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Published: 2011-10-12 23:35:22 +0000 UTC; Views: 593; Favourites: 15; Downloads: 0
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This is just something that's been bugging me for a while...And it's not the best quality of a drawing ><
"Oh. I don't Mind it, I support them. I just don't want to see it."
Oh Really? Well if you don't want to see it... doesn't that mean you mind it?
I understand if you were born in raised to believe we are "disgraceful" and I understand if you Don't like it, and I understand if you are ok with it it's just uncomfortable right now. It's HARD to change what you were grown to KNOW. I get it.
but for the (what i think hypocritical) People, if you say "oh idm i just dont want to see it." It hurts. It makes me think that Everyone that says "oh I support gays" really means "Go Gays!... Oh wait... You're gay? wtf thats wierd gtfo..." I know some of them don't mean it Like That, but that's what I hear. :/ It hurts, and it causes me to not want to hug my girlfriend it makes me not want to touch her, like I need to avoid her or someone will "unintentionally" treat us differently.
It only takes one person and Moment to hurt someone.
So this is just "rant" art I guess... But for those who think it is cute on tv but gross in real life. get used to it. it's going to be everywhere. open your mind, and get over it
it's going to be hard, but try and be open to seeing it, as well as knowing it.
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I wish people could just be more accepting! My mom is taking me to counseling because she doesn't think I'm thinking "STRAIGHT" enough... I'm so tired of false support...
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Aww damn :/ good luck sweety. Hope its not too dreadful.
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God i LOVE YOU. I really hate the most when people always promote it online and shit but in real life "Lolwut gays nur "
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haha i'm glad you understand (;
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I completely agree. I get it if people don't approve of gays/lesbians because that's what they were raised to believe, but it pisses me off when people are like "Oh! I completely support homosexual relationships!" then make a big deal about a couple holding hands, hugging, kiss on the cheek, etc...
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Sorry, but I think it's just a little immature what you're saying in the artist's comments. Just because I don't want to see two guys going at it doesn't mean I'm "out to get them".
You wouldn't see me picking fights with gays/transsexuals/whatever out in clubs and whatnot.
You wouldn't hear me preaching about how they (and others) should or should not live their lives.
You wouldn't see me casting my vote at the ballot box for anti-gay legislation.
And this is all because I am tolerant.
But that does NOT mean that I personally agree with it, nor does it mean, as generic an example as it is, that I should have to *want* to see two men playing tonsil hockey in public places. If it's okay to shout "Get a room!" at a straight couple being publicly indecent, why is it somehow regarded as hate speech when someone says the same thing to a gay or lesbian couple? That's not exactly what most rational people call equality.
You seem to be forgetting one VERY important thing...which is, ironically, the very argument that the LGBT community uses to defend itself: One cannot control his or her sexual preferences.
It is something that is ingrained into us genetically. I can't help finding women attractive, any more than you can't help finding attractive whatever it is that you do. I'm sure there of plenty of lesbians out there who flinch at the very sight of a phallus, or similarly, gays who get grossed out about women. So why should WE have to *want* to see homosexual activity when we are predisposed to tend toward heterosexual activity? You're imposing your sexuality on us, just as you accuse us of having been doing to you for centuries.
No offense, but if you want to see where all the hypocrisy surrounding this issue is coming from, you might want to consult a mirror.
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No no, you're getting at different point of it. I am saying something of a "peck on the cheek". i do hate it when i see two people straight or gay making out. I do not mean it as though gay people are practically having sex in the hallways. Just a peck on the cheek will make people treat it as a big deal. Truly, i am not forcing anything on anyone. I just wish instead of saying gross, to something innocent, that they instead just turn their head. But i understand if you don't want to see it, it is gross if you aren't used to it. And unfortunately hypocrisy is a quality found in everyone.
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Ah ok, I see what you're saying. Either I didn't read your comments thoroughly enough or you didn't specify as such, but yeah, a peck on the cheek, an embrace, holding hands...those should be perfectly acceptable public displays of affection regardless of sexual orientation.
I thought your deviation was more a stab at the people on dA who speak up and say that they're sick of seeing yaoi/yuri on every other page...and then get accused of being homophobes, even though they explain ahead of time that they have nothing against homosexuals' lifestyles.
I see WAY too much of that on this site so I just kind of assumed that's what this was about. Sorry for misunderstanding.
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Haha, it's all right (:
And it is a bit over published :I So i can understand.
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I know right?! It drives me crazy x)
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me too all of my friends are like this there always like i support gays and then as they see to guys hug or hold hands the freak out
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I know right?! my friends will be all "Aww two guys are hugging thats so cute," and then when two girls to it they flip out :I and i would assume its the same way for guys.
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wow.the world is just a messed up place and why is it ok for guys to do it but not girls?
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cause on a girls point of view its cute for guys. cause they're all yaoi flipouts
and on guys its "sexy" for girls to be together while its horrible if a guys are gay.
:I and it is. but, for everything someone loves someone will loathe. and for something someone doesn't think much about someone will think its the most amazing/horrible thing ever. but that's the mind, its hard to understand. sometimes i just wanna rip off peoples heads cause i don't understand them that much x}
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