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Yeah. This is me.My name is Broderick(Or Bro or Brody whatever you feel like)
This has been a big secret for a lot of people and I am tired of hiding the truth from people.
I am FTM and I should not be scared to tell people the honest truth.
I know many people think that is wrong. But it's my life, not yours. If you do not accept it then please leave.
Though I have told many people, one thing is still a big problem for me. People using the wrong pronouns. Yes I know it's hard and yes I know many of you say "But it's awkward for me to change"
But tell me this. How awkward do you think it is for me having people call me a girl? When I am a man.....
It's pretty awkward.
I only ask that you try for my sake because that honestly means a lot to me.
I hate people called a girl because that is not who I am.
I am Broderick Alexander Reece.
I am FTM and proud.
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Comments: 130
bornthiswayfox In reply to ??? [2013-06-12 07:11:11 +0000 UTC]
good ideay brody! i wish i know my gender...*sighs*
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Samalandar In reply to ??? [2013-06-07 19:30:41 +0000 UTC]
Wow, this is awesome. You're awesome!
I wish I had your bravery. But the world's changing. Maybe soon people wont have to be brave to be what they want. Keep it up Brody ~_~
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Ninja-Robot In reply to ??? [2013-06-05 21:34:36 +0000 UTC]
I'm assuming you mean people who know you and know you're changing.
Not, say, people on the street, right?
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to Ninja-Robot [2013-06-05 22:38:13 +0000 UTC]
Yes and no.
It's people I know in person usually but it is also people on the streets.
I try my best to pass at male and it happens a lot but I accept that people don't know for sure so they assume.
But it's really bothersome when people I know at school or close to me continue to say female pronouns.
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Ninja-Robot In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-06-06 19:21:02 +0000 UTC]
Understandable if they know you and know you'd rather be called by the male pronouns.
But you got to give the general public some slack.
Not just because they don't know, but because they might eventually get too paranoid to try and even talk to anyone they suspect 'might' be a transsexual, for fear of offending them, or even getting backlash (being called ignorant, etc).
Best thing to do I would suggest is just to correct people when they're wrong and just understand that not everyone's going to know what you're trying to present yourself as.
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RIKUkunSoraKun [2013-06-01 04:34:25 +0000 UTC]
If somone introduces themself to me as male or female or netural or fluid thats how I'll see them. Or even if I meet them as one gender and it changes I will make the adjustment. I'm not trans but I have a prefered name, but people refuse to use it. Even if its how I introduce myself. I find that frustrating so I dont want to be the cause of a similar feeling to another person. So way to go for sharing this man.
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noahkenndrake In reply to ??? [2013-05-23 22:49:20 +0000 UTC]
Unfortunately, i know the feeling.
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LittleScorpio In reply to ??? [2013-05-22 03:23:37 +0000 UTC]
I wanna just..... pat you on the back and give you big hugs for being brave enough to come out and say this, first of all. I realize how scary of an announcement this may be, and here you are. I think you'd be great inspiration for someone out there who's afraid to come out themselves, but want to.
And well, my opinion of you hasn't changed at all, really. I have always thought that you're a pretty amazing person and an amazing artist! I don't see being transgender is wrong, or whatever the general negative stigma of it may be. I'd treat you just the same as I have before I knew, you know? Because you're a person and deserve as much respect as anyone else.
As far as using male pronouns go, of course I'd respect your wishes to do so! I hope others at least make an effort to, as well.
I just thought I'd comment, seeing this post * v * )//////
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to LittleScorpio [2013-05-26 22:44:01 +0000 UTC]
Awwww Q7Q
That means a lot to me mate. I am so happy right now, you have no idea.
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XEsignStudiosX In reply to ??? [2013-05-20 12:25:11 +0000 UTC]
Don't worry Broderick, I am also FTM. It is hard for me but some day I will cone out and be myself.
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to XEsignStudiosX [2013-05-20 21:09:26 +0000 UTC]
I believe in you. It's a really hard step to come out but it's very important.
ANd I hope when you do come out to everyone they are supportive and care.
And of course if you ever want someone to talk to, I am there. Even if you don't know me I always try to help others in the same situation.
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XEsignStudiosX In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-05-20 23:51:51 +0000 UTC]
Thank you very much
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to XEsignStudiosX [2013-05-21 02:17:33 +0000 UTC]
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ConformalSquid In reply to ??? [2013-05-20 07:52:42 +0000 UTC]
honestly, people who pull out the "But it's awkward for me to change" excuse are just lazy, it's not that hard to say "he" and "him" over "she" and "her", stop being lazy fucks and try >:I
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NumberSevenArt In reply to ??? [2013-05-17 07:29:23 +0000 UTC]
Live your life how you need to, dont let stupid people who dont accept you for who you are get you down, you are a really awesome guy! you go brody!
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to NumberSevenArt [2013-05-17 07:37:05 +0000 UTC]
Thanks so much. That means a lot to me.
I was really scared to tell people but I think this is a good thing to do.
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NumberSevenArt In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-05-17 07:39:07 +0000 UTC]
Its scary, but you shouldnt be scared because its who you truly are, and its who everyone has known all along after all, you didnt change people when you want to tell people. Good luck on your journey
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to dracocrowshiin [2013-05-17 07:31:39 +0000 UTC]
FTM is Female to male. Also called Transgender.
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dracocrowshiin In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-05-17 07:37:00 +0000 UTC]
ohh i get it now yep i want to change my gender someday but im kinda scared to
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CallMeHe In reply to dracocrowshiin [2013-05-20 15:50:04 +0000 UTC]
Pardon me, but it is your sex that is changed, if you feel the need to transition, you are already that gender.
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dracocrowshiin In reply to CallMeHe [2013-05-20 17:37:22 +0000 UTC]
I know I'm just terrified of doctors I don't mean to sound stupid
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to dracocrowshiin [2013-05-17 07:48:55 +0000 UTC]
It's a really scary thing but if it is right for you then you will eventually overcome that fear
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dracocrowshiin In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-05-17 07:56:38 +0000 UTC]
i just rather stay a female and cover it up because i have a huge fear of doctors on needles and heard its the only way to get testosterone in your system owo
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Hakudoushii In reply to dracocrowshiin [2013-07-26 00:27:53 +0000 UTC]
Uh, if you're more afraid of needles than killing yourself out of depression from lack of transition.. well, you AREN'T transgender. CONGRATZ.
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MagicBroJohnson In reply to dracocrowshiin [2013-05-17 07:59:28 +0000 UTC]
Actually no there are other ways too.
There are pills and patches for testosterone. Injections are just the most effective but you can do it other ways too.
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dracocrowshiin In reply to MagicBroJohnson [2013-05-17 08:02:18 +0000 UTC]
oh that make me feel alot better ;w; then again im in a very poor family ill prob never get the chance bro plus my girlfriend doesnt really like male bits and pieces and shes the love of my life id never want to make her upset maybe someday we can all became what we were meant to be...
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