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March 1 is self-harm awareness day. Wear Orange!Links to information: [link]
I am always here for anyone who needs to talk. Send me a note if you want my msn/cell number/some other third thing.
**Sometimes it is obvious. And that's no less legitimate.
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Comments: 1759
rogueRaindrop In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 19:20:30 +0000 UTC]
funny how longlseeves have become inherent part of my wardrobe because of my "stormy" youth
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wonderbandalice In reply to rogueRaindrop [2012-02-28 19:22:31 +0000 UTC]
I wore long sleeves for a long time. I don't bother anymore, I'm not ashamed of my scars so I don't feel like I need to hide them. I do wear sleeves if I have fresh cuts, because I know that it can be triggering to see that.
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QuinnFish In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 19:17:44 +0000 UTC]
So damn right... I actually love this picture though :]
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claydoodles In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 19:07:02 +0000 UTC]
This is a very well done piece. Thank you for your creative and also informative art. <3
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unholycookie In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 19:03:49 +0000 UTC]
I love this. As a 26 year old with open scars on my legs, I appreciate your artistry and awareness.
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Epzi10n In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 19:00:51 +0000 UTC]
Never understood why a person would do this. Well... I can, but it doesn't make sense to me.
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wonderbandalice In reply to Epzi10n [2012-02-28 19:03:31 +0000 UTC]
For me, physical evidence of pain lessens the emotional pain. It takes away an unbearable numbness I get. It's also a reaction to a very strong self hatred I get sometimes.
It's hard not to understand but it's important to be supportive of people anyways.
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Epzi10n In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-28 19:17:23 +0000 UTC]
I'm not saying I'm not supportive of the people, but to harm yourself so that one pain lessens another? It seems to me that that would just cause more pain or psychological damage in the long run.
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wonderbandalice In reply to Epzi10n [2012-02-28 19:19:59 +0000 UTC]
It does, it's a very destructive behaviour.
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Kittie1984 In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:58:51 +0000 UTC]
There are so many people that misunderstand and judge those who self-harm. This is a great piece.
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Bealoideas In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:55:36 +0000 UTC]
I really, really like this piece of art I did not know about the self-harm awareness day. A beautiful idea
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SakuraWarrirorGirl In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:45:50 +0000 UTC]
This is very true...
I've been down this road before, but I got help after talkiing to someone. My highschool friend went through this as well, I didn't know what to say when I saw all those cuts on his arm...poor guy. I'm glad he got help though in the end.
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wonderbandalice In reply to SakuraWarrirorGirl [2012-02-28 18:55:04 +0000 UTC]
I'm happy that both of you got help. I hope you're doing well.
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SakuraWarrirorGirl In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-28 18:56:44 +0000 UTC]
Yup were doing great ^^ Thank you by the way
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fee-absinthe In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:39:26 +0000 UTC]
Thank you for posting this. Been there, done that. Sometimes it's so hard to explain when someone asks you why you're all scarred or bruised...
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silverbeam In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:37:28 +0000 UTC]
Wow, great great piece! and ugh so true..... Everyone seems to think that depressed people cut themselves etc. Not all people suffer the same way, and for the same reasons. People need to be aware of this. Sometimes even one kind word can really help, and sometimes when not even common curtesy is shown, can really destroy. I am really grateful I have a caring and understanding family.
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wonderbandalice In reply to silverbeam [2012-02-28 18:54:41 +0000 UTC]
That's so true. It's great that your family is supportive, mine is too and it's really helpful in dealing with stuff like this.
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silverbeam In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-29 16:42:37 +0000 UTC]
Definitly! good luck in life.
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IWillBeForeverYoung In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:30:20 +0000 UTC]
Coming from someone who has scars on her thighs, this speaks volumes.
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IWillBeForeverYoung In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-29 15:34:40 +0000 UTC]
would you mind if I put some text over it and posted it on Tumblr to spread awareness? I will link it right back to you and give you proper credit.
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wonderbandalice In reply to IWillBeForeverYoung [2012-02-29 17:34:46 +0000 UTC]
Sure. Can I see?
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wonderbandalice In reply to IWillBeForeverYoung [2012-02-29 17:45:00 +0000 UTC]
Consider yourself reblogged.
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IWillBeForeverYoung In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-29 17:46:45 +0000 UTC]
Consider yourself followed!
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Holli-Is-Sexi In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:28:36 +0000 UTC]
This is so powerful. I love this.
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MythicPhoenix In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:20:14 +0000 UTC]
Great concept and execution here. Good job on getting the message across, you've created quite a powerful image here.
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x-XbeLIEveX-x In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:19:56 +0000 UTC]
so true, much admiration for you posting this.
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AirFive101 In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:16:45 +0000 UTC]
Thank you for posting and creating this. I am a recovering cutter, and I was very touched by this. I have not cut in almost a year, but I was always consider myself to be in recovery. This is exactly how I was. My forearms are untouched. My left shoulder blade and both legs are destroyed. I appreciate someone out there advocating for us, as too many people immediately write us off as "crazy". We are not crazy. We are in pain, with no one to turn to, so we suffered in silence. I salute you.
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wonderbandalice In reply to AirFive101 [2012-02-28 18:20:57 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much. I'm so glad you're doing better.
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chloe-fay In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:08:42 +0000 UTC]
my friend does self harm and makes really bad, obvious cuts on her hands
its rlly sad because shes a rlly lovely girl, i dont want her 2 get hurt T - T
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wonderbandalice In reply to chloe-fay [2012-02-28 18:20:17 +0000 UTC]
Do you talk to her about it?
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chloe-fay In reply to wonderbandalice [2012-02-28 18:45:38 +0000 UTC]
i try to but i chicken out so i get one of her closer friends to pass on the message, she said "i dont want my friends to fight"
but she cut herself before she came 2 the skll?
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wonderbandalice In reply to chloe-fay [2012-02-28 18:53:08 +0000 UTC]
Just saying that you're there for her if she needs you would probably help her a lot. If it's hard to say there's always facebook/texting, it's way easier to say things not in person.
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EJTheSnail In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:04:24 +0000 UTC]
Haha this shit is so true. I have a friend that ran out of space on his arms so he swiss cheesed his thighs and feet
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loriLUNACY In reply to ??? [2012-02-28 18:03:09 +0000 UTC]
Wow, so powerful!
I can totally relate to this. It's strange to think about people you walk past everyday, some of them may be hiding scars under their clothes. You just have no idea. Beautiful, I love it. Well done.
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