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Aquablast-Fon [2015-11-20 01:29:59 +0000 UTC]

Nice, in the sense that this is kind accurate. The pain everyone feel is true, it just seems insignificant/exaggerated to the others because other people can't see it, let alone feel it. In fact I think it's generous to say that "they just don't know the whole story", because I would say even knowing and understanding the whole story, people still can't feel other people's pain (barring extreme empathy). I bet there are people out there who would still dare to say "it's not a big deal" even after knowing the whole story... though someone who would say that is likely very wounded himself.

On the flip side, other people have pain too, and, well, I'm sure stuff like "that's not a big deal" or "that's nothing compared to my pain" must have crossed your mind before (in fact I would say everyone probably had that thought before). Focusing on your own pain so much and forgetting the fact that everyone else has his own hidden wounds is bad too.

While not necessary the solution, being understanding is important, and I would go with what the Bible says: Just don't judge at all.

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