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Published: 2015-02-22 22:45:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 23059; Favourites: 689; Downloads: 306
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Origins..----
So you see, it's not "Sunset": it's Sundown.. and rise, up!
puffh.. hahaha..! What am I talking about..?
anyway.. new season is coming up..
why am I not as excited as I was two years ago..?
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I'll answer your keypoints one at a time if that's okay with you. I'm asking at the beginning because the last times I addressed your core statements/questions, you flipped out at me. Even if I'm quoting certain phrases, I am still reading and considering your comment for my reply. If you don't like it, I apologize, but I have the right to say when something you say is wrong or immoral.
"I too would rather stop, but you see"
Why do you want to create excuses to keep fighting? By completely objective definition, that's prideful and petty in this situation.
"At the very beginning, you attacked me by being rude towards me, so I fought back.
Me accidentally being rude is not considered 'an attack' by any rational human being. It IS something you should call me out on, I would deserve it, but it does not constitute an angry rampage like what you did.
"Then you apologized for being rude but still attacking me by telling me to calm down and stop being angry, as if you didn't know you were the one causing it"
The 'who started it' reasoning is the most petty reason for continuing to be violent, especially after a cease-fire and an apology. I may have made you angry, but your violent temper is YOUR problem, not mine.
I apologized and asked if we could stop arguing. Nobody on earth would consider that 'an attack'. Yet you spit on my olive branch and continued to use 'you threw the first stone' as a continued justification to 'fight', despite the fact my rudeness at the beginning was only accidental. I never harbored any ill-will to you or any ill-intentions like "forcing you to accept my opinion". I simply was being careless with the phrasing of my opinions.
"And only just now you apologized for making me angry"
I already apologized for my action that caused your frustration a while back. That is what I am still doing. But like I said before, your violent temper is not my problem, its a psychological problem YOU have. I am not your servant. It is not my job to dance around your feelings to make sure you aren't the least bit offended even after a sincere apology. But like a bad guy, that is what you are asking me to do.
And also, like a bad guy, you keep on using my accidental rudeness at the beginning, calling it an attack, and using that to justify shouting at me violently and relentlessly, as if you being offended isn't something that can be forgiven by a simple sincere apology. A high-horse. I wish that wasn't the case, but that's how most human beings would interpret your behavior.
I am the one trying to stop this misunderstanding and create peace.
You are the one trying to elevate this misunderstanding and fight violently.
No one would consider you the good guy in this situation because you haven't behaved in any manor like a good guy.
And THIS is something I hope you are capable of accepting.....
None of this was an attack. Everything I said about you in this comment, from flipping out, to prideful, to 'any rational human being'...all of it: none of it is "an attack". It is a completely objective, assesment of your attitude and how you dealt with just a little accidental rudeness over a discussion about a cartoon. I kept completely to facts of things you actually did and social opinions of your actions that most people on Earth would agree with because your actions would be considered rude in the most basic of social interactions.
You will be able to contact me in 3-5 days, if you wish. I want to give you the benefit of the doubt just in case you are medically prone to violence and paranoia. If you replied back now, you would be replying angry, and everyone is dumber when they are angry, that is an absolute fact about humans. This way you can respond when you have cooled off.
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I am fully aware you're being apologetic, and I'm grateful to you for that. But you keep on blaming me, that is what keeps me going.
But now that you've blocked me, then just declare you're "the good guy" here and walk away. I see this happened to you before and this is what you did.
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See? This is the problem right there! the lies, the dropped arguments, the false justifications, and above all, the egocentric blameless-ness.
Example?
"But now that you've blocked me, then just declare you're "the good guy" here and walk away."
Actually, I believe I called myself "initially foolish" and "carelessly rude", and only said about my current self was "I wanted a peace right now" and "I am sorry". All of those things are actual facts. I never said I was the good guy, that was a lie of yours, what I DID say was that you were acting as close to a bad guy as possible, wanting to fight despite everything, while I truthfully wanted to stop fighting ages ago. The doesn't make me 'The good guy', it simply means I wanted to stop this pointless stream of hate and arguing, while you by your own admission said that you wanted the arguing to continue until I admit you were blameless
To be honest, the thought of ending the conversation via blocking didn't occur to me. You have some great ideas, and it would be a shame to not talk to you about fun stuff again. I was being completely serious when I wanted you to reply 5 days from now. This hate-filled conversation is what YOU want, remember? I would rather things be back to talking about MLP, even if it takes you a couple days to cool down.
"I am fully aware you're being apologetic, I'm grateful to you for that."
Are you serious? Not once before now have you even expressed a remote amount of gratefulness for my apologies. Not once. By your own admission, you admitted ("Maybe I am, and that is only after you attacked me.") that you tore up all my olive branches and apologies due to the fact I pointed blame on you, thus I was still "attacking you".
If you really are grateful NOW about my apology, all of them, you have a funny way of showing it because you added next to it the most egotistical thing someone could say....
"But you keep on blaming me, that is what keeps me going."
???? I keep on blaming you?......Do your want me to play the world's smallest violin for you?
How is me blaming you bad AT ALL?!
This may seem like a shocker, but when you act like dick, throwing apologies and olive branches back into people's faces and shouting at them vehemently, and justifying it all as "blameless" since I (gasp)upset you first, guess what?...Blame starts to rest on your shoulders no matter how you justify it or who started it. This is the most basic of common sense.
I am NOT blameless in this, ergo I can never be 'the good guy' in all this. But you took the little mistake of rudeness I made, and you overreacted and amplified the severity of my mistake a thousandfold into 3-4 comments of constant, paranoid hatred. Your anger does not justify your actions and words. And you acted even more reprehensible when you continued this tirade despite my attempts to make peace and apologize. How is that not obvious to you?
No person in the world would ever feel sorry for calling out on a person's aggressive and violent attitude to the degree that you displayed over a conversation about a show, especially given all the opportunities you had to stop due to me being as apologetic as possible. If you feel I attacked you by calling you out on your attitude problems..tough. This isn't grade school. You have to take responsibility for your own actions and words, always. You have to accept blame when blame is due.
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There, all my cards are on the table. I have expressed what I am sorry for, and I have expressed what I do not need to apologize for. I am to blame for your initial anger and you ARE to blame for your own foul attitude, regardless of who felt insulted first. We can still converse, but keep in mind that your philosophy towards "not being blamed" is VASTLY different from me and most of the world, so if you bring up the topic of blame, my answer will always be the same. You can sing your tune of 'I was being attacked, by me having the gall to cast blame on you" over and over and over again, but the truth is you actually have to live with your rudeness no matter the situation. You always have to accept blame when you shoot your mouth off, and the only way to remove that blame is to apologize and get forgiveness. (Christ I feel like a school teacher, this is literally elementary stuff they teach in school or at home)
P.S. Did you notice that when you count up all the things you listed that you actually consider "an attack" and put it in a list, it looks kinda...worrying?
www.wikihow.com/Recognize-Some…
Please, see a therapist. I am not kidding about this either. Seriously, I showed your list around to my family, and like me, they were more worried then anything else.
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Only to you I am. What you have been doing is using your own standards and force me to follow it. And of course your family will support you no matter what. You just want me to behave exactly the way you want.
So yes, let's stop and you go ahead; call me whatever you have in mind, walk away or anything, none of that matters to me.
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Really? Like...no comments to explain how I'm wrong, your simply right be default? Jeeze you really do have PPD.
And what do you mean only me? I spread this list around facebook and not a single person yet thinks its sane. Do you know how many friends a normal facebook user has that are only mildly antiquated with? People don't lie for acquaintances, they just say what's on their mind.
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I already said it; you want me to behave exactly like you want.
And when I said "only to you I am." I meant, I act like this only to you.
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Past, actually..!
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too much of anything isn't good. especially when it's something you like. burnout is too real
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Hahah.. yeah.. that's probably it..
I mean, when the season 3 teaser released, I was like "yaaaay!".. But now; "oh.."
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oh man... I know how that is. Actually experiencing a bit of a burnout myself, still like it but no excitement from seeing those season 5 trailers. I'm thinking of taking a break from it myself. babscon and season 5 are only a month or two away xD oh well, more steven universe! xD
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Heheh.. I know, right?
Good to know you have something to refresh your mind..!
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