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SonicSatamX93 — Anti-exclusion stamp

Published: 2014-02-12 13:13:32 +0000 UTC; Views: 16854; Favourites: 24; Downloads: 1
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Description Hi, everyone...


Well, I decided to upload another stamp about a topic that's really been on my mind recently. Now, while it is true there have been other stamps that sorta have discussed this, this one addresses it in alot more detail.


And that is the travesty of people excluding others for no valid reason. 


This is something that has irritated me more than any other thing as time has gone on. For those who don't know me that well, I'm someone who likes to spread some genuine and hearty praise towards beautifully drawn art, and yet I have discovered on several occasions later on, of all those the artist chose to thank, I was the main one excluded. Yea, and more than likely they did it intentionally.


I even had a so called friend last year exclude me from all of those she gave a thank you when wished a happy birthday. Can you believe that? I didn't have to do that. I did it as a measure of my friendship, and for what? NOTHING!


But anyway... that's more of a topic towards the first stamp I made: Insincere and flaky people.


Back on this topic... I just shake my head in disgust at this kind of stuff, and it doesn't happen to just a few, but alot, and sometimes just because they don't like the way your avatar looks or the name you chose. 3 for example just took one look at me and intentionally excluded me from a simple thank you when I gave them a sincere compliment.


How shallow... how extremely and pathetically shallow.


And before I get arguments like, "Well, some leave troll or spam comments on my page. Why should I have reply to them?" I'm not referring to those. People in that case, ignoring and excluding them is justified. They're not a sincere admirer of an artist's work.


I'm talking about those who take the time to leave a nice comment about someone's art and they just go, "Oh, I don't like this one, so I'm going to ignore him/her."


There is no excuse for that kind of conduct. None whatsoever. Nobody has to leave you any nice comments. You are not entitled to any of them. They are all out of a measure of kindness from others. I strongly suggest you keep that in mind. Getting nice words form others is a privilege, not a right.


And for those who want to reply, "Well, I'm very busy and can't reply to all of my comments." Wrong. You can. You choose not to. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm very aware of there are probably alot who don't have alot of time to do stuff on here, but a very popular artist I highly respect on here does just that, and she's one of the more busier people from what I've read from her journals. And in case anyone is wondering who this is, it's one of the best Sonic artist out there, one who's art is in high demand.


So, if she can take time out of her busy schedule to do that, so can you.


And of course, I'm going to get the argument, "Hey, it's MY SUBMISSION! I can thank and exclude anyone I want to. It's my right to because it's MY CHANNEL!"


You know what? I'm not even going to disagree with that. You are correct. It is your channel and you are free to act like a decent human being or a complete animal if you so desire. Nevertheless, this freedom shows what's in your heart. If you think you're too good to write everyone who takes the time to give you sincere praise for your work, then it shows you're an extremely self-centered person.


And again, before any gets the wrong idea, I am not calling anyone out directly for this. As I said in the last stamp, only a person themselves knows whether or not they are like this. So, as before, if you're not someone who intentionally excludes sincere admirers of your art because you can, you have my respect and admiration. If you do, then I strongly suggest you take a long look at yourself in the mirror and examine just what kind of person you really are.


Is it really asking too much that all artists treat their watchers like they really appreciate them? I for one don't think so.


Anyway, that's all I have to say. If you want to add your honest opinion about this, and it is constructive and informative, then feel free to do so. But don't any of you dare bother leaving a scathing comment about what I have written here.


If you do, I will not even read it. I will hide it. If you don't like what I have expressed from my heart, then fine, don't like it, but this is how I feel and you can just ignore this stamp if it bothers you that much.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to ??? [2015-09-01 12:11:54 +0000 UTC]

That's the world we live in now. People are biased, prejudiced jerks.

Sorry to hear what happened to you

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1Sonicsky1 [2014-02-22 03:58:49 +0000 UTC]

Wow, I can not express in word with how much I agree with you on this topic.

On a more personal note: I've always been pushed off to the side only because of my appearance or the fact that I acted differently. The fact that I have a mixture of Aspergers, ADHD, and OCD, it makes it very hard for people to accept me. I have been working on overcoming these obstacles, and thus only see those "mental illnesses" as excuses. But even though I have accomplished so much, people still ignore me.

I truly feel where you are coming from, because of all the people who have tried to use me, I've come to the conclusion that my only true friends are my family. It has become so hard to gain my trust and open up who I truly am, most people give up on me before very long.

I'm sorry... I know that I'm rambling, so I'll stop.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to 1Sonicsky1 [2014-02-22 06:40:16 +0000 UTC]

Aww... you've gone through this too, huh? I'm sorry to hear that.


Well, I'll always consider you a friend to me. You seem like a very nice person deep down, and I love getting to know them.


No, no, it's ok. I rant alot worse than you do.  I made a huge rant from that description alone.


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1Sonicsky1 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-25 15:22:54 +0000 UTC]

Thanks, I believe that nobody should have to go this. There are way to many people who take advantage of others, and then outright exclude them, or treat them like crap.

Thank you... kindness is not easily found, but when it is, it is one of the greatest feelings.

I have a hard time expressing myself without feeling like a burden on everyone else. It's why most of the time I'll delete and re-write my comments several times before either I decide not to post or, I feel as though it is truly necessary to post it.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to 1Sonicsky1 [2014-02-26 00:24:37 +0000 UTC]

I couldn't agree more with you.


You're welcome. ^^


Well, you're never a burden to me. So, feel free to be yourself around me, man.


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r-williams [2014-02-17 22:51:38 +0000 UTC]

Well, I agree with most part.


Some folks are just rude and quick to judge



I get overwhelmed sometimes. But even then i'll always reply in the end,especially if it was a meaningful comment  


Even if one day i'd become popular i'd never delude myself i'm too good not to reply to anyone. Some people think the sun shines out of their backside.They're probably not known in the real world, because they're popular on Deviantart they delude themselves thinking they're actual famous people quite funny if you ask me.

Popularity turns people arrogant... though not in all cases. 


Ugh, she was never your friend to begin with, if she excluded you from things. Hope you stopped talking to her.


Iv'e had a friend recently who's admitted she's too lazy to talk now says she's bored of me and doesn't give a f*ck  she'll come crawling back she did last time. Shes a bitter,jealous person who doesn't like anything good happening to anyone.  


Know not to bother with her again.



I wouldn't get too upset over these people, they're not worth it. There's better people to talk to out there.  


These people may produce art you admire but if they're self centered and rude, what is the point in trying to get to know the individual?



This goes for actors ect  In person they could be complete and utter a**holes.


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SonicSatamX93 In reply to r-williams [2014-02-18 00:42:26 +0000 UTC]

Well said, my friend.


I'm not going to get too upset about it, but I'm not going to pretend this isn't a problem either. That's why I made this stamp because I wanted to call this out on here.


Rude behavior seriously needs to frowned upon on here.

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r-williams In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-19 17:15:54 +0000 UTC]

Yea, you're right it does hurt sometimes

But then they're better off not knowing.


Oh, yes definitely. Rudeness should be frowned upon anywhere. I hate rude people.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to r-williams [2014-02-19 23:06:49 +0000 UTC]

Yep.


What do you mean by better off not knowing?


Me too. Rude people make me sick to my stomach.

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r-williams In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-20 01:52:15 +0000 UTC]

Time heals though my friend


What I meant if they ignore you they're better off not knowing.

You deserve better then that  



I know, those people need to learn some common decency.


It's the internet but doesn't make it right to be a arsehole.

Some people never put into consideration that it's another human being they're talking to not just a computer screen.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to r-williams [2014-02-20 10:33:04 +0000 UTC]

That is very true.


Aw, thanks, my friend. I appreciate that.


Indeed, but I guess they feel they're above common courtesy. Morons...

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We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-13 10:48:28 +0000 UTC]

Sorry your feelings got hurt and all but some people don't necessarily owe you an explanation despite your objection for their lack of one. I got beaten up royally for many years for being different, but in the end I don't care about them. I don't need their approval when I have real friends. It's reasonable to be angry about how you were treated but that's why it's all the better to forget them. This stamp says to me that you accept defeat. Why should you care about this person when you have better friends and better watchers right here. Don't give them the satisfaction, be the better person.


This stamp does not give A valuable lesson. It's A submission. I don't like to say this but this stamp says to me that i'm A victim and you should feel sorry for me. Forgive me, but i'm not A yes man. If I was in your position you wouldn't hear this ever.


I don't fully agree with this message. But I understand you mean well.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-14 00:41:28 +0000 UTC]

I think you misinterpreted the reason why I made this stamp. No offense.


This stamp has nothing to do with me accepting defeat, nor did I make it to to get people to feel sorry for me. Granted, I did kinda rant about an experience of mine, but that was mostly to give an example of what I have been through.


But you are right. I don't need them, nor do I care anymore about people who have decided to exclude me for... whatever reason. Nevertheless, I'm not going to let them get away with it. That is why I made this stamp: to make a statement that excluding any person, especially a sincere fan of their work is completely wrong and should not be tolerated in the least by the masses.


You might argue that this is problem that will never be fixed and people will always be this rude and self-centered, and you are right. It most likely will always be this way, but I'm not one to close my eyes and pretend all is good when it isn't.


If all this does is get people's attention about the point I'm trying to make, then that's good enough for me.

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We-All-Have-Rabies In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 01:35:12 +0000 UTC]

I might have misunderstand it. I gave more middle fingers to people that gave me A hard time, so it's easy for my message to get across then just ranting it to them. I'm about action and no bullshit. But whatever you go through in life with people there should be at least one friend to back you up. Or many 'in this case. If they don't give A shit about you, then they're not worth your time. In these cases I listen to what my father taught me and that is to just move on, and say to fuck with that asshole. I traveled the world my whole life and I never wasted any of my time on ingrates. Only just second to give em the bird. Didn't mean to generate unrest in you but like I said I don't kiss ass and sugar coat things. I tell it like it really is. And that stamp will never convince people. They have themselves to convince. Some will get it, but not all. Some people will be shit heads regardless of reading your stamp. On that, I promise you.


Take care of yourself, Okay.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-14 03:41:27 +0000 UTC]

Well, I commend you for wanting to tell it like it is. I'm alot like that myself., though I do use diplomacy and tact when necessary because I don't want to make enemies if I can convert them into allies.


And yes, you are so right. I know not everyone will approve of this stamp or be convinced they need to change. Quite a few I expect to sneer at it with contempt. But you know what? I honestly don't care. I knew this stamp was going to be a controversial, but the stark truth is in a sense is controversial, so I'm ok with that.


Like an old saying says I recently read: All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.


You too. Thank you for at least being respectful when discussing this with me. 

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We-All-Have-Rabies In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 04:16:27 +0000 UTC]

I Appreciate that you find my values reasonable even though my mind is not.


My father says: Truth is truth wither we like it or not it's been there forever, disguised as mystery.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-14 06:20:44 +0000 UTC]

Eh, we're all different...


Wow, that is very powerful words. Your father really knows his stuff.

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We-All-Have-Rabies In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 09:01:54 +0000 UTC]

What my father knows is military logistics and I was an engineer apprentice, we tend to understand things that can be observed. Technical inclined minds sometimes think alike. My father loves to reflect on the works of William shakespeare and William Ernest Henley, he sees things like they do. He and I have a lot in common. I like how people are so different. That's what makes things interesting. Life is in fact A social experiment. The purpose is the end result.


Thank you for taking the time, to respond back. I get kinda lonely. I'm trying to adopt A cat.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-14 10:51:55 +0000 UTC]

Wow, that is really interesting.


No problem. I know that feeling of feeling lonely, so I don't mind chatting with people at all on here.

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We-All-Have-Rabies In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-15 02:22:16 +0000 UTC]

Aye.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to We-All-Have-Rabies [2014-02-15 08:58:44 +0000 UTC]

^^

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supersonic45667 [2014-02-13 01:39:27 +0000 UTC]

Thank you!!! I hate people who are like that!!! It just ruins my day when I see people being asses to other people. BE NICE TO OTHER PEOPLE NO EXCULDING ANY1!!!

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-13 05:52:09 +0000 UTC]

Exactly.


Even if I don't like the name or picture they chose for their avatar, I'll take the time to personally thank them if they leave a sincere compliment to my work or even a nice comment on my page.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-13 21:17:23 +0000 UTC]

EXACTELY I hate people who either don't do that or just are plain mean to people

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-14 00:21:34 +0000 UTC]

I despise them too.


They seriously need to be called out for their actions.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 02:06:25 +0000 UTC]

They should and I do call them out every time I see them! They just act like brats when I do....

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-14 03:42:48 +0000 UTC]

Well, you shouldn't be surprised.


They can't handle it because jerks don't like being called out for their bad behavior and attitude.



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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 03:47:12 +0000 UTC]

Yea and they sit there ,whenu don't even say anything reall rude(i just say stuff like "if you don't like don't click" and stuff like that) and they go and insult me.....its rude!

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-14 06:17:02 +0000 UTC]

Indeed.


Meh, who needs people like them anyway? If they can't show human decency, they're not worth your time.



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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 11:46:48 +0000 UTC]

I know but some of these people who the are mean to may get there feelings hurt so I gotta at least try to defend them ya know?

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-15 00:58:04 +0000 UTC]

Well, I commend you for wanting to do that.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-16 03:55:07 +0000 UTC]

And when I do sometimes people send me rude things when I tell them off for being mean and stuff like that....do you know what this really rude person sent me one time?!?!

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-16 05:22:25 +0000 UTC]

Uh, I rather not know. No offense.


If you say it was really bad, I'll take your word for it.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-16 05:24:13 +0000 UTC]

No offense taken....it was really rude though and I just wanted to get that out there...

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-16 05:28:31 +0000 UTC]

Fair enough...


Well, just try to not dwell on it. You be the better person and let them be the despicable jackass.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-16 15:34:36 +0000 UTC]

Yea and thanks for listening to me rant about the rude person

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-17 00:18:50 +0000 UTC]

No problem.

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-17 00:25:42 +0000 UTC]

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to supersonic45667 [2014-02-17 01:12:42 +0000 UTC]

^^

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supersonic45667 In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-17 03:06:34 +0000 UTC]

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TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-12 22:03:39 +0000 UTC]

I couldn't agree more, I just hate how exclusive some people are to others, and just judge you right off the bat

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-13 05:50:06 +0000 UTC]

I couldn't have said it better myself, Sparkle.


Well, anyone who judges people just by the way your account looks, they're not worth being friends with. Even if they're a great artist, I want no part of a person who's so sold on themselves, they think they're above being courteous and polite to their sincere watchers who choose to praise their work.

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TheSparklyMisfit In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-13 11:31:17 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, that's just...wrong, there was most likely a time before those creators were so popular that they used to be just like everyone else when starting here. Just because your popularity goes up, doesn't mean your head should get so big you don't have the proper manners to anyone. It's just shameful I have to say.

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-14 01:06:02 +0000 UTC]

If I thought it would do any good, I'd personally write them a comment on their channels in big letter... shame on you for excluding people! Who do you think you are? You're not above being polite and appreciative. Get your head out of the clouds and show some humility for once.


But yea, you and I sadly know how that would all go down.



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TheSparklyMisfit In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-14 12:20:00 +0000 UTC]

That sounds about right to me if it did any good at all.

Yeah...and it would not be pretty DX

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-15 01:26:17 +0000 UTC]

Rude people don't like being called out for being rude unfortunately.


Well, maybe if they weren't rude, they wouldn't have to hear that kind of talk.

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TheSparklyMisfit In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-15 05:18:10 +0000 UTC]

Yeah...I know that, I learned of one creator here that's just absolutely rude. And if she's called on it, she'll send ya threats in the notes warning you to take the comments down.

you think they'd know something like that by now...

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-15 11:25:36 +0000 UTC]

She did that? Ugh, what a witch... Well, she would definitely be on my X list.


I think they do, but don't care if I had to guess.

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TheSparklyMisfit In reply to SonicSatamX93 [2014-02-15 12:12:17 +0000 UTC]

Yeah...I saw that, and wanted nothing to do with her. -3-

You're probably right about that...

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SonicSatamX93 In reply to TheSparklyMisfit [2014-02-16 05:55:19 +0000 UTC]

Neither do I. She can soak her head for all I care.


Life is sadly full of jerks, Sparkle. I wish that wasn't the case, but it is unfortunately.

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