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Published: 2019-05-25 18:42:06 +0000 UTC; Views: 9718; Favourites: 37; Downloads: 15
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So this is a comic I'm doing for myself to help me deal with some of the crap that comes with being a transwoman. No, it's not BDSM oriented or like my other stuff. This one is just for me.Related content
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That is terrible that you have to deal with that.Β
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*hugs deeply* sometimes I say generic "guys" when talking about my friends, even a majority female group... but yes, we should have more non-gendered terms for an assortment of friends
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*Hugs tight* Agreed, though I really just want to be gendered the way I'm presenting.
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*nods* totally understand, and I hate that my brain just tries to trick me into thinking it's a gender-neutral term =.=
But I am aware of my failing and trying to do better. Often now I go for "folks" or the simpsons "fokels!"
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What a silly response from that guy! I sincerely hope it went better next morning.
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The next day was certainly better, but I cried that night.
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*feels sorry for her and sends a warm and caring hug*
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*accepts and returns in the warm hug* ^.^
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Oh... Yeah... I've had that experience. Pretty much word for word. Wasn't what I was expecting to relive when I tumbled out of bed this morning, but well done.
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I'm sorry. Hurts like hell and follows you around long after.
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Oooh! I love that outfit! She is so well put together!
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Thank you, I wear that one in autumn when it's a little less toasty~
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I love how well the colors go together!
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Ouf, that has got to hurt, I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of thing
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a relatable and powerful emotional experience, I'll always see the truth of your being and speak by it, sis, cause I can relate to the pain misgendering brings to a transperson
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I know you can honey. I'm sorry either of us have to deal with this crap.
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solidarity with you on that for sure
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Solidarity, my sister.
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Man, woman, transitioning between the two, doesnβt matter to me. youβre still human!
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Gender identity to a transperson is about more than simply being a person. It's affirming who we are against who we've been told we are.
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Hulk voice: "I see this as an absolute win! 
What I'm getting from this world in four panels is that it's a place where a trans person can holler to a random dude-bro on the street and not get stares or flagrant insults.Β
I like it!
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It's the real world. And this is based on the way I've been greeted by men on and off since transitioning. This is not a positive thing.
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ehh. Sometimes it is hard to tell what someone's identity is on first glance. You have to give people the chance to get it wrong.
For example, I'm not trans in any way shape or form. I don't dress differently. I don't simply feel the need. and yet, i am confused with the opposite gender all the time. '
Some people just aren't very perceptive, or they pick up on something you may not realize tells them you are a man.Β Some men crossdress, and PREFER to be called men.
me? I won't judge you. I have too many trans friends to get away with that. I am happy in my body. If you aren't happy in yours, you fix it. This is not a bad thing.Β But damn, it is frustrating sometimes to be mistaken for something you are not.
but it is going to happen. You can't let the idiots determine your emotional state. Are you happy being you? THAT is what is important.Β Sometimes we have to shrug, 'bitch' or 'ass' and just move on.
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Not a good feeling. Ever.
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More like I forgot to colour them in.
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either way, try to hang in there bud
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Don't call a woman 'bud'.
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buddy isn't gender neutral?
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Certainly isn't how I'd refer to another woman.
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I always call women Mam, Lady or if in a social situation, Young Lady.Β Β All I have heard my wife refer to women over these thirty eight years is by name, Bitch or something along those lines.Β When she talks to me she says names, then I have to respond with Who is that to which she gives me a ten minute instruction.Β You really, really do not want to know how she referred to her last female boss.
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I'll keep that in mindΒ
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Actual experience. Didn't feel very good. Never does.
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I'm glad it had the intended emotional impact!
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