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Published: 2015-06-13 07:55:12 +0000 UTC; Views: 24567; Favourites: 612; Downloads: 10
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Men have problems. Women have problems. Men and women are people. People should matter equally.Now why is that so hard to understand? Feminists are quick to counter any mention of men's issues with "b-but male privilege!" As if that diminishes the severity of men's issues, including:
-high suicide rates
-low access to domestic violence shelters
-increasing numbers of high school and university dropouts
-prostate cancer
-overwhelming majority of the homeless population
-longer prison sentences
-anti-male bias in family and divorce courts
-huge majority of workplace deaths
-majority of veterans suffering from PTSD
-and much, much more.
Does "male privilege" make those problems go away? Do they not matter just because women have problems, too, which feminists deem automatically worse because 'patriarchy'? Screaming "privilege" doesn't help the veteran about to kill himself because the family courts took his children from him. Screaming "privilege" just lets feminists get away with ignoring him.
And even if privilege did negate people's problems, most of the feminists screaming 'privilege' should just shut up because they're white and have "white privilege" and black people have it worse.
Yes, I know, "intersectionality," "power politics," "oppression of women," other buzzwords yada yada yada. But feminists crashing conferences about the male suicide epidemic, shutting down shelters for men, and throwing a hissy fit when a Men and Boys focus team is proposed to address dropout rates isn't helping anyone at all.
And no, you can't just blame it on the "patriarchy."
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Indeed.
-Men CAN be raped and sexually harassed by women.
-Men CAN by domestically abused by women.
-Men ARE subject to societal prejudice.
And, yes, saying "b-b-but patriarchy" is NOT a vaild response.Β One reason is that the patriarchy has also set up certain standards for men that they all have to (apparently) fit.
A man is someone who...
-Is able to subsist on a diet of barbecued meat and beer.
-Never shows any emotion besides anger or indifference (and they ESPECIALLY never feel sadness or fear)
-Has sex whenever they want, however they want, with whoever they want.
-Goes hunting each weekend, or gets shipped off to war.Β Either way, they never feel guilty about taking a life.
-Joins the NFL and has a perfect never-miss career.
Because of these stereotypes, men are either ignored or denied help they SHOULD be getting because patriarchy says they should just handle it themselves, or they just bottle up their negative emotions and let them fester inside them.
The sooner people understand all this, the sooner the world can make a more positive change.
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All these have roots either in some innate tendencies that are stronger in males or the patriarchal society that most cultures have been based on. The issues feminism tries to tackle are not antithetical to better conditions for males. The victim mentality you people have are ridiculous.
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Might use.
Male/Female? You do matter!
Black, White, Red, Brown, Yellow, Child, Teen, Adult, Young, Old, you matter!
If someone says you don't matter, then something is wrong with them! Don't listen to them!
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I am amazed how many people are arguing about it on comments.
I am not afraid of gender equality. I am afraid of the gender inequality that groups of women-not all of them-are pushing
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Please just... Close the Comments
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what i have neede in my hole entire life i am so glad that this is here to rest my case about all the whines women do about men gosh i hate what women do to men is awfull
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It is not contradictory to feminism to say that men's issues matter.Β
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a lot of men's problems are.... from other men
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You aren't the specific cause of another's problem? Then fuck 'em.
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a lot of womens problems are.... from other women
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....and men
....and society's standards they are forced to follow
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....yes, but also a good chunk, if not a majority sometimes, comes from other womenΒ Β
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mmm, no, not really.
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I disagree, but this sort of thing is more based on opinion rather than statistics because of a lack of gendered statistic reports, but as with most things its 100% a case by case thing with no definitive answerΒ Β Β
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WHAT AN ANTI-SJW MENINIST MESS THIS BECAME YIKES YIKES YIKES
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Ah, so I guess slut-shaming is a-okay. After all, the overwhelming majority of perpetrators are women.
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HOOOO BOy a re you fuc kign
First all I never said women werent? But ur using women slut shaming as an excuse rn lmao. Women were taught by men to hate each other, you dimwit. I never even said mens issues didnt exist, either.Β
But most issues men face are bc of men lmao??? Violence,masculinity, bullying for being weak, etc against men are often bc of men LOL nice try tho. You really thought
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First of all - women are not taught by men to hate each other. As a fellow woman I can confirm this myself. The hatred and distrust of other women comes from an instinctual drive in order to dominate and place ourselves higher above competition. Educate yourself. "Bullying for being weak, masculinity." - These issues are heavily reflected off of how women treat them as well. You've obviously haven't been out in the world long hun because if you were then you'd soon see how wrong your statement is. "When was the last time you saw a woman spit in a man's face and call him a pussy." About as many times as I've taken to calling other women cunts for being cunts. *Shrugs* Which happens frequently if you couldn't tell by how done I am with our gender's bullshit and attempt to shift society into a hyena - esque matriarch
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WTF lmao this comment is months old but ignoring that y'all really dont have to but in.
men are responsible for slut-shaming so dont try overriding that bc its true and like,,, women can bully men for being weak but the whole? Masculinity movement? was started by men?
i cant even read this faux-intellectual paragraph right here mon yr gonna have to help me out
but okay, what the fuck are u on OP
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Probably because due to your grammar and lack of common sense in the world you don't have the capacity to. But that's okay 
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hhnsnsnnnnghyd ahgsgahs my grammar? ive literally been learning english for like ten years ?
can y'all set ur writing into paragraphs i cant fuckin read that bro. like idc if a man got called a pussy once cuz he cant throw a ball, im more set on the fact that masculinity is violent
like theres tons of sources proving it pal...
and yeah, calling that woman a slut is an act of violence and slut shaming, but the context has literally nothing to do with the rest of my comment and makes u look like a violent impatient ass instead of telling her to leave off :/
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So if I call another woman a slut what am I then? If she was really comfortable in her lifestyle she shouldn't care about being called a slut. Everyone gets judged daily for what they do with their life, how they raise their children, what food they eat. Why should her lifestyle choices being judged matter anymore than mine or others?
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because slut is a derogatory word u fucking dolt???? oh my god, a simple google search can prove that?
its a social construct binch
what food they eat lmao like im a vegetarian and if someone eats a bacon roll next to me im not gonna give them a swift jab in the forehead and tell them theyre a dirty meat-eating fuckΒ
bc if they were truly comfortable with their life style, they wouldnt care if id given them a swift jab in the forehead
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Dick and douche is as well but men are still called that. I call other women cunts when they deserve it am I just as bad as men? If they can't handle criticism or petty comments then they really shouldn't go out.
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......cunt is a slur? its a fucking slur?? dick and douche are words men get called when they cheat on their girl and arent slurs bc they arent used to dehumanise men agdhshdnhdn
"If they can't handle criticism or petty comments then they really shouldn't go out." ??Β
1. calling someone a slut and then punching them in the face isn't... criticism? its not a petty comment? cant u just tell her to leave y'all alone instead of yknow punching them in the face
2. oh my god when i go out i dont expect to be punched in the face and called a slur... this is gross victim blaming OP what the fuck are you on about
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If you come up to my man and hope to sleep with him knowing full well he has a girlfriend then yes - I'm going to punch you in the face and probably strangle you with your ovarian tubes for intruding on my territory. My man wont fall for your charm but it doesn't mean you should go unpunished by me for being so disrespectful as to pursue a taken man. If you want to sleep around with as many single guys as possible be my guest. As long as they're single and you're not intruding on anything by doing so. Cunt is a slur - that's my point. I still call other women cunts when they deserve it and I've been called plenty of things as well. I don't get offended so why should other women? If they're happy in their lifestyle then they should enjoy it and stop caring about what other people think. I'm sorry that they're so insecure that they can't take an ounce of judgement even though plenty of people get judged every day for even the littlest details about themselves.
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what the fuck are you talking aboutΒ
what the fuck are you talking aboutΒ
okay ignoring the fact that ur bringing up me sleeping with ur husband (?? im a minor? this is sexualisation??) im just so stumped as how you typed this out and though 'lol rekt' and posted submit comment.... like stop making new ass examples to win the argument ur having with a big bad feminist uwu
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Read and maybe you'll understand. Or is that to complicated for you?
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im gettin real sick of yall passive aggressive patronising nonsense
can u like read the comment again bc i edited it lmao
still, ur trash
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How? Because I believe other women should grow thick skin and just carry on with their lives?
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you: uhghsbvn fdbnfh
okay you know what? what the fuck
like you gladly talk about how ur gonna punch someone in the face, call them a slur, then strangle them, then tell them 2 grow thick skin, like hunty, maybe its u that needs thick skin bc im a minor and ur talking about murder and situations that a married woman prob shouldnt talk about all so u can win an argument online
lmao
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When did I say that? Learn how to read xD I said that if a woman ever comes up to a taken man then she deserves to get punched and strangled. That - in my eyes would be a slut. However - if you enjoy sleeping around with other single people then good for you. If other people call you a slut for it then just ignore them. If you're confident enough in your lifestyle then you shouldn't care what people say. Did that dumb it down enough for you? Because I'm prepared to resort to simple toddler rhymes if needed.
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'xD' ive already won this argument i guess
1. okay but thats ur mans fault abdhshdn so why would u punch and strangle and dehumanise a woman but not ur man
2. can u pls stop implying i sleep with ppl its getting p creepy
3. or maybe you could just not call people slut? crazy how that works
4. tbh even if u did the toddler rhymes id still be 100% fucking useless at decoding this message pal might as well resort to morse code
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So no sweetheart - you didn't win.
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"Guess I've won this argument I guess."
"Okay but that's ur man's fault." No - if we wasn't receptive to her advances and she continued doing so which one woman did at one point and I had to intervene it isn't his fault. I'm fully prepared to teach another woman a lesson if she oversteps her boundaries.
"Can you pls stop implying I sleep with people." I didn't - I used "you." as an example for other people.
"Maybe you could just not call people a slut." The only women I'll call sluts are the ones who try to hit on my husband. Any others who sleep with single men I'm perfectly fine with.
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what are you on op
yea it is ur mans fault for fuckin sleepin with her tho im not gonna comment on this before cus ive told u this twice now im a minor and i dont want to engage in a conversation about ur sleeping schedule
just stop. like now
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Sorta like how I'm teaching you one right now :3 Bitch
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yeah no ignoring the fact that ur a fully grown adult human using ':3' can you not call me a bitch thanksΒ Β
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And you're a bratty child arguing with an adult who clearly knows more about the world than you do.
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me: dont call me a bitch and dont use language that im clearly not interested in talking about right now
you: YEAH but im an ADULT?????? :3 xD im an adult bitch you cant disrespect me lol xD despite that we have different worldviews im right ur rong :3
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You basically told me that I'm wrong for my own world view so why can't I do the same for you?
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