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Tail-Blazer In reply to sad2Bhere [2018-02-21 13:04:19 +0000 UTC]

Well, my guy.
It's easy to tangle your kinks into real life. But there's nothing wrong with your fetishes, just so you're not involving people that don't want to be involved or bothering anyone.
Looking at your favourites, I'm guessing you're into TF and some Expansion? Those aren't as bad as the kinks that are out there. Those are rooted in simple BDSM fetishes and are understandable, it's just sublimating in a different form. There's nothing to be ashamed of, because you didn't ask for these kinks. But there needs to be a healthy disconnect between your real life and what you enjoy with your kinks.
Don't worry, you're not the only who feels this way. I'd be willing to bet a number of your colleagues are into some funky shit, And that's fine. Just know you're not disgusting for liking what you like, because you didn't ask for this. But the key part is that disconnect. Focus on your school and your life, because these kinks are just kinks. Everybody has kinks.

Who knows, perhaps your girlfriend is understanding and is willing to listen if the day comes you want to tell her about this.
I know plenty of folks who have significant others who know about their kinks of here and even participate with them. So they're out there. Don't sweat it.

My apologies for the ramble. I just wanted to be as helpful as possible.

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sad2Bhere In reply to Tail-Blazer [2018-02-25 22:35:52 +0000 UTC]

thank you

SO much 

i needed to hear that 

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Tail-Blazer In reply to sad2Bhere [2018-02-25 22:47:10 +0000 UTC]

Don't sweat it, my guy. Be well.

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