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animekitten44 In reply to harryjaan901 [2013-04-05 02:41:15 +0000 UTC]

lolwut

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Song-Wolf-Farm In reply to FellitoRockero [2013-04-04 20:54:55 +0000 UTC]

I so totally see that! And I live it every day in a different way. I know I can't live up to the stereotypes, so I'll be single my entire life. I'm not blond, tall, anorexic, or have double Ds and I use my brain, but men just don't care these days. They just want Barbi. It's women like me, that fuel a lot of depression art, literature, and other forms of creativity. Or, insanity. Or cat hoarding.

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to Song-Wolf-Farm [2013-04-05 04:40:49 +0000 UTC]

I disagree with you here. Although my boyfriend's ideal women is tall with long legs, big boobs and blonde (yes, barbie), he's still with me. I'm short, petite, and always changing my hair colour.

Saying "I can't be what they want, so I'll give up and be single" is.. well.. you deserve it then. Who cares what they want, you're you so flaunt it! You have to be happy with yourself, who you are, and what you're doing before you can give yourself to another or even expect them to like you.

Not all men want a barbie or expect one. They may like one, but some are actually realistic. I know quite a few men who are disgusted by the whole barbie thing and even love women with curves. But if the women isn't confident and love her self, that's what they find a turn off.

I know that you're older than me and you've lived longer, but I really think you need to perk up. Besides, cat hoarding isn't a bad thing. I want to hoard cats. Even if I get married and have kids one day, I shall want to hoard all the kitties!! (Hell, why not make some bucks and breed your favourite cat. You look less insane that way too <3)

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Song-Wolf-Farm In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-04-05 05:27:19 +0000 UTC]

lmao I'd rather stay away from cat shows. I've heard horror stories and there are plenty of cats in shelters and in the streets as it is. But, as far as being confident, it's hard to be confident when you've lived my life. I've been unemployed for 7 years. I've begged in tears for work, I can't afford to move forward. I can't get unemployment, I don't have a car, can't get anywhere. I suffer from depression, hypothyroidism, Poly-Cystic Ovarian Syndrome, Post Traumatic Rape Syndrome, several forms of depression, and I live in an area full of rednecks, druggies, heavy drinkers, and woman beaters. It's safer to be single here. But I do agree, confidence helps. It's just hard to get it when there's so much physical and emotional trauma to deal with But, there is chocolate in the world...and great artists and photographers...and writers. Like the many we find in the DDs

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to Song-Wolf-Farm [2013-04-05 08:41:59 +0000 UTC]

I understand perfectly, but you can move past it.
I've lived a pretty rough life too. Your neighbourhood describes my family.
They are full of rapists and child molesters., and although I was molested by them, I was by others.
My mother ignores all problems and likes to think that everything is okay.
She was abused all her life, and because of it I also suffered.
I didn't receive enough affection as a child and as a result I didn't bond with my mother and because of that, my emotions are really messed up and I find it hard to relate to people most of the time when it comes to basic things.
I've been homeless living in a car, had no Christmas, my education was cut short when I was 13.
I suffered from Agoraphobia and my mother never took me to the doctor. "You're fine" she'd say, "everything's fine." but it never was.

Towards the end, she was starving me until I was underweight and made it really hard to live with her. She ended up kicking me out.

But you know what? I moved passed it all and I am back on my feet. I'm in the right direction. That's why I believe in the power of the human mind. It may be hard, but imagine the reward at the end

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Song-Wolf-Farm In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-04-05 11:12:22 +0000 UTC]

29 cents won't get me far though So I don't see any rewards unless chocolate is involved. But that's only a temporary fix lol There is one good thing about people as damaged as we are. Horribly damaged people create the most beautiful pieces of art, no matter the medium. Because beauty is often bourne from pain.

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to Song-Wolf-Farm [2013-04-05 12:31:04 +0000 UTC]

You have access to the internet though..

and I actually find that offensive. I'm not damaged, I'm human.

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Song-Wolf-Farm In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-04-05 19:44:54 +0000 UTC]

I'm human too, doesn't mean my life is perfect though. And I may have internet access but that doesn't equal a job or a career. I also do not own a computer. I just use this one when I am able.

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to Song-Wolf-Farm [2013-04-06 03:01:33 +0000 UTC]

Wow, you're extremely self absorbed..

When you offend someone and they say nicely that you've offended them, you say sorry, not go on about yourself...

Lets not continue this discussion..

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FellitoRockero In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-07-30 22:58:46 +0000 UTC]

I just hope something good comes from this. mikiheart is right when saying that a woman shouldn't value herself, only based in her physical appearance, just as men shouldn't. I appreciate that women are nice, but I appreciate it more when I see the beauty inside.

In the end, the character is more important than the body. I know that even places like this may house people who think that having big-breasts and becoming objects of pleasure will make them acceptable to society, but if you watch past those images, you discover that it's emptiness what goes within them. Everyone may be entitled to their own ways, just as everyone have their own opinions. What are yours, if you think you'll be alone your whole life? Is it fair or even acceptable to be defeated by a pair of breasts, a pack of muscles or a set of curves?

What's the value of a body, without a will to move it? Even a smile makes breasts disposable. A slip makes muscles ridiculous, just like fear destroys the illusion people give.

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to FellitoRockero [2013-07-31 12:09:52 +0000 UTC]

Don't bother trying. people who give up on themselves, think ugly, and believe they're ugly become ugly.
Confidence is attractive. If you lack it, and believe negative things about yourself, they show through and make your insides ugly as well.

Or at least to me. I hate self absorbed self pitying people who can't take a compliment. Annoys the hell out me.

I once had a girl who fought me with me over the fact that I said she was pretty. I changed the subject, and she continued to say "I'm not pretty!" In my eyes, that made her ugly.

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FellitoRockero In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-07-31 23:52:59 +0000 UTC]

You shouldn't give up on people. They'll eventually want help to become better. Giving up on them is eventually bad for ourselves. One might loathe them, but we're probably not the only ones who do it. If they fall and die, so be it. If they want your help, send them to someone who has the mercy to help them.

That's what I think.

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Yaoi-Or-Die In reply to FellitoRockero [2013-08-01 09:29:07 +0000 UTC]

Well, your opinion is your opinion. I have my own stuff to deal with. I'm not going to sit here and spoon feed people o-o

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FellitoRockero In reply to Yaoi-Or-Die [2013-08-01 21:36:35 +0000 UTC]

Good. It's not bad to have an opinion.

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Alberthein1 In reply to FellitoRockero [2013-04-04 18:17:07 +0000 UTC]

To me, that seems rediculously logical.
Interesting ^^

Me thinks this would do nice as the description; it certainly adds value to the image!

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Vinyl-5cratch In reply to MJBivouac [2013-04-04 14:03:21 +0000 UTC]

Not just children. People at college get homework too

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MJBivouac In reply to Vinyl-5cratch [2013-04-04 14:36:09 +0000 UTC]

Well of course, but I was trying to explain it in terms to someone who might not be 100% conversent in English, and I know NO German.

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bohobella In reply to ShaulHeymans [2013-04-04 22:36:23 +0000 UTC]

It's a photograph...

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