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Published: 2016-02-23 11:22:29 +0000 UTC; Views: 1163; Favourites: 71; Downloads: 1
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"Just because someone like/dislike something you like/dislike, doesn't give you a right to hate, call names or shove your opinion on them. We are all different!"People: This is aimed for small situations, not big like war, abuse etc.. this is aimed for smaller situations that occours everyday on deviantART! I made this stamp because me and my friends got attacked for simply drawing something or not drawing something, and disliking something that they liked, and my friend was attacked for it.
A stamp I wanted to make for a while, and I've seen situations where I just feel it's extremely unfair and one-sided that people are being attacked for something they like or dislike, even being called names for it.
If someone like something you hate, you have no right to call that person names, yell or bully! I've seen this so much! People can draw/like/dislike what they want! If they do something you don't like, drop it, don't look at it, and move on. This is not enterily the "keep your opinion to yourself" thing, but you don't have to be so highly aggressive over it, but I'm not saying you have to not do anything, but be mature and respectful about it. Be understanding, we are all different! Some people are easier hurt than others, keep that in mind too you might ruin their day. I've even seen people threaten others to kill them if they don't change opinions.
Think before you type! Not everyone is like you!
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Oh I agree, I haven't seen the description, but as long as its harmless, doesnt put animals, people or life in danger. I think I wrote it in the description but the stamp is pretty old. Context for this stamp was regarding something that was going on where someone went on art they didnt like and commented and hated on it for the fact they didn't like it, and the art was harmless/SFW.
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I agree. If it has to do with harmless things, like art or fandom, it doesn't matter what you like.
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I honestly don't know why anyone would think like this, I'm the complete opposite, I really respect people liking different things and I don't like everyone having the same opinion as me. Because then it starts to feel like everyone else's opinion instead of my personal opinion and I don't like my opinions being too generalised. I always hope someone's favourite, movie, characters etc are different from mine, I don't mind if they are occasionally, but just not too often and I don't mind people hating on things I like at all just as long as they're not mindless haters.
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I'm not talking about having same opinions but rather respect eachother. I've seen people go out of their way to hate on something they may not like just like senseless bashing and hating on things that they went out of their way of to find, then they turn around and attack people if they say they don't like something they like. I don't mind if you like what I like or hate what I like etc... as long as you don't hate on it constantly and go out of your way to express how much you hate it - on other people's work.
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When you are in the Youtube comment section (for whatever reason) try not to even mention Undertale, Fnf, etc. or you will fecking swarmed by edgy lil shits that think that liking something with a infamous rep is SO evil yet think its A-OKAY to tell people to kill themselves/call them cancer. Sorry if you think that was a little weird/wrong, I just needed to vent. Also, I don't mind if you don't like something I don't or like something I don't like, just please be mature about it and I will mature back.
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Yes I get that but don't go on videoes with the topic you hate just to hate on it like I've seen people do. I don't go around on random videoes either saying 'I like/hate this topic'. Just because you like/hate something doesn't give you the right to vent to it onto others.
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Sorry, I didn't realise I was being rude. I'll make sure I don't do that again.
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oh no you weren't rude! I just got a bit confused by your comment
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It's okay! Everyone has a misunderstanding at least once in life!
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There was a saying I heard once that went something like; "Opinions are like assholes-- we all have one and they all stink." XD It's ok to have one, but it doesn't need to be shoved in peoples faces. :/
No one can be wrong for liking something that makes them happy. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the big deal? People need to learn how to move on. I think you did the right thing by making this stamp, it brings attention to an issue without causing a huge flame war.
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That's a very good saying though XD It's very true!
But indeed, some people don't seem to allow others to have opinions, while they are extremely hateful to anyone showing signs of disapproving (hinting to the incident from the description). Hopefully people will be less extreme when it comes to opinions in the future. Opinions are not facts.
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Amen!
If only everyone listened...
This is absolutely fabulous by the way, and I'm glad you made it. Not enough people listen to this message, but I have a feeling the more they see it, the more likely they will learn to.
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thank goodness were all different the world would be a boring place otherwise v_v
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My feelings get hurt really easily and people take advantage of it. Some say "Grow a backbone!", "Stop being such a pushover!", or something like that. While it may be easy for them, it isn't easy for other people and I am one of those people. And even though I may try not to let it effect me, it does and has made me question my selfworth. I go by the simple rule of "Treat others how you wish to be treated." as then I can justify snapping at someone if they decide to be a bully as they would have showed me they wish to be treated in a similar way. I often see things differently to most and that has led to unkind comments. As a result I don't trust easily or let those kind of details slip unless I 100% trust that person. However, what brings some sort of relief is knowing that those that name call and bully over the internet are simply cowards behind a screen. As in all due honesty I doubt they would say it face to face.
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Actually, that's not what the "treat others how you wish to be treated" term works. It means that even if someone is a bully, you should not bully them back, and show them a different way of being mature despite what they say to not go to their level. Being bullied doesn't justify you being a bully.
Anyway, sadly that's how it is on the internet. There are good people out there, and bad. It's impossible to know how they are offline since having 'unpopular' opinions or rude opinions seem to get a lot of attention.
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I wouldn't go so far to say I bully them back. What I mean by "snap" is I simply request them to back off. Or I ignore them completely if I feel that I can't reason with them. But I never would name call as I know words hurt. Take that as bullying if you like but I do it to prevents myself getting into a fight. 
Sadly I saw lots of that and experienced it myself. It is why I don't really take part in online conversations anymore
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It seemed you meant it a different way, but okay then.
Well it'll be around no matter where you go, you just have to cope with it.
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Sadly that is a fault I own. I oftenly put things in a way they could be taken the wrong way so it was my fault you saw it differently.
Yep I am aware.
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That's so cool. Can I repost this on my Tumblr?
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Thank you!
And I'd rather have you link to this and not repost x3
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Ok and thank you again
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If anything I agree with this!
This is so true and have seen it myself happen. It's quite terrible and can truly hurt someone just like you said.
Just cause something you say is different to someone else doesn't mean you have to get at each other because the opinion on something is different.
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Thank you! Indeed, I've seen people be attacked simply because they said their opinion and rechieved death threats x.x
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Too right! Oh my gosh! •0• Death threats are far too much! Why would someone do that? That is the most absurd thing to do because someone has a different opinion! D:
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yep, this was posted on a stamp about fictional characters.
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Oh...my god! OAO
How horrid! How can someone say that and not feel regret for it! Do they literally have no heart? That's absolutely....I have no words to express myself right now after reading that! That's just cruel to say to anyone!
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What if their likes/dislikes and beliefs hurt people like homophobia or transphobia, racism etc.
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It still doesn't give you right to flame and yell at people. Yes, racism is bad and so is the other you've said, but it still doesn't give me a right to "put them down".
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So people hurt and abused by peoole like that should just--
Sit there and take it? Do and say nothing. Kiss their bullies ass. Sorry but no thanks.
Respect and fair treatment are earned in this world not given, especially when someones actions and views like that actually hurt and kill people
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Look in the description. I didn't say you couldnt say anything, but be mature and don't threaten to kill people, which I've seen happen quite frequently around here on dA.
Don't get me wrong! I am completly with you on this, it's not a right thing to do, but people are going to hate/dislike everything, and make fun of everything even such things as that, but yelling, starting flame wars and yell is not the way to go about it. This stamp isnt enterily covering that aspect of the 'opinion' part though, and wasnt intended to.
I'm also pointing to the whole "Steven Universe" incident where someone was bullied simply because of a fanart and attempted suicide.
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Oh well that's a little different, i don't support people threatening violence either and have been on the recieving end of that a couple times myself, i tend to not take it seriously because, well, it's the internet and the chances of someone literally spending all that time effort and money just to even try to find me let alone come to me to attack me is very very slim, but i do get that.
I'm more or less referring to people who post toxic hurtful content, comments, etc, especially on the topic of human rights and animal welfare.
I agree though in regards to personal likes/dislikes regarding shows, movies, games, music, pairings etc because that really is just a matter of preference and doesn't hurt anyone, i was again referring to huge issues like i mentioned
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I could show you some screenshots I took of such cases, then you can probably see where I'm coming from for this (blurring the names of course)
And indeed, it is the internet, and people will do and post offensive things because they know they'll be stirring trouble, sadly you can't do much about that.
Yes, of course I know what you're saying here, but that wasn't the purpose of this stamp. Of course those who are hurtful to animals and humans are 'bad' people, but that still doesn't mean you can yell, threaten their lives and so on.... But telling them they deserve to die, burn in hell etc... doesn't exactly make you look any more mature.
Yes, but that's more what this stamp is about though, at least the intentions when I made it.
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well, in my opinion,bullies will and deserve to be ridiculed and called out on their shit. And I do it all the time, I don't say i'm going to kill them, or that they should die. but as someone who HAS attempted suicide and is always depressed because of the homophobic and transphobic content here and things that have been directly said to me I don't really care if someone like that's feelings are hurt because they don't care about hurting others.
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Again, I don't think you got what I tried to say (I'm not good at explaining...)
Yes, they do need to be called out, in a respectful and mature manner. Of course there are bad people, I'm not saying everyone is good, equal and right in their opinions. Sadly, that's just how internet is, but if you can react in a more mature manner than a negative one and stay respectful despite what they may or may not say is better than the other way around. This is the internet, that's just how it is.
But this,
isn't okay either! (And they're talking about a fictional character here someone made)
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