo you warm and clean and to express your unique style. It does not have to define your gender. So what If I sometimes shop in the "Men's clothing" section? So what? You cross out "Men's" and you just have clothing.
Anyway yeah;;; if you read this far then I'm honestly amazed- thanks dudes;;
Also, for anyone else celebrating Pride Month- there are probably going to be a lot more people lashing out at people for S.O/ Gender Identities and other such things until July. Please- stay safe and don't let those assholes ruin your month of self appreciation and love. Be safe❤
Edit: I just went through the tags for Crossdressing and Im;;;;; Uncomfortable and a little disgusted- Please do NOT look at Crosdressing as a fetish;; Im a lil hurt also there were no tags when i typed in "Female crossdressing" wow okay guys aren't the only ones who crossdress i h ate society sometimes--
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Comments: 7
Nittany-Tiger [2017-06-06 00:53:20 +0000 UTC]
Bet you can make a handsome guy. Congrats for coming out. I'm a MTF crossdresser myself who is stuck under a bigoted family member who thinks I'll go to hell for putting on a dress.
Gotta say that I agree with how you feel about the fetishizing of MTF crossdressing. I don't hate that it exist, but I hate how it dominates the media and thus the public perception of crossdressing men. I love to wear dresses and lingerie, but I don't like being humiliated, abused by women, nor do I want to be a slut or bimbo. I want to be a beautiful female when I dress up, and I want to be complimented and praised and loved. A lot of crossdressing men just want to be beautiful.
Yes, crossdressing can be a fetish, and there are times I want to dress up for kinky fun, but I don't want to be seen as doing something sexual when I dress up. Instead, I just want to be "one of the girls" and have some fun being a girl. Being feminine is not the same as being weak or submissive. It's just a way some people enjoy being.
But yeah, I support you, and I'm with you, and I adore seeing this pic of you being both handsome and beautiful.
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b0rb-RM In reply to Nittany-Tiger [2017-06-06 03:22:57 +0000 UTC]
Bless this comment tbh 👏
And aaaa My family is sorta Okay with my crosdressing in general, but im not sure how they'd react if i specifically told them about it. And right? I get that some people are into that, which is something i respect bc i mean everyone's got their own thing, but i think there are so many misconceptions and mistaken concepts presented by the media and it just clutters people's heads and gets them all confused, unfortunately. I just wanna Wear some men's flannel and cut my hair short sometimes- but that doesn't mean I want everyone to be like "Ugh you're one of /those/" or "blah blah gender roles blah blah" because that's honestly disrespectful to so many people on so many levels.
Amen to that though, dude, Sometimes it's nice to just tell gender roles and stuff to take a long walk off a short cliff and be yourself.
Thank you for your support though, it means a lot. UvU
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Nittany-Tiger In reply to b0rb-RM [2017-06-06 03:58:41 +0000 UTC]
"Sometimes it's nice to just tell gender roles and stuff to take a long walk off a short cliff and be yourself."
AMEN.
I don't mind clothing being gendered, but I really mind having to live by one gender because of my sex. I'm not happy being male all the time, and I have tried to "do away" with the desire to dress up. It made me very unhappy to say the least. I can't be happy unless I'm being myself, and that includes dressing in feminine clothing.
If we accepted the idea of people being able to be a gender that doesn't match their sex, and accepted the idea that it does no harm to society, then we would solve so many problems.
So, yeah, traditional gender roles should take a hike so humans can live fuller lives without the complexity of social norms conflicting with their preferred gender expression.
And you're welcome. I support anyone that wants to dress outside of their gender, and despite women's fashions being much more flexible, I still feel women can "crossdress," or at least be shamed for dressing like a man. For instance, a woman looking like a lumberjack or biker is probably going to be labeled a lesbian due to stereotypes and assumptions. It's the same problem MTF crossdressers face where they get labeled gay or transgender for looking like a princess, maid, or housewife. So it's hard for any crossdresser to come out of the closet, but it's wonderful once they do and find friends and partners that support them.
For the record, though, I am bisexual or pansexual and have a boyfriend that also loves to crossdress, and we both love the same things in women's fashions. It's a majorly romantic relationship, meaning we rarely want sex, but it is currently long-distance. We hope to change that soon, and we want to live together, dress up, and enjoy our lives as pretty boys in pretty dresses doing things as pretty girls and loving it. If anything, we do shatter a stereotype or assumption that we'd be extremely lewd together and dress up purely for kinks. It's more of we like to dress up to let out our inner females and let them play.
Maybe you dress to let out your inner man and let him do male things because you enjoy being masculine, but I might be wrong. Either way, you should wear the clothes you want and be the person you want because life is not worth living if you can't live it being the person you were born as.
Long post again, but I always have a lot to say on crossdressing and genderfluidity because it's such a deep topic to me.
Oh, and my middle brother and his girlfriend knows I like to put on women's clothing, but they're OK with it. My brother's GF even supports it and sometimes buys me dresses. We'd do much more shopping if we could because we both really love shopping for women's clothing and accessories.
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PrussianBlueBarbeau [2017-06-04 16:44:13 +0000 UTC]
all i gotta say is your ties look flat make the tied part of a tie thiccer
here's a visual since explaining it is hard
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also everything's a fuckin fetish kiddo
i bet if i just straight up drank water someone'd fap to that.
it's disgusting, but eh people are acting on the most animalistic instinct they got and that for some reason is sucking toes
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b0rb-RM In reply to PrussianBlueBarbeau [2017-06-04 17:57:10 +0000 UTC]
Thanks dude Ill practice that later-
Gfdi why myst i be alive tbh
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pawsomenss [2017-06-03 16:52:47 +0000 UTC]
I think it's nice that you've written this! Even if some people don't read it I did and I think it's lovely
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