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ProbablyAGothKid — I Don't Date I Intimidate
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Published: 2017-02-19 20:58:53 +0000 UTC; Views: 1294; Favourites: 15; Downloads: 6
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Roommate and I are going to see a couple of movies tonight. We're taking advantage of the warm weather by wearing crop tops. Feeling like getting into a fight honestly, I'm ready to fucking go.Related content
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hope it was a good night out; very nice top, keep it around.
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It started off as a good day but shit ballooned WAAAAY out of control lol
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lol... one can only hope it was in a good way
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ah...
well.. there's always next time.. >_>
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Nice tattoos and sexy outfit
I love your lips and eyes
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I don't call it "dating" since we don't have the boyfriend/girlfriend labels a the moment(though once one of the guys in his motorcycle club referred to me as my man's "Ol'Lady" haha but that was back in college and before we were actually having sex). Technically he's my best friend who I sleep with haha
Pretty sure I don't intimidate him lol
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isn't that just complicating things, and avoiding the obvious? alot of the punks i talk to will talk about how labels are unnecessary, but then go on to label each and every different kind of punk genre there is.
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Oh he never said "labels are unnecessary", it's just we've never talked about it; and at this point I feel it's a bit far in the game to bring it up naturally. I don't personally care about a "label" though, I know he cares about me, I care about him, we enjoy spending time together, and our relationship wouldn't be any different if we called it dating.
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people say that about marriage, not dating. best to verify things. sometimes things aren't what they seem.
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That's the thing, I don't care lol, I'm happy with the way things are now. If HE wanted things to change, that would be up to him. My needs are being met in terms of our relationship, to my knowledge his needs are MOSTLY being met (he hates sleeping alone and wants to sleep over more often, but it's HIS life that prevents that, so there isn't anything I can do about that).
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well i guess its not my place to say. just food for thought.
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Need someone to watch your back?? I can fight and I can So rock a crop top
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Crop tops are soooooo cute 
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Yeah, like when you're in a good mood, but you're just really hyped to get in a good fight
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Oh sure, I get it. Still, I wanted to throw down sporting a crop top
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lol I understand that for sure!
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I guess it makes sense. If you intimidate and they run, they weren't worth it.
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Oh I mean I don't generally "date" at all lol, don't care for it. I just meant people generally tend to see me as an intimidating person haha
I found my man on pure chance, and I wouldn't technically say we're dating lol more like best friends who sleep together. PRETTY SURE I don't intimidate him...okay maybe a little but only because of my endless patience with tattooing myself haha
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Friends with benefits is the best way to go
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I don't think we fit under that standard "friends with benefits" label either haha; I mean, we've been extremely close friends since last january, started sleeping together last september(would have been sooner but he was afraid that if I didn't want him too than he'd lose me as a friend. He admitted that until I told him "Bring condoms if you want to fuck" one of the nights he came to my apartment to sleep over that I AM equally into it haha)
He's trying to get full custody of his baby daughter, and wants to bring her to my place to meet me when he gets overnight rights.
I'd say from an emotional standpoint, we're pretty serious; we just don't have a label lol
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Whatever it is, i think it's better than REAL relationships.
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I don't care about labels. Whether or not people have them doesn't matter to me, as long as they're happy. I'd be proud to be called my man's girlfriend and I'd be proud to call him my boyfriend, but those words aren't important to me. He is. I don't think the absence of labels makes our relationship any less "REAL". We're there for each other, he knows I'd do anything for him, and we're happy. That's what matters.
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I completely agree. you don't need the label, ALL it takes is just being WITH that significant other.
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Exactly, I'm a firm believer that it's not labels that matters, it's happiness. It's needs being met. My needs are being met (I miss him sometimes, but I understand that he's a busy man), and to my knowledge, his needs are MOSTLY being met (he hates sleeping alone, but it's his busy life that prevents him from being able to sleep over here on a lot of nights, so there isn't anything I can do about that)
Labels are words at the end of the day, relationships are feelings. You could be "dating" someone for six months and not give a damn about them.
To me, at least within the confines of the social group/micro-culture my man and I exist within, the boyfriend/girlfriend label is more about letting other people know to stay away. A "respect my claim or I'll kick the shit out of you" kind of thing. That's unnecessary for us, since I have no intention of "owning" him. He's a grown man, he can do what he wants. My concern is his happiness and wellbeing. He has no need to "stake his claim" on ME because I have absolutely no interest in anyone else, never had. Sure I've dated in the past (because I thought it was socially expected of me), but meeting him was the first time I've ever truly wanted to be with someone romantically or sexually. He's never needed to refer to me as his "girlfriend" when he's felt the need to defend me(for example, when someone disrespects me in front of him), he just scares the living hell out of them and they get the idea.
Perhaps in the future when he is further folded into his social group, I'll need a label to suit that dynamic, but for me it doesn't matter. Label or no label my feelings are what they are; it's not like slapping a word to it will change things.
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Usually adding a label brings MORE trouble, from what I noticed.
So just keep as as it is with you 2
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I'm content to let things flow naturally. If we reach a point in our lives where a label becomes useful (parenting for example, or a necessity of our subculture) than so be it, but I don't care about a label. It's not necessary, but I'm not AGAINST the idea of it.
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i love crop tops on women
i'll be anxious to see if you do get into a fight lol
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I do too!
I didn't get in any physical fights lol, it's probably for the best. I didn't want o fight anyone in particular at the time, it was just for fun haha...ended up in an emotional fight with my cousin, but OH WELL that's different and much less fun.
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yea you are probably right but now and then a good old argument can be fun lol
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Not this kind. Less of an argument, more of a realization that I need to start seeing her less as a friend and more as a roommate. She's my cousin, we grew up almost like sisters, so I love her to death...but I'm clearly a lot farther along than she is maturity-wise...and it shows. I don't expect her to be able to understand everything I've been going through, or to be anywhere near as sorted-out in life as I am(not to say my life is all 100% neat and tidy haha, but I am on track to live all of my passions and maybe have a family. She has no idea what she wants out of life. She's 19, and she had a relatively normal upbringing. I wouldn't expect her too.) HOWEVER, I have never once told her that I couldn't handle her problems. I've always been there for her unconditionally(she doesn't HAVE any other friends to turn to), so finding out that this ISN'T a two-way street...it was just eye opening. I'm 20, she's 19; she's my cousin, not my kid. I feel a little hurt and disrespected, I don't think our friendship will be the same after today...but it is what it is, that's life.
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I have friends like that, They just haven't had to grow up yet simply because they have had everything handed to them. And when they finally are on their own or just not living at home they still expect everything to go easy for them. Your friendship may not be like it was but if she grows up it may become even better, different but better
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Maybe so, but right now, some distance needs to happen
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it's to bad though but I do get where you are coming from
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She came back from work on lunch (I go in later today) and it looks like we're superficially fine, but it's not going to be the same for me
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so she has no idea that she has changed your guys relationship?
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Some people can be pretty thick headed when it comes to things like that
i used to be one
I dated a girl 6 months and never knew it lol
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WHOOPS lol 6 months haha wow
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yea i asked her to a dance evidently i wasn't specific enough
but she was the first girl I asked to a dance
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OH I see how that could get confusing lol
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plus i was in sixth grade hehe
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Haha yeaaah that's a confusing age
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