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I had a rough day but I don't need help.I talked with my parents about it and Im doing a little better.

This is a quick description for self harm and I hope this helps but Im not speaking the words of a professional so do keep that in mind.

Hey Guys I noticed that alot of my friends commit self harm in some way and to be honest it scares me.
Its messed up to hear peopleing saying how it makes them feel comfortable or they'll go insane if they don't cut.It literally sounds insane when they say it.It also brings down the mood when people post pictures of there cuts online and say that this is what the world did to them.Its sad and scary.So Im going to try to help with this and hopefully it will.(or why to stop)

Why to stop cutting

4.Someone out there dose care for you

Please remember that there are people that care for you.Everyone just can't hate you all at once.There are people just like you who want help or someone to understand them.Remember the world is not better off without you.If you keep hurting yourself,your just letting those people down that do care for you.So try to open up and tell somebody you trust and see what they say.

3.By conflicting self harm to yourself,everybody that has ever been mean or hurts you,wins.

Bullies want you to react and cutting yourself is showing that they are winning.Your basically giving them the attention they want.If you issues with bullies at your school then go tell a teacher or the school counselor so that they can try to fix it.If your parents abuse you at home then go seek help from an adult you trust.

2.Their not even worth it

The people who drove you into cutting aren't worth it.Like with four,your just showing that there winning and I highly doubt you want that.You don't even care for them,so why are you cutting in the first place?I don't have to much to explain on this one but you get my point.

1.Cutting scars on your arms/legs will only remind you of that sad time of your life whenever you look at them or somebody points them out

The last thing you probably want to do,is remember all of those times when you were bullied.Those scars are like bad memory's you can't move on from.I see how this helps people move on and show that their a survivor and got though it but that doesn't help all the time.You can't undo those scars and they'll most likely never go away.The only way to not see them is to wear long sleeve shirts or pants.This most likely means tee shirts or shorts aren't an option.Also people will see them and most likely ask why or those scars could scare people away.Being rejected could lead to depression and It will draw attention to yourself.Long story short,if you want to move on from the past then stop cutting or don't cut.

How to stop cutting(Im still working on the list,so please give me some time)

1.Put down the razor,knife,scissors,fork,or whatever you use for cutting and put it away.Or let somebody hide it for you.
2.Find something that cheers you up like playing a favorite game,chatting with friends,read a good book,play your favorite sport,watch a movie,or watch a funny youtube video.If you ever feel down or need to cut.
3.If 2 doesn't work for you then seek help from your parents,a trusted relative,a close friend,therapist,or a counselor
4.Try writing what makes you feel depressed and post it online if you feel comfortable with it and see what people think.(A friend recommend this to me when I was feeling depressed but I never did it.)
This is all I have right now but if you have some suggestions then comment and I'll add it.

To my friends I do not cut and I never saw it as a solution when Im depressed.

Please Also remember that you chose to cut yourself,not them.

Also this picture doesn't have anything to do with self harm,Its a quick picture I made to match my mood a couple hours ago and I forgot to upload it.So all those Yume Niki fans "HI".This is for the ToM as some of you guessed,and I wanted to make something about self harm for a while.Please remember Im not a professional.If you need help please don't be afraid to ask the administrators for help.You can try to ask the founder as well but he might not respond to much(atleast for me and Im not trying to bother you) but his advice is great.
This is also based off of these videos ->www.youtube.com/watch?v=LpDmDp…
www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeS5Hk…

I just like them,nothing to special.

Models used

Madotsuki : Sketchy-p

Objects used

Book : Kitory-and-Akuma
Pencil : MMD-Nay-PMD
Umbrella : 9844
Knife : TillyGoesMeow
Flute : Pokeluver223
Pillow : ?

Effects used

SSAO
SSAO_lite
diffsuion7
Cheaplens
realfigureshader

Backgrounds

The grid background that comes with the Tk_weird grid thingy

Description
I had a rough day but I don't need help.I talked with my parents about it and Im doing a little better.

This is a quick description for self harm and I hope this helps but Im not speaking the words of a professional so do keep that in mind.

Hey Guys I noticed that alot of my friends commit self harm in some way and to be honest it scares me.
Its messed up to hear peopleing saying how it makes them feel comfortable or they'll go insane if they don't cut.It literally sounds insane when they say it.It also brings down the mood when people post pictures of there cuts online and say that this is what the world did to them.Its sad and scary.So Im going to try to help with this and hopefully it will.(or why to stop)

Why to stop cutting

4.Someone out there dose care for you

Please remember that there are people that care for you.Everyone just can't hate you all at once.There are people just like you who want help or someone to understand them.Remember the world is not better off without you.If you keep hurting yourself,your just letting those people down that do care for you.So try to open up and tell somebody you trust and see what they say.

3.By conflicting self harm to yourself,everybody that has ever been mean or hurts you,wins.

Bullies want you to react and cutting yourself is showing that they are winning.Your basically giving them the attention they want.If you issues with bullies at your school then go tell a teacher or the school counselor so that they can try to fix it.If your parents abuse you at home then go seek help from an adult you trust.

2.Their not even worth it

The people who drove you into cutting aren't worth it.Like with four,your just showing that there winning and I highly doubt you want that.You don't even care for them,so why are you cutting in the first place?I don't have to much to explain on this one but you get my point.

1.Cutting scars on your arms/legs will only remind you of that sad time of your life whenever you look at them or somebody points them out

The last thing you probably want to do,is remember all of those times when you were bullied.Those scars are like bad memory's you can't move on from.I see how this helps people move on and show that their a survivor and got though it but that doesn't help all the time.You can't undo those scars and they'll most likely never go away.The only way to not see them is to wear long sleeve shirts or pants.This most likely means tee shirts or shorts aren't an option.Also people will see them and most likely ask why or those scars could scare people away.Being rejected could lead to depression and It will draw attention to yourself.Long story short,if you want to move on from the past then stop cutting or don't cut.

How to stop cutting(Im still working on the list,so please give me some time)

1.Put down the razor,knife,scissors,fork,or whatever you use for cutting and put it away.Or let somebody hide it for you.
2.Find something that cheers you up like playing a favorite game,chatting with friends,read a good book,play your favorite sport,watch a movie,or watch a funny youtube video.If you ever feel down or need to cut.
3.If 2 doesn't work for you then seek help from your parents,a trusted relative,a close friend,therapist,or a counselor
4.Try writing what makes you feel depressed and post it online if you feel comfortable with it and see what people think.(A friend recommend this to me when I was feeling depressed but I never did it.)
This is all I have right now but if you have some suggestions then comment and I'll add it.

To my friends I do not cut and I never saw it as a solution when Im depressed.

Please Also remember that you chose to cut yourself,not them.

Also this picture doesn't have anything to do with self harm,Its a quick picture I made to match my mood a couple hours ago and I forgot to upload it.So all those Yume Niki fans "HI".This is for the ToM as some of you guessed,and I wanted to make something about self harm for a while.Please remember Im not a professional.If you need help please don't be afraid to ask the administrators for help.You can try to ask the founder as well but he might not respond to much(atleast for me and Im not trying to bother you) but his advice is great.
This is also based off of these videos ->www.youtube.com/watch?v=LpDmDp…
www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeS5Hk…

I just like them,nothing to special.

Models used

Madotsuki : Sketchy-p

Objects used

Book : Kitory-and-Akuma
Pencil : MMD-Nay-PMD
Umbrella : 9844
Knife : TillyGoesMeow
Flute : Pokeluver223
Pillow : ?

Effects used

SSAO
SSAO_lite
diffsuion7
Cheaplens
realfigureshader

Backgrounds

The grid background that comes with the Tk_weird grid thingy