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Published: 2015-10-10 20:42:37 +0000 UTC; Views: 255; Favourites: 20; Downloads: 0
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I've been in this position so many times and every time it doesn't get much better. Most of the time I come here to talk about it with my friends because my family is tired of dealing with my depression. It's hard to see someone you love hurting so bad, but there are many times when I just wish they would stop being angry at the situation and start comforting me instead. My family are the kind of people that when I'm upset they don't know what to do other then to get frustrated and sadly there are so many others who don't know how to react either. It's not their fault, but I hope that someday there will be a better understanding of such things in our society.
I hope that you're feeling better, and just know that you have people on here who are more then happy to comfort you when needed :'D Not everyone knows how to react in the right way, but I've come to find that once you reach out, you'll find plenty who do know. Because they've been there too. Take comfort in knowing that it's ok to be upset when you need to be and it's better to let out your emotions then to keep them inside and let them fester~ Don't be afraid to share your pain because there are people who understand. you're not alone.
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oh god i can totally relate to this, im so scared of even telling my family how i feel and even a few friends in real life because like you said they just don't know how to react and get frustrated as well.
which of course makes things 10x worse and makes me feel like i have made bad decisions of telling them or why im even sad in the first place o:
aahh sometimes i feel like i may be going too public about things because of course i have to keep some reasons private and i also don't want to annoy people with my vents but it feels so damn good to relate and talk about it
im so glad people like yourself understand and are willing to make me feel better, i'd do the same as well if anyone needs someone to listen or get advice from hehe
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Yeah it gets ugly sometimes because I'll be yelling due to frustration or anger about something and my parents will think I'm yelling at them, so next thing we know, we're all yelling >.> So most of the time I have to just leave the room and try to find something to get my mind off of whatever is bothering me. Don't feel bad about venting when something is upsetting you, it's ok to be angry sometimes. But yeah I try not to tell them my problems anymore because I just don't want to start a fight xD It's really hard too, especially when I need advice.
Really if anything it's better that you're talking about it/ typing out your thoughts instead of keeping quite. When we feel alone is when we tend to get worse. I know you don't know me, but I'm around if you ever get to the point that you are just upset and don't have anyone to turn to. And don't worry, as someone who has problems of her own, if not the same problems you have, I will never share what you say. I'd be the biggest freaking hypocrite ever lol :'P But yeah, just know you're surrounded by people who understand you here. There's strength in sharing these things because it brings us all together.
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it really can get ugly, even though i don't usually yell out of my frustration my family and friends usually somehow end up yelling at me haha
i usually find it hard to get my mind off of things that are bothering me so i sit in a slump alone and like you said sometimes being alone makes things worse
i'll definitely talk to you if i ever need help hehe thank you!
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Yeah haha same here. If I don't yell, then they yell and we always wind up even more upset then when we started -_-
Then I find myself in my room and I'm like: omg why am I back in this situation again?
Luckily I've gotten better with handling my triggers, so the arguments don't happen as often, but I'm looking forward to the time when they never happen.
But yeah, I'm always around, so just shoot me a message :'D I'm more then happy to help~ Even if you just need to talk about whatever, I'm up for it ^^
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i wish people wouldn't argue haha it would save a lot of people the stress of being upset
sweet! thank you so much again ;w;
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Noo dont cry pls
What happened?
You dont have to reply if you dont like to.talk about this
You can also note me
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ahhh just.... expressing my feelings can frustrate others
which makes me feel even worse haha aafghj
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Nono
Im sorry
I just wanted.to try.to make you happy hhh
I know those feelings <3
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ah you did make me happy! >w<
thank you very much
im sure a lot of us have experienced them heh
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Yea we just have to stay strong <3
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