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Nekromanda — Stamp: Re: Equality Stamp

Published: 2012-04-07 01:23:36 +0000 UTC; Views: 1522; Favourites: 77; Downloads: 16
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Description Response I guess to this:

In which the stampmaker asks, "Why can't a man hit a woman if a woman can hit a man? They're equal." and goes on to say in their description that, "Guys should be able to hit girls as much as they can hit a guy."

Because you know.

Spousal abuse needs to be fair since it's an acceptable form of interaction.



It's fun because in either case they're assuming that it's okay for anyone to hit someone else in the first place. Which it isn't.

Anyway so, just a quick one, been kind of busy with stuff lately, haha.

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Just a note
=syrelinda disabled their comments on that stamp, so please do not go and harass them on their profile page or anything. I'd much prefer it if you left a comment here rather than if you pursue this person out of irritation or whateves. If they want to talk, they'll open up comments, I'm sure. That is all.

Quick note again: A few people have mentioned self defense and consensual stuff (like BDSM). This stamp's about nonconsensual violence toward another person specifically. It's ok to hit someone if it's in self defense as far as I am concerned. And if it's consensual and doesn't break the law, I really don't care what people do in the bedroom. Yup, that's pretty much it.
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Comments: 45

MentalMutt [2015-02-03 00:41:37 +0000 UTC]

it's not okay for anyone to hit anyone at all, but if a woman hits a man first the man has every right to hit her back, even if it's not right

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ComannderrX [2014-12-08 16:41:11 +0000 UTC]

the law of human survival. called survival of the fittest

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Indigochan [2014-05-18 02:56:47 +0000 UTC]

thank you.
i hate how when i was in elementary it was all "don't hit a girl, it's illegal." bullshit.

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LongLostStranger [2014-03-17 23:17:15 +0000 UTC]

yes yes all the yes

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Aetherya [2013-05-03 00:54:09 +0000 UTC]

"It's fun because in either case they're assuming that it's okay for anyone to hit someone else in the first place."

...Honestly never thought of it this way, which is funny of me. I guess it has to do with some perceived notion of people who would hit someone in the first place holding back "just because it's a woman." But violence is violence no matter who it is directed at... this does makes sense.

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PandoraTemptest [2013-01-25 19:55:26 +0000 UTC]

A guy can hit me. But I WILL hit him back, and it WILL hurt him more. Same as if a girl hit me.

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guelpacq [2012-08-12 12:59:08 +0000 UTC]

Men shouldn't hit women and vice versa. Instead, those who do not abuse must at least reprimand those who abuse.

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skhellaphobia [2012-07-21 10:13:04 +0000 UTC]

It is okay to hit each other if it is agreed upon. If a girl punches me in the face (and it hurts) I will punch her back the same as a man. I don't care whether or not other people agree with me on this or not. Might even kick her in the ribs when she drops. Just a thought.

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Zero-Gravity401 [2012-04-07 22:53:52 +0000 UTC]

Agreed. Syrelinda's BDSM comment below made me kind of laugh....

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Nekromanda In reply to Zero-Gravity401 [2012-04-07 23:20:42 +0000 UTC]

Lol, yeah it kind of came out of nowhere, didn't it?

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Kellodrawsalot [2012-04-07 10:15:40 +0000 UTC]

Yes I wanted to comment how about, NOT hit each other just an idea.

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SpeakThroughFingers [2012-04-07 09:01:59 +0000 UTC]

Eh, the point of the stamp is sorta a thing about "female on male abuse is okay" kinda thing, and how there's the whole "don't hit girls" can of soup. Double standard thing.

Hitting people is wrong, but that wasn't really the point of the stamp, I guess is what I'm saying. Do I make sense?

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Nekromanda In reply to SpeakThroughFingers [2012-04-07 10:06:59 +0000 UTC]

Sort of, haha. I do understand that the message behind it is confronting the "don't hit girls" idea, I didn't quite like the way they presented the message though, lol. Females and males are meant to be viewed as equals, this is true, but to me the stamp seemed to go along the wavelength of "men should be able to hit women, since women apparently can hit men," and I felt I'd throw in my two cents about how hitting people is unacceptable (without their permission, in the case of fetish-ey stuff of course).

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syrelinda [2012-04-07 04:33:08 +0000 UTC]

Hey. Alright, let's discuss that. Firstly, this was a request from my boyfriend, to which we engage in BDSM activities, and we often argue about sexist behavior. That's why

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Nekromanda In reply to syrelinda [2012-04-07 04:36:29 +0000 UTC]

Okay.

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syrelinda In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 04:37:29 +0000 UTC]

Mhhm. ^^ I started flame wars. XD

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Nekromanda In reply to syrelinda [2012-04-07 04:40:54 +0000 UTC]

Please don't do that in the comments sections of my stamps. I would prefer if comments stay at least a little bit civil here.

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syrelinda In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 04:42:36 +0000 UTC]

The world isn't very civil.

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Nekromanda In reply to syrelinda [2012-04-07 04:47:37 +0000 UTC]

No, but it's my wish for my stamp comment sections to be civil.

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syrelinda In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 04:47:53 +0000 UTC]

sure, see ya

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SakuraWarrirorGirl [2012-04-07 02:48:18 +0000 UTC]

I personally don't think it's okay for anyone to hit anyone really, I don't know the girl much or what other stamps she has but I do agree with her that if a woman hits a man the man should be able to do something. Again I'm not saying hitting anyone is okay; but sometimes there are gonna be situation's where you're going to have to use your fists or whatever to stop the person from hitting you.

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Nekromanda In reply to SakuraWarrirorGirl [2012-04-07 04:17:51 +0000 UTC]

Well yeah, I'd say that it's okay to hit another person in cases of self-defense.

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SakuraWarrirorGirl In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 15:23:15 +0000 UTC]

Indeed. But to hit a woman just because? No I don't agree with that. Same for a woman to hit a guy for no reason.

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Nekromanda In reply to SakuraWarrirorGirl [2012-04-07 23:22:32 +0000 UTC]

I agree

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RemLezar [2012-04-07 02:20:48 +0000 UTC]

That's what I'm sayin! I guess I don't really get into situations where women feel compelled to hit me or I would ever think of hitting women. Maybe in grade school this could be a topic of discussion, but grown ass adults shouldn't be talking about hitting each other in the first place.

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Nekromanda In reply to RemLezar [2012-04-07 04:17:15 +0000 UTC]

"grown ass adults shouldn't be talking about hitting each other in the first place."

Couldn't agree more!

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RemLezar In reply to RemLezar [2012-04-07 02:24:13 +0000 UTC]

Deviantart seems to have a fucked-up view of what constitutes equality. It's always talks like 'the other sides are bigots too!' or you have to tolerate my intolerance to INSERT MINORITY GROUP HERE. I just don't know sometimes...

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Nekromanda In reply to RemLezar [2012-04-07 04:21:23 +0000 UTC]

That's true, it sort of reminds me of something that Bill Maher said recently about how the new racism is denying racism. It's like the new bigotry is denying bigotry and pointing fingers at everyone else.

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Seitar [2012-04-07 01:41:02 +0000 UTC]

Holy shit, I've had problems with that gal before. Have you seen this stamp that she made? I gagged a little when I saw it. She also made an Anti-Vorarephile stamp, although she has Pro-Furry and Pro-BDSM stamps, and when I called her out on her bullshit (full story here ) she disabled comments, and then removed the stamp completely.

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Nekromanda In reply to Seitar [2012-04-07 04:24:03 +0000 UTC]

I hadn't seen that one before, but I'll say that people like that make me feel physically ill. I sincerely hope she doesn't really believe that, and is only saying such controversial things just for the attention.

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Seitar In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 04:27:40 +0000 UTC]

Same here, it's horrendous whether she genuinely feels that way or not - Rape Culture at it's finest. Apparently, according to her, someone having a certain fetish invalidates their opinion on something.

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Nekromanda In reply to Seitar [2012-04-07 04:35:29 +0000 UTC]

I don't see how what someone does in private has anything to do with what opinions they have on completely unrelated topics... :/

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Seitar In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 04:37:47 +0000 UTC]

I haven't the slightest clue. She seems to have an obsessive hatred toward Vorarephiles in particular - so it isn't even a matter of what someone does in private, it's a matter of what someone thinks seeing as that isn't a fetish people are physically capable (or generally willing) to perform.

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Nekromanda In reply to Seitar [2012-04-07 04:49:51 +0000 UTC]

Some folks are slow to develop the "tolerate different sorts of people" skill, it seems, haha.

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syrelinda In reply to Seitar [2012-04-07 04:35:13 +0000 UTC]

Just because I believe furries are sexy doesn't make me one, you obnoxious prick.

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Seitar In reply to syrelinda [2012-04-07 04:36:35 +0000 UTC]

I never said you were a furry, I said you had a Pro-Furry stamp. Again with the assumptions, I see - that's a nasty habit you have there, you should really try to stop it.

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syrelinda In reply to Seitar [2012-04-07 04:37:10 +0000 UTC]

Sure, i'll stop it. sounds great.

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moonlitinuyasha1985 [2012-04-07 01:28:38 +0000 UTC]

Totally agree with this stamp.

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Nekromanda In reply to moonlitinuyasha1985 [2012-04-07 01:29:29 +0000 UTC]

Glad to hear!

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moonlitinuyasha1985 In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 01:50:40 +0000 UTC]

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RAWRItzKat [2012-04-07 01:27:29 +0000 UTC]

I agree with Berserkeroo
But yeah, I agree with this stamp.

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Nekromanda In reply to RAWRItzKat [2012-04-07 01:29:22 +0000 UTC]

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Berserkeroo [2012-04-07 01:25:54 +0000 UTC]

Completely agree unless out of self defense or in emergencies.

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Nekromanda In reply to Berserkeroo [2012-04-07 01:26:54 +0000 UTC]

True, in cases of self defense you gotta do anything to make sure you're safe and can escape.

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Berserkeroo In reply to Nekromanda [2012-04-07 01:29:17 +0000 UTC]

Precisely. Otherwise I see no point in hitting someone. Playful friendly teasing or discipline. Besides that I no reason.

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