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Fradga β€” Internet Dating

Published: 2014-06-13 11:53:02 +0000 UTC; Views: 4972; Favourites: 48; Downloads: 13
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Description How far would you go to be loved? To be accepted for who you are? To get to hear for the first time in your life that you are beautiful when your whole life you have been told that you are a disgusting freak?
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sizzlinlizzy [2014-06-13 20:16:08 +0000 UTC]

What a lot of back-and-forth without touching on the actual art here.

I really really <3 your art -- the lines, the color blocks, and the subject -- what kind of media, is that actual watercolor?

Also, regarding the question -- the answer is "as far as it takes* to love and be loved.

*While still keeping your own integrity -- don't change for somebody, unless you decide that you really want to.Β 

BTW, there's something quite attractive about a fat woman eating pizza after pizza while browsing and chatting on the Internet.

OTOH, seeing that she's apparently chatting with (or viewing pictures of) a nude person on the screen, and I just noticed there's a kid in the doorway watching.Β  There's something about that which seems to cross a boundary for me.Β  Am I seeing that correctly?Β  I'd like to hear the artist's statement about what this picture seeks to convey....

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Fradga In reply to sizzlinlizzy [2014-06-13 21:23:31 +0000 UTC]

Thank you very much for all the compliments.Β 

The painting above is made in water colors and sepia colored calligraphy ink. The latter was not optimal to make outlines with, thereof the smudginess of said outlines.Β 

She is editing a picture of herself, but that is hardly obvious from the picture.

This painting is the latest I have made in a series of images of people with obesity in various contexts and situations. I did not
personally intend them to be pornographic or sexually suggestive, although that is in the eye of the beholder. The pictures try to portray mechanisms both in society at large and within families, surrounding addictions, codependency, enabling, body ideals and so on. The fact that obesity is the topic is mostly because it is easy to visualize (drug addicts or people with generally bad self esteem might not necessarily look different from the rest of the population), and probably because it is very interesting for me to draw people with this body type.Β I see overweight as a symptom of a lot of other things that are wrong in Western society today and thereby a grateful subject to work with.Β 

The picture tries to portray how the immaturities, insecurities and self destructive behaviors of parents burden their children, thereof the girls presence. Β Β 

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BorisFedorov [2014-06-13 16:56:33 +0000 UTC]

That's how I feel about the concept, like there are many ways to find a date without using the internet. Go outside, enjoy the sunshine.

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Fradga In reply to BorisFedorov [2014-06-13 17:12:48 +0000 UTC]

I myself (I am actually very shy) have done a lot of Internet dating. There is a good way and a bad way of doing everything. But getting out in the sunshine is never wrong.

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BorisFedorov In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 17:36:59 +0000 UTC]

Understand, and I'm sorry that I judged you.

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Fradga In reply to BorisFedorov [2014-06-13 18:00:42 +0000 UTC]

I am not upset Internet dating is a swamp. I take no offense in anyone using harsh words on the subject.Β 

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BorisFedorov In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 19:12:48 +0000 UTC]

Understand, but you never pick on somebody due to their weakness

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Fradga In reply to BorisFedorov [2014-06-13 19:25:22 +0000 UTC]

You are so nice, Boris.

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BorisFedorov In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 19:32:10 +0000 UTC]

Thank's, like I have a bad habit of stuttering when I talk, so it's all even

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Fradga In reply to BorisFedorov [2014-06-13 20:36:44 +0000 UTC]

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KillThePaint [2014-06-13 11:54:05 +0000 UTC]

eww thats disgusting XD

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Fradga In reply to KillThePaint [2014-06-13 12:28:27 +0000 UTC]

Humans in general are disgusting.

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KillThePaint In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 13:54:35 +0000 UTC]

no theyre not, stop putting billions of people in the same category it makes you look dumb

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canadian-anim8r In reply to KillThePaint [2014-06-13 15:02:57 +0000 UTC]

you Β just put this pictures subject into a category when you know nothing about them...ergo, you're just as bad as the person you just criticized

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KillThePaint In reply to canadian-anim8r [2014-06-13 15:17:48 +0000 UTC]

oh watch out we got anime loser here, grab your fedoras everyone
you all wapanese faggots commit suicide, thats popular in the pedophilecartoon land too so follow their trends and go harakiri bitch

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Fradga In reply to KillThePaint [2014-06-13 16:47:12 +0000 UTC]

Yayayayayaya

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Fradga In reply to canadian-anim8r [2014-06-13 15:12:38 +0000 UTC]

Well, personally I think better of myself as being a general misanthrope rather than blurting out stuff about fat people being yucky and other pubertal little noises but that is just me.

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canadian-anim8r In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 18:14:11 +0000 UTC]

i was criticizing killthepoint, not you lol

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Fradga In reply to canadian-anim8r [2014-06-13 18:46:21 +0000 UTC]

While I am not trying to start a fight with you, for the sake of prudence you did say he was just as bad as the person he criticized. That could be interpreted in at least two ways 1) His argumentation and overall reasoning is generally below all criticism, (that I would agree with) or 2) That we are both jerks who makes improper generalizations on large groups of people. Now i hope you mean number 1. Β 

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canadian-anim8r In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 19:51:56 +0000 UTC]

ok something was lost in translation here lol. What i mean is, HE'S being the crappy person by critisizing someone for a superfluous reason lol. I meant this because, well i know plenty of people who only date online, its their only real option, and his comment was being critical of people like that, ergo my comment was implying that he's the asshole for hating on people like that, theres nothing wrong with the people who resort to online.Β 

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Fradga In reply to canadian-anim8r [2014-06-13 21:25:26 +0000 UTC]

Well, then I totally agree with you. I read what he wrote more like he hates all fat people, Internet dating or not but that is just as pathetic so it does not matter. Β 

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canadian-anim8r In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 23:48:31 +0000 UTC]

i just felt like if you dont like something, why bother looking, or commenting, or getting into a bloody argument about it...

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Fradga In reply to canadian-anim8r [2014-06-14 00:41:59 +0000 UTC]

I suppose he was drawn to what he hates...

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Fradga In reply to KillThePaint [2014-06-13 14:01:58 +0000 UTC]

Yayayayayaya.

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KillThePaint In reply to Fradga [2014-06-13 15:34:19 +0000 UTC]

yeah thats right ingore everything and keep drawing gross fatties you sick fuck

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Fradga In reply to KillThePaint [2014-06-13 15:55:35 +0000 UTC]

Yayayayayayayaya

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