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WrongState — Fuck you 'Ken'
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Published: 2008-02-10 23:14:42 +0000 UTC; Views: 4624; Favourites: 84; Downloads: 26
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I’m FatI love the way you look. But I’m Fat
I love your legs. “But I’m Fat”
I love the shape of your butt. “But I’m Fat”
I love your figure. “But I’m Fat”
I love your waist. “But I’m Fat”
I love your back. “But I’m Fat”
I love the way your body looks. “But I’m Fat”
I love the color of your eyes. “But I’m Fat”
I love your lips. “But I’m Fat”
The color of your skin. “But I’m Fat”
you can’t convince me that you’re ugly, you use the word Fat like a four letter word. You see yourself as the world would want you to be. I see you through eyes you don’t posses, you can borrow mine, but you refuse with distaste and harsh words. There is nothing I can say or do or show you that you are beautiful, Society is misinformed, inundated with the misconception that women must be “Barbie’s“, that you have to have the corset waist, the protruding hip bones, the xylophone ribs , the gaunt face, but they are the sick ones, the unhealthy, the idiotic Kens of the world. You may see yourself as Fat, but I see you as picturesque as someone I want to be with, as someone that I’d be happy to immortalize, sculpt, paint, someone that I’d be with forever.
Loose your weight, starve yourself, live life with Atkins, do your painful workouts, and be sick for the remainder of your days on a beautiful planet, miss your fun with friends and loved ones, miss the landscapes that just wants to be seen, miss a birth. All cause “Ken” said so.
“Fuck you Ken!!!!!!!”
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Comments: 177
I seriously wish I could hug you right now! Even though I am a tiny girl, I've always dealt with similar "perfect" issues. Keep up the amazing work!
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that was quite a speech, gives women hope i guess 
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Thanks, "i guess"? you should read some of the responses I've gotten to this.
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This sounds like my boyfriend when I get a little depressed or during my girl time...I never want to look like them though bleh...
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Oh you mean look like a Barbi, yeah, I can't find myself dating one, plus as of late, I know I would scare the barbi's
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Barbie's are normally easily scared anyways XD
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Lol, I love how losly the word freak gets used, but some have no idea. ah well, I do like scaring barbi's
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oh wow.. about time a man said that.. this is amazing.
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That is awesome, glad you read this. and Glad you understand. I did this for all the ex's that I still enjoy how they look, even though they didn't
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nice. well, I'm glad your not a jerk like alot of men.
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thank you, it's unfortunate how men look at woman, and don't realize that they themselves will be in the judged boat when they get older
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Wow.. This is amazing & passionately written. That this is coming from a man says even more.. Thank you to you & to all those that are willing to see & live beyond today's "commercial standards" & truly believe that we are all beautiful & special & unique in our own ways and thus to be cherished for it. I applaud you for your vision of how you see people & of how things aught to be. You are beautiful as is your message. I'd like your permission to share this with others I know that need this message more than I can say. Thank you SO much for putting this out there. You rock!!
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Thank you,
you are welcome to share, so long as you tell them who it's from, plus adding how I look, sometimes helps drive the message home, you know I'm not the average healthy 41 year old, I also model as well as take some decent photos, not the, well, standard run of the mill joe.
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So true! Definitely NOT the standard run of the mill joe.. And yes, your pics are stunning. I've been enjoying the viewing of them immensely. I will absolutely say whom it was that wrote it since you have given me your Ok to do so. You have seen me in my photos & I'd imagine can see that I'm not the "typical model type". So I personally appreciate your point of view & your art greatly. Thank you much ":0).
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Thank you for that.
Well 80% of the women I've shot are not the typical model type, hence why I enjoy it so damn much, just adore them all.
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If you were to substitute the word "fat" with the word "old", you would be talking about me. People who are called "fat" can change that "if they want to. OLD is something everyone is going to be, and you can not change that. OLD is in your future.
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Umm, if you did substitute the word, then you'd miss the whole point. The point that was layed out in my comments block. In my job, I'm considered old, and pretty much past my prime, at 41, I can still do most of what the young folk can do, and look better doing it. So in short, no I wouldn't change a thing, age is inevitable, there is no denying that aspect, but weight, is most things people can control, I say most, not all.
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Loved the poem, and think it applies to many things. I know that there is nothing that can be done about age, and that we can do something about our bodies. Being hurt by others about who we are or what we are is a painful part of life. I think it great that "young people" like yourself think beyond the limited thinking of most of society. OH, and by the by; I do experience prejudice on a daily basis............lol lol. I am 76 years old, and the truth is; life is still the greatest and this is a wonderful part of life that I would not want to miss...........thanks for your note.........Geno
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Well it's funny, even at 41 I get a bit of discrimination, there is a group that I belong to, that only allows 18-29 at some of their meetings, I've asked why, I've been told, and I understand, just enjoy hanging out with the younger crowd, my age seems a bit too depressing for me. And I know about the hurt, even one woman that I WAS married to used to critisise me alot, even with the way I look, she still did it, for years. I still enjoy the way I look, however there is still that nagging voice in the back of my head...
you are welcome, keep rock'n
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I was having a horrible day and my self-esteem was crawling in the floor... and then I found this. Gosh, you don't know how much this made me smile
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I'm glad, then I have purpose
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I've known some girls in life who could have used this....
Why is it always the truly beautiful one's who can't see what's right in front of them?
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I can speculate many reasons why, parents, media, bullies in high school, so many reasons. I've never figured it out, I just want people to know that there are those out here that feel opposite of that stereotype
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The way I see it, the sooner people realize this the better things will get. Especially for those left on the wayside by a hollywood stereotype. I guess all we really can do is simply speak our minds and work to have our voices heard. With any luck, it just might make a difference... So says the optimist within me.
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Hear hear! I do agree.. I'm doing the best I can with the guys I work with
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You have my support. I wish you best of luck, my friend.
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Thank you, glad you read it, please spread the word
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This is very true, well done it's well written.
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Thank you, I appreciate this.
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No problem, I appreciate the message in this piece
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you are very welcome, I hope more people get to read it.
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The prefect body is a body that is healthy, not one that has an hour glass figure but an eating disorder and malnourished.
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And that little gem of knowledge coming from a 22year old whelp. Not one photograph in your gallery, to show you have what it takes to pass that ideal to others, What little do you know of the actual human condition to pass that judgement. Humans are natural, not all humans are made the same, that's like trying to compare a Sinai Bedowin to a North pole Inuit.
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Hard to take pictures when you dont have a camera to do so. I plan on getting a camera soon, but for now I will remain camera-less. And please dont call me a whelp.
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I don't care what your excuse is. And just cause you have a camera doesn't mean you'll either have good models or shoot worthy photos. So you have no right to come onto my page and throw this immaturely educated accusation. Have you even looked at the models I've shot, most are good friends, a couple ex girlfriends, that I respect. So the name I gave you is minor compared to what I'd of said in person.
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There's a mistake then, I wasn't calling your models that. My post had meant to be an agreement with you, but instead you'd rather chew apart someone when the post was accidentally vague.
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Ah, see, the sad part about what you initially said was, a few of my friends read that first comment, and took it the same way I did. So, lets back up a bit. You support my work, and the women I shoot?
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I am sorry that I poorly worded my response, I didn't mean for it to be vague like that or possibly have double meanings. I haven't looked fully at your gallery yet to know if I support your work or not yet, but I do support the models, they all look healthy. I would say its when model's risk their healthy to be beautiful that that definition of beautiful should no longer apply. Any model who's willing to be part of art should be supported.
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And that I do agree with you. So many models I've shot that are healthy, by any standard, and a few that could use a few more cookies or some pasta. life is funny this way. I do appreciate you taking the time to clearify.
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I have to say that I rarely favorite text things (as you can see from my favorites.) I'm a terrible snob that way...but this piece really spoke to me and opened my eyes...as a SSBBW, I have that internal loop going on and I can see now, I need to stop it.
Thank you for being able to show me that men really can appreciate true beauty.
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I saw, and you've got an amazing favorites gallery, and thank you for adding one of my own photos to it along with this Prose. exactly, curves are real, and gorgeous, even the Barbi type women notice that I like to shoot mostly bigger women, and they love it. I seriously hope I can continue it forever. Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to view my work.
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