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Published: 2015-09-14 04:46:27 +0000 UTC; Views: 1388; Favourites: 20; Downloads: 0
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Okay, I've been having problems with my dad lately, and he isn't treating me like a real person. And it made me question my self-worth. But now I know I shouldn't stoop to his level, and instead I want to prove myself as a better person than he'll ever be...I guess that explains why I haven't been replying much to comments or notes. Plus, I had college stuff to take care off too...so now you know for those of you that have noticed the replies of my comments lately sounding "boring" or "down". So I'm okay now, just wanted to do a little update on my life.Sonar and Cezar belong to me.
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Sis .. I'm so sorry that your going through a rough time right now .. : ( your dad shouldn't treat you this way : / I mean I don't know all the details so it's not my place to judge but try not to let the way he treats you get you down to badly.. 
If you want to talk to me you can note me you know that right?
I'm here for you and I'm so sorry your sad.. : (
Okay I have just breifly skimmed your comments.. (Sorry c: )
Verbal abuse isn't on and your dad has no right to treat you that way ._.. and if he's going to be so cruel then you have every right to defend yourself and put him in his place. You don't need to prove yourself to be anything because you already are more than he is I know that without a doubt. xx
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Yeah, I'll be okay sis. I'll never stoop to his level.
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Good because you are better than that sis .. c: your going to pull through this..
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Heh yeah I already did. :3
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Thats my sis! : D i'm so glad xx
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I'm so sorry that your having this problems with your father. Hey no one is alone I have those problems. Hug it out. *hugs*
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Ugh I'm sorry you're having issues with your dad Sonar, but good thinking to not stoop to his level it'll only bring on more negativity.
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I'm deeply sorry about what you're going through with your dad. I really am deeply deeply sorry. <: ( *hugs you tight*
Don't mind what he says. *Puts one arm around your shoulder* You are a better person than he'll ever be, in my book. You are always in my prayers. I hope everything gets better for you soon. If you ever need me, I'm here for you my friend, and always will be. *hugs you tighter*
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Thanks buddy. *hugs you back*
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You're welcome buddy. *Hugs you tight* Are you okay? <: (
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Yeah, I'm okay buddy. ^~^
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I'm glad you're okay. <:3
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This is amazing! ; A ;
Don't worry about your dad, I'm sure things will get better. I'm here if you ever need to talk. ( ^v^) <3
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Ria: It'll work out, dear. In fact, you should still be happy about the way your dad will still be there. Treat him better and he'll care and treat you back. I never felt my dad's love ever since I lost him in the fires. Just be grateful for everything you have. ^^
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I'm so sorry to hear that...I mean...I love my father, but I'm just sad and upset that someone I love, verbally abuses me everyday....but I'm not stopping to his level cus revenge isn't the answer to anything.
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Ria: What kind of abuse, dear? Maybe I can help. 
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Verbal abuse. But it's okay, I'm not going to let it bother me anymore. I guess I was just hurt that someone I love was is so heartless.
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Ria: Sonar, they are not heartless, dear. They just need some love.
Tell me, do you know the reason why he's like this?
Have you been together for a while as a family?
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Cus his dad was never good to him...he was raised tough, so he acts tough. I try to give him enough love but even that doesn't help and that's why it hurts when he curses at me or called me ugly names and tells me mean things about me....and yes, all my life I've lived with him. About to be 20 years living with him and my mom and my little brother who is 11 years old.
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Ria: Aw, that's sad.
Try warming him up a bit~ He may be tough bu every person can change by the actions of the people around him. If he gets warmed up by your kind spirit, I'm sure he'll care
George, my surrogate father, may be tough but he has a warm heart after seeing me lose my parents.
I don't want both of you to not be friendly to each other so try to reconcile and enjoy your life with him. A parent's duty is to be responsible for the child's happiness and well-being.
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I'll try. Sometimes it's just hard to tell cus he gets into these moods where he doesn't want me around or see my face, and there are times where he just won't let me go. He's confusing...@_@
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Ria: Just try to understand him and get along well~ FIGHTING!
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Why father? Why art thou a pain in thy ass?
My dad is annoying little s*** too.
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I'm sorry to hear this.
At least you're proving to be better than your dad ever will be.
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Yeah, I won't stoop to his level. EVER.
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What a disgrace that you're being mistreated by your own father.. Props to you for being so strong
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Thanks buddy. I know I'll make it.
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Oh my, Dad issues.. I tasted it many times already and I still am, and to be honest it's not sweet at all!
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Yeah, the verbal abuse here is unbearable....so that's to answer your note..that's what was wrong.
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Got it, nee. And may I note you about the same dad issues I have?
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Sure sis. (sorry for the late reply busy with my college studies
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(It's cool
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