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Savu0211 — How it should be....
Published: 2014-06-30 01:37:28 +0000 UTC; Views: 9560; Favourites: 134; Downloads: 0
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Some happening during the festival. Some of my friends are gay, and even if they are not we all have no problems to kiss each other from time to time. We are friends and know each other so what. It is just always kind of funny, if two men kiss each other you are suddenly arounded by people (95% female people) who think you are awesome, cute, or whatever...just because they think you are something, you are maybe even not...or not completely or just not the way like people think you should have to be then. XDFirst this girl thought we were "such a cute couple", "sooooooooo cute" - until I told her that we are not a couple and that I have a girlfriend - then out of nothing I was BAD! Evil! Disgusting! How could I?! oO
That is really stupid. Men don`t become more cute, or better just because they are gay. They are not better humans, not worse. They are simple humans like all others.
Last year I also had a similiar happening on the festival after kissing a male friend of mine and she was like if he is gay and you are also interested in men why aren`t you a couple then? I just looked around, pointed my finger at a random man and told her: "Hey, you are a woman, there is man! Come on, run to him, become lovers and make a lot of babies!"Come on, just because a woman is attracted to men doesn`t mean she is attracted to every men....why should this be different by homosexual people? A gay man isn`t attracted to every other men, a gay woman isn`t attracted to every woman and a bisexual person isn`t attracted to everyone he/she meets on his/her way. They are the way like every other people too.
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wait... you kissed another guy while you have a girlfriend??? ...i dont find that right... but... its your life and cant tell you what to do. but please explain my first question...?
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i should have reworded that. you kissed someone else while in a relationship? D:
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i think i can answer your question.
not all relationships work with the common formula. such as polygamous relationships, for example. where there are more than two people in a relationship and they're all consenting adults that agreed to it. in fact it could work in a number of ways. such as person A seeing person B and C, but B and C are not engaging. or person A, B, and C are all seeing each other. the number of participants can even go up, but communication and consent is key.
now i'm not saying that's what's happening in the comic, but if the first person's girlfriend does not mind that he shows affection to others that are commonly viewed as intimate, then there's nothing wrong with that at all~
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Thanks kindly for clarifying but I still see any sort of intimate affection towards someone who's not your significant other as wrong. I understand that PDA might be different in other countries, but that doesn't mean that it's right if you truly love your significant other. Sorry if anyone disagrees with me, I'm just stating my opinion like everyone else has done here. I do not support polygamy or the friends with benefits thing. Stay devoted to one person
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I respect that you're monogamous, but you must also respect that relationship are just something society made up in the first place, so no one is right or wrong, really.
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Um, yeh it is different in other countries, I wonder how many people here are from Europe... I had a cousin from Germany visit and he tried to kiss me and my first reaction was like WHOOOA! O.o But thats just because I've been raised with different ideals. ^_^' Since I was raised in a small place where hugging is practically sex its surprising I have the nerve to touch anyone... Anyway I hear kissings no big thing in mainland Europe, depends who you are or where you are though. Its just a greeting, I mean in some places when people hug for a greeting everyone stares at you and thinks your dating from a mere hug because its close contact. Kissing or any kind of close contact doesnt mean you love that person like a soul mate, it means you have a close bond thats all. ^_^ To be honest if his girlfriend was worried just because he was kissing guys and she knew it didnt mean anything but friendship I'd say she was insecure... Most girls I know probably wouldnt be bothered since it wouldnt exactly challenge their womanhood. 
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that's cool if you only believe in monogamy. it is important to recognize that it's a social construct, though.
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I agree here. I mean, when I'm with someone, I feel feelings for them and only them. It's like anything outside of the relationship is blocked. I can't feel feelings for anyone else.
If my significant other decided to kiss someone else (He never would and that's a fact) but if he did, I'd question it and possibly worry the feelings for me would be gone and put upon the new person. Basically I'd be kicked out and replaced. I don't see how you could devote yourself to multiple people and there NOT be a feud over someone getting more affection than the others. It would be a pain to keep people happy. It's hard enough keeping ONE happy.
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