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Ritsulquiorra In reply to Hafu-Inuyasha [2011-11-07 23:33:30 +0000 UTC]

Are you kidding me? You actually wouldn't care if your wife was cheating on you if it was with a girl?? Y'know, people usually marry when they're in love. Normal people would feel kinda hurt, dude.

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Hafu-Inuyasha In reply to Ritsulquiorra [2011-11-08 02:16:11 +0000 UTC]

Nope! I would actually get turned on and probably jump in and help the other girl to please my wife..

People marry as a sign of love I agree, but people also share and openly do certain things out of love and or love of seeing their partner happy..
Besides for me as long as it's not another guy, I have no problem..

The real question is; Is a normal person really a person who has been conditioned to what society has labeled as right or taboo?
Human beings are social creatures, we are meant to interact with others.
Religious people tend to say if you have sex with more then one person you're going to go to hell, but let me ask you this; when dogs or other animals mate with more then one male or female does that mean all of them are hell bound? Is it wrong when animals have more then one sexual partner?
Lets face it humans may be a superior creature in the world of animals, but in truth we are nothing more then animals also..
We too need to eat, breath, sleep, and mate...


Of course "Cheating" is wrong, there is still a fine line that could exist in that extent though..
If she was to cheat on me with another girl, I wouldn't be too hurt, but that's due to my beliefs in life..
If she was to cheat on me with another guy, things would be very different due to the same beliefs..
But again it would be different if she wanted to have sex with another guy, and I was agreeing with it...
Consent isn't cheating, but cheating with a likely consent isn't so bad...


I hope this made sense to you..

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Ritsulquiorra In reply to Hafu-Inuyasha [2011-11-08 20:47:34 +0000 UTC]

Well, no, it makes sense. But that just makes you a pig, kinda, don't mean to be rude. Even if you'd be okay with it, if it was unexpected then she didn't have permission and it's cheating. :/
It's not "cheating" if they have consent.
Oh, I don't care about the "going to hell" thing, I'm not religious. It's just, even if you're into lesbians, the person you're married to betraying your trust would hurt your feelings or I don't feel it's really love.
I hate when people say that we're the exact same as animals, though, because humans have developed their brains in different ways, to the point where we have created a technological society that no other species could replicate. Humans have what other animals don't have; the ability to overcome our nature. Otherwise humans would do just whatever comes to mind. Like, if someone pissed them off they'd attack them. An animal would. But people have the ability to not just act on nature. Yes, animals have feelings just like us but we can comprehend things in a way that they never will be able to.

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Hafu-Inuyasha In reply to Ritsulquiorra [2011-11-09 01:19:37 +0000 UTC]

lol I wouldn't say I'm a pig, I would just say that I am embracing of my nature and natural beliefs..
Life is full of unexpected things, if everything was according to expectation, life would just be flat out dull..
I'll give you this; "Cheating" is wrong, but something that is done within the probably consensual isn't so bad..

I'm glad you don't care about the "going to hell" thing because its just ridiculous!

I can't say that I'm "into" lesbians, I mean sure the idea is hot, but the reality is (to be anyways..) with lesbians I stand no chance of being part of the fun. I much over prefer bi-sexuality.
But with that said, one sided love does exist..
So yes cheating is still the betrayal of a romantic trust, bond and or agreement of ones relationship.
But it's a whole different thing if my wife knew that I would be ok with her having sexual relations with another female and then surprised with a walking in on encounter.
If you already knew that it wouldn't be a big deal, it kind of stands as a loop hole, and can still be in the boundary of not betraying a relationships "love".


You're right, we are far more superior compared to "animals" in terms of mind development and technologically developed cities and yes even our abilities to comprehend complicated matters.
BUT! To say we are not animal is silly.
A person is a intelligent creature, but people are stupid animals with a fine line in difference when compared to what we deem as "animals"..

While humans do have the ability to overcome our natures and to act civilised, many people "don't"..
Many people today do just that! When pissed off they do attack another, when they're hungry enough they'll fight and even kill another to fulfill that need.
In terms of our "animal instincts" they may be less animalistic then most "animals" and even less then our ancestors, but it still does exist within all of us, and my point is more people then you think still act more like animals then intelligent, comprehensive beings that differ enough from a animal to be considered a non-animal.



lol But educated theories and concepts even scientific thinking aside. We all have our own outlooks and opinions.
I may not live up to many people's standards in life, but lets face it, many people don't live up to mine neither.
To me, as long as we all can go about our lives, living it to the fullest without disrupting another persons flow in this existence, that's all that matters.

In contrast to our topic of humans and animals, if I walked in on my wife having sex with another girl and I was fine with it, even if it was "Cheating" it wouldn't disrupt my flow much, and so everything is all fine and good.
My free spirit and carefree mind state may not be for everyone but the way I see it is life is WAY to short to lose your flow so to speak over something so little in importance.
(We too are just animals to some extent after all! lol)

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Ritsulquiorra In reply to Hafu-Inuyasha [2011-11-09 20:53:36 +0000 UTC]

If her cheating on a girl wouldn't bug you but a guy would, it does kinda make you a pig actually. x'D
Well, unless you've talked about it you can't be SURE they'd be okay with it. So it's still the same to me.
Yes, I agree, I think the concept of Hell is ridiculous lol. I really can't believe it still has a place in today's day and age.. of course, surprisingly, there are some religions that are even more ridiculous. O.o
Animals are smart in their own way, too. But we think in a way they cannot.
And I said we have the ABILITY to overcome that nature, therefore implying that not all humans choose to use that ability.
Well, your outlook is yours, I guess. As long as everybody's happy. I don't have to worry about your views on this because I'm not married to you lol! x'D Hope you find a wifey someday that makes your dreams come true. <3 Good luck!!

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Angel2012 In reply to trophywife1 [2011-03-06 05:08:41 +0000 UTC]

XD!!! thats funny!!

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ChAoTh In reply to trophywife1 [2011-01-19 17:22:41 +0000 UTC]

LOL!^^

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