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Feminism ≠ equality.
Pink heart is showing she really does not care about her child(ren), but she’s putting on an act thanks to society that makes it look like she does. Society is basically saying “No, but look, look! She’s the MOM. She gets most custody rights and first choice when raising her child(ren).”
Blue heart is showing he really does care about his child(ren), but society is brushing it under the rug that no matter what the excuse, the woman is “the best parent”. Even if the woman is much worse in terms of care than the man, the claim goes through with no question, while the man's will be questioned and disapproved often.
Equality my ass.
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KenyanZel [2025-01-02 05:20:25 +0000 UTC]
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animalover4six [2016-03-06 19:22:14 +0000 UTC]
Ugh gender inequality is ridiculous>: (
I used to have this friend with divorced parents and she had a tough life because of it, she used to live mainly with her mom but eventually she and her brother switched over to live with their dad because he was the better parent(mom had some problems), and they were happier that way
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siemingly In reply to animalover4six [2016-03-06 19:24:45 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, my friend's dad is going through a similar thing to what my dad did.
When she was telling me about what was going on, I just kept thinking
"Where have I heard this before?" Everything her mom was doing to her,
her siblings, and her dad were all very similar to our situation.
It's really sickening how often it happens.
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animalover4six In reply to siemingly [2016-03-06 19:25:56 +0000 UTC]
Aw, that's awful
I hope the situation gets better;-;
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siemingly In reply to animalover4six [2016-03-06 19:29:07 +0000 UTC]
I'm pretty sure she's living with her dad full-time now, which is good. c:
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iiced-coffee [2016-03-05 23:54:47 +0000 UTC]
This is so true.
Why can't both mothers and fathers be seen as equal? It confuses me tbh.
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siemingly In reply to iiced-coffee [2016-03-06 00:00:01 +0000 UTC]
Because society has taken men's rights away due to the crazy
feminists convincing them women are "the best parents", and
given women rights. Sure, women have more rights now, but
where did the men's rights go? It's sick.
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wolf-life-shink [2016-03-04 05:03:04 +0000 UTC]
Dude this fucking speaks to me so much like, thankfully, my father got custody of me which is really great because my mom wasn't the best role model to say the least but like i feel you. My dad talked to me about this when he was trying to get custody but my mom happened to fuck up enough that they would have picked my dad anyway. but like I fucking f e e l y o u omg.
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siemingly In reply to wolf-life-shink [2016-03-04 05:08:49 +0000 UTC]
Y e s .
My dad went through the same thing (and frankly, still is.) with his ex and their kids.
(he had two kids with her before he met my mom) Their mom is always drinking and
was never home for them. They were malnourished and both were kicked out, likely
because they tried to catch her lying. My sister even went as far as needing to be in
foster care because her, her mom, and even the government believed there was better,
because she's the mother, despite all of the claims against her for neglect and of the like.
When I tried explaining to my brother that he felt as "broken" as he did was because his
mom had raised him to ignore his problems and ignored them when they needed help,
with as little as a "Don't be silly" or something of the like, and he just said that I "don't
know how he was raised or who his mom is" when I was really there in the side-lines
all these years.
(oh jeez that was ranting sorry lmAO feel free to ignore that, but
this topic hits pretty close to home for me. I'm glad I'm not alone.~)
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wolf-life-shink In reply to siemingly [2016-03-04 05:26:17 +0000 UTC]
Yea i totally understand. But I guess thankfully / not so thankfully, my mom actually did something that caused her to have jail time so ya know the court realized that and pretty easily gave over custody to my dad but he said he was still worried because if my mom HAD put up somewhat of a front with it then it would have been a lot more difficult. But I'm really that all happened. People need to throw out the idea that moms are perfect and nurturing. I guess t some extent my mom was a little emotionally neglectful of me but I was too young to really notice. And people always told me " Oh she still loved you shes your mom." and Mothers day is so awkward like " tell your mom how much u care because she does a lot for you and blah blah" Like My mother wasn't a bad person she was just in a fucked up spot but it's not like she should be held as a saint for it ya know? Anyway Yea its nice to see other people who deal with this but ye.
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EpithetNoctem [2016-03-04 04:34:51 +0000 UTC]
i love you fam, and i seriously love this picture.
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siemingly In reply to EpithetNoctem [2016-03-04 04:45:13 +0000 UTC]
I love you too man. <3
Thank you, I drew it really
fast but I was like "ITS TIME
TO BRING IT UP," so I did.
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