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Published: 2008-01-28 03:29:49 +0000 UTC; Views: 5100; Favourites: 59; Downloads: 94
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Something i've needed to admit for a very long time.No pretty visual.
No facts.
No percentages.
No poem.
No, sub context word.
Just.. something we all need to admit.
Three words so hard.
I hate the saying 'real men don't rape'
I like whoever came up with it... but it brings much questions.
If a man is respected in society.. but in secret mutilates girls.. is he a Real man?
Or if a man beats people.. is a complete asshole.. but doesnt.. rape.. is he a real man?
Who... when... where... why... how...
Doesnt matter.
Fully or partially..
Fought them off or not.
Young or Old.
Vague or detailed.
It doesnt matter.
Admittance does.
It's the only way we can move on.
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Aww thanks darling!!
That really helps to know!!!
Love you!!! 
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i dont know you, but we have something awful in common.
i just want to say that this has really touched me...and your description is making me think.
thank you
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No thank you.. for coming here and connecting with me
Please know that if you want to talk id be more than happy to talk with you
And i really do hope you, we, can get past this
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you are truly an amazing person, you know that?
im so happy that you replied to my comment because not only did this picture of yours touch me, but your kindness has deeply touched me aswell..
and i would love more than anything to talk to someone who really understands, though im not sure if im ready yet *sighs*
i wouldnt know what exactly to say...but i hope youll keep that offer out there for me
..and so you know too- ill help talk you through anything you need also. anything. if you need to talk, send me a note or something ^^
youre such an inspirational person to all of us, seriously.
thank you again, you've helped me a bit already
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Thank you ever so much.. but i am no more amazing than you or anyone else in this world
I understand about the not ready to talk.
I'm trying to get my... speech out through writing deviations.
But i still cant talk about it.
But i plan on trying to some time soon when the time is right.
The offer will ALWAYS stand open
And if im not on Da and you want to talk urgently, then my email is on my profile, so you can use that if you wish
I am glad ive been of such help, i cannot believe the amount of support i have had over this, and it really has made me pull through.
Im getting on with my life again, and slowly getting it out bit by bit, but i know it can never truly be gone... but then, who says thats a bad thing.
It will certainly help me to keep safer in future.
Anyway... im babbling, sorry
I wish you all the best my darling
And im always here... whether you just want a hug, talk about your day, or more sensitive issues 
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how humble of you
and, it means a lot to me that you are just open to help whenever ^^ especially since we dont really know eachother 
you are right too, it isnt such a bad thing perhaps..because like you said, it will keep us safer in the future AND we can help eachother and others get through this
same for you then also, im always here for what ever you need ^-^
and if you would like my email or msn or whatever, just ask
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Thank you kindly
it really means alot to me
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I don't get why people do that... it makes me sick.... I wonder what they were thinking... I really wish your future is bright and worry-free
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Ditto
And i'm sure it will be
Just have to get rid of the demons of the past
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thank you
^^ well, i hope that task will be simple
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That said all it needed to. You are really brave to tell what happened to you. I won't say admit, since something like this isn't your fault.
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I'm sorry
I know someone who committed suicide after it happened to her.
It was so difficult for her to deal with.
It's great that you can admit it, that's the first step to making things right.
I wish you the best of luck, and if you ever need to talk to someone, you can always drop me a note or an IM.
I know sometimes I feel like it's easier to talk to someone I don't know that won't judge me, so it's out there if you ever want/need it...
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Thank you ever so much
Im so sorry to hear about your friend
That's the reason i feel more empowered to get through this.. to try to give hope for those who are struggling
And thank you ever so much for the offer!
I will keep it in mind
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Yeahh, good luck, and don't mention itt.
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I'm glad you came to terms with it, though.
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Thank you so much
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Admitting such a thing is important to not being controlled by it any longer. You have to realize, however, that it isn't about men, or you, it's something that happened and caused your mind to get "stuck", trapping the emotions, causing them to build into an internal maelstrom. Little things or reminders then trigger it, and releasing some like this is good, but you need to take those steps and move on, away from it. Don't worry the wound. Let it heal and don't touch it if you can avoid it. You have so much support and acceptance out there... start rebuilding your strength and do something to be proud of. Don't dwell in the dark, darling, even if it feels safe. It's a trap. An unfortunate trap that lies to you.
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I think this is the best comment i have recieved on this.
I'll need to print this out... it gives me such hope.. and its so true... and so... everything...
I'll try my best to not dwell in the dark.
I think my next step is to continue writing about it
But to.. speak it.
Say the word..words...
And have a good cry.
Thank you so much darling
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wow....Even though i've been through something so very similar..(mind you don't know if s/abuse counts) but that is very brave of you...I never used to have the courage to admit what i went through but eventually through time we all are able to admit it....Its amazing you are now one of the hundreds who have...
Welcome to the club of freedom....
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Thank you my darling, so very much
And im so glad you were able to admit what happened to you
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most young girls wont usually admit to being raped because of embarrassment/their families don't care. It's a horrible thing that they don't admit it. And may they who commit rape be damned to Hell. It's an unforgivable act that should have never, ever been thought of. You seem very strong. Never let go of that!
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Thank you so much
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"If a man is respected in society.. but in secret mutilates girls.. is he a Real man?
Or if a man beats people.. is a complete asshole.. but doesnt.. rape.. is he a real man?"
No and No.
Best of luck to you, we all realize this is difficult and important, though, probably, most of us have no idea exactly how difficult or hard, so big kudos for it.
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Thank you ever so much
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Let's just hope this motivates more women come out. One of the worst things about rape is that a big percentage of rapes go unreported... So the rapist walks free to do it again...
So in behalf of a world who is tired of seeing this shit happen, thanks.
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I hope so too...
I'll always regret not reporting it
Scared of what he might do to other people.
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No point in regret. You did what you did and it was the only way you could have done it. Because that's the way you did it. Be happy you're free now
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Though I don't personally know you,
You are an astoundingly beautiful and amazing person. "Strong" feels like an understatement here.
By putting those three simple words down, you not only helped yourself grow and heal, you also have given hope and encouragement to so many people who did not speak here because they were not ready to yet.
I hope you realize that by being able to deal with this, and to put out those three powerful words, you are better than that "man" will ever be.
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Wow.. thank you for such a.. strengthening comment.
It really means alot to me
And i hope everyone one day can find the strength to Admit.
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You're very welcome because I know it's true.
And I hope that one day, things like this won't even be 'admitting.' That women will not be faulted for not being safe enough, or viewed as different, et cetera.
I think we get a little closer to that every day. You put this out, and look at the warmth you've recieved already.
No one should ever be scared to share their fears and hurts.
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You are completely right on all counts :
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this just took my breath away. you are such a strong person. and i know i'm just echoing everything everyone else has already said but the courage for you to say this without sugar coating it is just... amazingly strong....you're an example for us all...
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Thank you darling
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you were...by who? why did you never tell me?
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I cant go into details.
Im not ready.
And because ive never said those words.. ive never let myself utter anything about it to anyone before.
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i'm not forcing you to talk or anything. god babe, i love you so much and just the thought of it is tearing at my heart. when you're ready i'm here, i'll always be here. i just read in your journal that you're scared. honey if you're ever scared of being alone, you know i'm just a phone call away. if you ever need to come over you know my door is always open, and i can always get a lift up to come and get you.
i love you forever, my best friend.
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I dont want to be a burden on you...
And you've been through so much worse.
Im fine.
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much worse? ... the fuck? how on earth have i been through worse?
stop trying to pretend you're fine, you're just a burden, you never will be.
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