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UHHHHHHthis guy from my school who's a tad...uh how should i say it..... QUEERR just asked me out and i'm like .///. uh no and idk how to really put it in nice words and it's just so AWKWARRDDDDDDDDD
HELLLLLPUUUUH PLOX Q///A///Q I dun wanna go out with him but like he has all these problems in his life and I don't wanna like... idk make it worse.
Should I just say there're many other fish in the sea... cuz everyone says that ? LOL
FOR NOW ... this deviation is in Traditional Art > Paintings > Landscapes & Scenery
But I'll move it to scraps later... I just need a bit of help ouo;
I LIKE HOW YA'LL ARE FAVING THIS INSTEAD OF GIVING ME SOME FRIENDLY ADVICE QAQ jk.. well thanks for the favs... I guess XD
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Comments: 62
mewDoubled In reply to ??? [2011-11-27 18:52:11 +0000 UTC]
he would always have his on and off moments LOL
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PurpleKimiko [2011-11-24 16:05:13 +0000 UTC]
OMG QAQ same thing happened not to long ago, He seems ... queer but he doesn't have problems in life like the guy you're talking about. And what's worse is that he sits in front of me in every single class until 6th period. What I usually do is ignore him, and if he catches me I just act nice to him try to end the conversation and make a new one with someone else.
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MushyBeanCurd [2011-11-24 13:53:26 +0000 UTC]
when akward questions come up, give your answer, smile, and walk away. if they ask why, then think of a.... creative excuse, instead of hurting the poor guy feeling by accident. like you could say you have to save narnia, this way he gets that you don't want to, but you didn't want to hurt his feelings.
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Laliuca [2011-06-22 06:45:26 +0000 UTC]
avoid him like the plague! maby he'll forget? and then you wont haveta deal with it!
but if he catches you be like . . . . .yeah to be honest i don't like you and i'd rather not go out with you but instead how bout i buy you a nice taco? hmmm that's MUCH better than any human relationship! ^_^ that's what i'd do!
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jasubun [2011-06-20 13:40:07 +0000 UTC]
hes just like justin beiber ~ he just needs sombody to love. buuuuuuuuuuuuuuutttt probably more creepy and possibly gay. O_O
idk just tell em theres more fish in the sea.
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Mistress-Kokoro [2011-06-19 20:31:47 +0000 UTC]
ADsadsdsDGFDS I had the same thing happen to me D: I think you've already had the advice you need so um.. Yeah. ;_; This picture is so cute but I totally knooow the feeling.
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CassiRowl [2011-06-19 08:04:17 +0000 UTC]
at least you didn't have a weird guy asking you out WHILE HIS DATE WAS FIVE FEET AWAY
and his date is your friend
now THAT'S awkward
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waterdragonCP [2011-06-19 06:26:00 +0000 UTC]
Bullsh*t and excuse such as
"I'm just not ready for relationships yet"
or
"My parents won't let me date until I'm blalblabla"
or, if you have dated
"I'm sorry, I already have a boyfriend."
or
"I want to date someone I really love, and while you are an awesome and amazing person, I just don't know you that well."
OR THE FINAL OPTION
*ignore for the rest of natural life*
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Lunatan [2011-06-19 04:43:26 +0000 UTC]
*fave* *not giving advice* jk. ust tell him like, i like you, but not in that way. id like to be friends though.
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avirextin [2011-06-19 00:27:15 +0000 UTC]
I've never had a girl friend,and rejection is a bitch.
You could say no,but you should be his friend. Or at least talk to him once in a while.
When my crush says hi,my entire day is made.
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Mishi-La [2011-06-18 20:36:13 +0000 UTC]
Tell him.. you're not really ready for dating yet ene
Worked for me
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oOMoonlightMelodyOo [2011-06-18 19:12:46 +0000 UTC]
Something happened to me just a few years back. He had MANY problems. All I can say is don't dodge the question. It's a guy so you need to be blunt-straight to the point, or he won't get that you're not interested. And then he'll never give up. And if you plan on avoiding him, that doesn't work very well either... it could! But it'll take awhile...
Anyway, if anything happens then its not your fault. You can't force yourself to like someone. And since he's a guy he also probably won't appreciate pity. Sigh. Men and their manly pride.
Good luck! Hope things work out.
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mewDoubled In reply to YeshImHeartless [2011-06-18 18:59:34 +0000 UTC]
FREAK
OF
NATURE
YESSSSSS.
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YeshImHeartless In reply to YeshImHeartless [2011-06-18 18:04:25 +0000 UTC]
oh wait shiz i put a name out there T.T' remove comment!!! but i hope u resolved this problem.
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clairewazhere [2011-06-18 18:01:14 +0000 UTC]
I know EXACTLY how you feel, the same thing happened to me..
Thing is...he still keeps bothering me x_x
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Twin-Chan [2011-06-18 16:47:16 +0000 UTC]
LOL.
Umm...maybe just say "its really nice that you asked me out, but i can't accept it. (blah blah blah reasons why)" then add "i'll be there for you!" or something less cheesy xDD
sorry i'm no love advice goddess, but oh well xD
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mewDoubled In reply to megustaviolence [2011-06-18 17:20:27 +0000 UTC]
W.L.
HE'S SO FREAKIN WEIRD
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megustaviolence In reply to mewDoubled [2011-06-19 04:49:59 +0000 UTC]
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
poor guy :T
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Makie-Chu [2011-06-18 16:24:30 +0000 UTC]
Q A Q awww
Just say that sometime like:
"I like someone else,sorry", "I'm not interesting in a relationship/dating at the moment" or "Sorry,but I just don't feel the same way".
I'm sorry I can't be anymore helpful. Good luck Michelle! > n < b
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icedancerShirahime [2011-06-18 14:22:28 +0000 UTC]
idk i would like, um.... i would say no nicely but stilllike, talk to him and stuff. So you won't be going out, but he won't be all emo over it? i honestly have no idea srry
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Jennchube [2011-06-18 13:59:01 +0000 UTC]
i got the same problem however the guy is very popular and i can't take him seriously but he asked me out like a year ago then again last month :/ awkwardness!
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Kawaiiipoop [2011-06-18 10:06:18 +0000 UTC]
I may be WAY wrong here, but it wouldnt hurt to go out with him like once? O.o
I meen so he could at least have one thing to look forward to idk x)
But ofcourse i YOU dont want to like at all then just say that he's not your type idk I'm not experienced in
this stuff.. never been asked out OTL
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mewDoubled In reply to Kawaiiipoop [2011-06-18 13:42:16 +0000 UTC]
He's just a really weird guy that a lot of my friends find annoying and I can see why xD And he's younger than me anyways so definitely not my type XDD
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Kawaiiipoop In reply to mewDoubled [2011-06-18 14:11:30 +0000 UTC]
Ok, then I would tell him no in a gentle way (wow that was original) x3
But really, just say no, even if he has problems I'm sure he's not gonna
be that upsett over it :3 everybody can take a no once in a while^o^
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Mao-Trustless [2011-06-18 05:10:22 +0000 UTC]
*hug* Poor Michelle!
My only advice: Just say him that you dont wanna be his girlfriend ( or that youre not interested in him) in a polite way. Maybe you can say that you feel sorry that all this stuff happened to him and that youre really sad to refuse him - But youre heart doesnt belong to him. And when your heart says he is not the right one, then he has to accept this.
I think if you say the truth to him, he will understand you for sure <3
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mewDoubled In reply to Mao-Trustless [2011-06-18 05:17:35 +0000 UTC]
Aww QwQ thank you Jurrriaaaa
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bobcoolster [2011-06-18 04:49:29 +0000 UTC]
just be like "arigato gozaimasu for the desu offer demo i liek dont find u to match my kawaiiness therefore our love shall not bloom into a beautiful hana. It is like the sun suki-ing the tsuki. They have too much distance between them. They all like "anata doko?!? QAQ AISHITERU!!!" Demo their ai is not ment to be.........desu"
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Mistress-Kokoro In reply to bobcoolster [2011-06-19 20:30:46 +0000 UTC]
Pfffff- That's the best way to troll someone IRL CB
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sakura-the-blossom [2011-06-18 03:37:06 +0000 UTC]
"I'm not gonna give you that "Let's just be friends, it's not you it's me"-crap. I like you, but not in that exact way. But I'm sure that there's someone out there for you."
Or:
"Sure! But would you mind if I brought my girlfriend?" *shot*
Or something like that...? xD
I really have no idea.
And now I'm totally discouraged because I just layed it out mentally in my head that I'm giving dating advice. xDDD
Sorry for crappy advice. D:
I'm sure you'll figure out something though.
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xMitsukuni-Chanx [2011-06-18 03:31:32 +0000 UTC]
I have the same problem, just tell him that hes like your brother so itd be weird, or if you dont really know him, tell him you only go out with people you know. ^^ i hope i helped. o n o;;
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JunitaThiessen [2011-06-18 03:01:02 +0000 UTC]
Tell him, "sorry, my pimp only likes me going out with paying customers."
Or y'know, listen to actual good advice. Whatever floats yo' boat.
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xXirisIsdeadXx [2011-06-18 02:58:11 +0000 UTC]
Weellll...just be all 'it's nothing personal, I just don't like you like that~'
The fish in the sea thing is PROBABLY not the best idea xD
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xTheSillyOne In reply to mewDoubled [2011-06-18 03:22:32 +0000 UTC]
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Miku98 [2011-06-18 02:52:40 +0000 UTC]
TELL HIM YO MOTHER DUN LET YOU DATE CAUSE SHE'S STRICT.
Lolol. That.. Always works for me.
But you know, I can already see other people gave better advice.
Save this as a last resort.
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Uzu-Jamake [2011-06-18 02:47:04 +0000 UTC]
Just say partly the truth? That you like someone else or just don't like him that way.
Just DON'T say that your parents wont let you or you don't wanna go out yet or you don't know him well enough. That will not help you. Trust me eAe'
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BakaTsumi [2011-06-18 02:46:48 +0000 UTC]
SUCH BEAUTIFUL SCENERY.
Anyways, MICHELLE, YOU PIMP YOU. e u e
Okay, but anyways, I think you should follow people's advice and put him down gently by saying you're not ready for something like that, and if you want, you can also add that since you just graduated (Or going to graduate.), you feel it would be too sudden for you. XD
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mewDoubled In reply to BakaTsumi [2011-06-18 02:47:46 +0000 UTC]
Ohh christina.. you know how to make me laugh and feel educated .. thank you xD
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BakaTsumi In reply to mewDoubled [2011-06-18 02:50:46 +0000 UTC]
'Cause I'm da bomb dot com.
That was really bad, I think I'm gonna stop now. LOL
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RubyCrescent [2011-06-18 02:46:14 +0000 UTC]
well you have to put in there that you don't like him in that way,
and idk how to do that gently
i'm pretty blunt then i feel bad about it later
but you like someone else sounds good
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f-u-t-a-r-o [2011-06-18 02:43:09 +0000 UTC]
Maybe you should tell him nicely that you're not ready for that kind of thing, if he has problems in his life....
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