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Published: 2010-07-04 21:21:09 +0000 UTC; Views: 1188; Favourites: 6; Downloads: 42
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Description Show me who you want me to be
Show me what standards you want me to live up to
Show me what you expect of me
So I don't embarass you

Tell me how I should live
Tell me what I should do
Tell me what you want me to be
So I don't embarass you
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Comments: 15

KodiakAlaska [2014-07-09 03:02:53 +0000 UTC]

you are who you want to be, in being so you may find one who in turn will not tell you who, how or what to be but enhance the very being you are and in doing so never ever be embarrassed in any manner within the person you have become by being you!!!

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Skipychic [2010-07-10 13:01:45 +0000 UTC]

sing like there's nobody listening
Dance like there's noone watching
fart like you just dont care.

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Star4mation [2010-07-06 21:27:13 +0000 UTC]

Cool verse Lou Let me answer it in 2 words
BE YOURSELF. xx
Steve

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homicidal45 [2010-07-06 14:32:45 +0000 UTC]

Babe..
I know you hun, you and me, we've met.. We're friends.. I don't care one sh** in hell about what you look like.. That never has and never will cross my mind..
People that think and worse say things, personal things about you, hurt me as well.. I know , they are family and I should butt out.. But...

Don't listen to them hun.. You are you.. You are Lou..
And if you thinkl we're f****** now, just wait a short while....

Smile, we're British! It can't get much worse....can it? lol
Rob

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SixstringMatt [2010-07-06 02:05:31 +0000 UTC]

Aaaaawwww Lou.

There are some people in each of our lives who will never be happy with us exactly as we are. And... it can be family. I know I haven't exactly reached to where my mother wishes I was in my life right yet. But both of us (you and me) have to learn to love ourselves for who we are. To live to make ourselves happy, and not just become what someone else wants, not become someone we aren't, for others, even if they are family.

For the record, I've always been proud to have you as a friend, Lou. x

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originalkitten In reply to SixstringMatt [2010-07-06 09:05:32 +0000 UTC]

Ty Matt

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Joelglaine [2010-07-04 22:20:21 +0000 UTC]

I don't know what to say other than how I would answer.

I want you to be YOU.
Live to the best you know.
I expect you to live as well as you feel in your heart.

Live from the heart,survive.
Be the best you, you know how to be
and never let me be embarrassed by life.

If the answer you want differs from this,
THAT man is not for you.

If you write poetry from the heart, it WILL affect other people right to their hearts. Hang in there.

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originalkitten In reply to Joelglaine [2010-07-04 23:47:28 +0000 UTC]

lol thanks...it's actually not about a man....it's my sister...she's hurt me big time. Made me feel like an embarassment to her..as if she's ashamed I'm her sister. And it cuts deep.

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Joelglaine In reply to originalkitten [2010-07-05 00:16:57 +0000 UTC]

Family can cut deep. My mom treated me that way before she died. We never made amends and it still hurts because we never made peace. If a man, it would be easier to deal with.

In the short--you are NOT an embarrassment to ANYONE. Family do not perceive other family members truly. They can't. It's sort of a blind-spot that all families have. I've seen it before.

Hang in there.

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originalkitten In reply to Joelglaine [2010-07-05 10:11:36 +0000 UTC]

Im so sorry to hear about your mum hun. Yeah ive had a pretty turbelant relationship with my mum too but for once she stuck up for me on this. It all came about because I wrote a blog about our government and that our PM should live in my shoes for a day, where I've gone without food so my kids could eat or the fact I only own 1 bra, 1 pair of jeans and 2 t shirts. My sister went ballistic saying it was embarassing but she called me all the names under the sun, ridculing me and also bringing up the fact I use y facebook status to vent when Im sick (basically when in pain at 3am and noone about Ill vent and usually someone says something. Its not for sympanthy but its a case of "youre not alone" when at that moment in time u feel v alone........so it cut deep and has hurt me SO much....Im trying to realise she;s the one in the wrong and Id rather her hate me for who I am than love me for someone Im not...

thanks foryour words hun....hugs x

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Joelglaine In reply to originalkitten [2010-07-05 11:11:48 +0000 UTC]

I been there. That's why I understand. I don't have any kids (thank god for THAT!), but am in the same straights. (No boobs or bra,either! ) People who aren't poor just seem unable to understand. I might someone I own one pair of pants, and they say snarkily,"Just buy some more."

At that, I hold out my hand and ask,"WITH WHAT?" If your sister is poor,too... I have no answers for you. She SHOULD understand!

I never understood my family while they lived, so I can't really understand other peoples. All I can give you is sympathy and some understanding. Just hang in there and keep open the lines of communication with your family These are hard times for everyone, and we're still doing better than the Europeans! LOLOL

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originalkitten In reply to Joelglaine [2010-07-06 09:06:59 +0000 UTC]

My sis is poor too, so I agree she should understand. She's skinny too so she can go to the cheap clothes stores and buy stuff, where as I have to go to the fat persons shop where they add £20 on just for being fatter than the rest lol

Lol btw I am european lmao...Im english and we are f*cked to put it nicely thanks to our "lovely" new prime minister..

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Joelglaine In reply to originalkitten [2010-07-06 16:21:18 +0000 UTC]

Oh. That sort of illustrates the point, that everyone is screwed until we claw our way out of the global recession. Hang in there,hun. Things will get better one day. SOON I hope.

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slayerstephi [2010-07-04 21:49:05 +0000 UTC]

From the heart. Well done, I can feel it.

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originalkitten In reply to slayerstephi [2010-07-04 22:08:24 +0000 UTC]

Ty hun *huggles*

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