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DawnFelix — Cheating is Not a Mistake and neither and Accident
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Published: 2014-09-20 19:29:16 +0000 UTC; Views: 1785; Favourites: 16; Downloads: 0
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I very often see on TV show, and in real-life where someone says I made a mistake and cheated on my boyfriend/girlfriend or other people will say to a cheater You're not a bad person, you just made a mistake. Let me make this clear cheating is not a mistake and neither an accident and why because if you have sex with someone else you did with your own decision which mean cheating is a choice and not a mistake simple as that, you can't simple have sex with someone and pretend it was a mistake when you the one who make the choice by yourself! People who decide to cheat are people who made a decision and it is time to take responsibility for it instead of pretending they added up their sums incorrectly.
Cheating is just cheating and even if your drunk cheating is cheating no excuse for it. When a guy and a girl who cheat on their partners it is obviously someone who doesn't really want to be with you anymore. No matter how much he/she may claim she/he does, remember actions speak louder than words, and whatever excuse they have it not justify their action on cheating. Often times cheaters and someone like a friend of yours will try to convince you that they made a mistake and it was a accident, and they will also try that it was your fault, but in reality it's not. They'll try and make you think that if only you had done this, that and another that they wouldn't be tempted to cheat. No matter what you may have done or not done you didn't make them cheat to cheat at you.
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No, cheating is not a mistake but a choice. When someone knowingly takes the steps to do something they later claim was a mistake, such as having sex with someone else even though they're married, it isn't a mistake at all, but a choice. Think about it this way, when you cheat on a person did you consciously think about the wrongness of your transgression?
No, because although you knew it was wrong while you were doing it, you continued to do it, because it was wrong. Sounds confusing, not really, because cheating is a choice because when someone decide to cheat on her/his boyfriend/girlfriend without think on the consequence. When you cheat at someone, you know exactly what you are doing. cheating is defiantly a choice you can't cheat on someone by choice even if you are drunk or taken drugs its still a choice you made because you chose to do that knowing what it could lead to.
So, nobody can cheat and say it was a mistake cause it's not a mistake its and forever going to be a choice and there is no excuse in the world as to why someone cheats on his/her girlfriend/boyfriend, and everything what we do, we do it by a choice. You can't mistakenly kiss someone else or sleep with them! And if you disagree with me on everything on what I just said is because you are not realistic.
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No, cheating is not a mistake but a choice.
A mistake is a choice. I still don't think you understand the difference between an accident and a mistake.
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Mistake is a choice? XD Yea right XD And I still think that you're the one who don't understand a mistake is not a choice. And I just told you that if you disagree with me is because you are not realistic. Also I know what a accident and a mistake are better that you. You can't mistakenly have sex with someone and pretend it was a mistake.
Mistake is nothing but a pathetic excuse to justify someone immature behavior on cheating at someone, and if you still believe that cheating is a mistake then maybe you're a cheater, and you want to justify your action and also that's your problem and not mine. I just telling the truth and nothing but the truth on the subject.
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Yes, mistake is a bad choice that you later regret.
And if I disagree with you it's not because I'm "not realistic". It's because I think you're wrong.
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Mistake is not a choice only on other stuff like decide to buy something, but on cheating mistake is not a choice but a choice itself. You can't pretend cheating on someone was a mistake when in reality it's not. When you cheat on someone you decide to do that, and no one else.
And everything I just said is not wrong because is more logical that pretending that cheating is a mistake like the way you want to pretend. So, I never wrong on what I saying you just want to pretend cheating is a mistake.
Again that's your problem if you want to believe cheating is a mistake and not mine problem. I just telling the truth and nothing but the truth on the subject. So, do not arguing with me on something that is illogical like your believe on cheating is a mistake.
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Okay, let's go back to the difference between an accident and a mistake.
- An accident is something that just happens. Because it is unintentional, you couldn't have stopped it. Cheating is done intentionally, therefore cheating is not an accident.
- A mistake is when you do something deliberately, but later on you regret doing it. A person can cheat on their partner and regret it later, in which case the cheating was a mistake.
So there you go. A mistake is anything you wish you hadn't done.
If you want a more detailed explanation on the difference between an accident and a mistake, check this out:
www.examiner.com/article/expla…
You can find a less detailed explanation here:
answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
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Again I know better that anyone, and cheating still and forever is going to be a choice and not a mistake end of discussion. You can't pretend cheating on someone was a mistake when in reality it's not. When you cheat on someone you decide to do that, and no one else.
You believe cheating is a mistake because you're a cheater and unrealistic person. Have more knowledge about reality that you and this is why cheating is not a mistake only a pansy believe cheating is a mistake.
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Again I know better that anyone, and cheating still and forever is going to be a choice and not a mistake end of discussion.
You need to get off that high horse of yours, buddy. You don't "know better than anyone". In fact, the only thing you're proving is that you don't understand the meaning of the word "mistake."
You can't pretend cheating on someone was a mistake when in reality it's not. When you cheat on someone you decide to do that, and no one else.
If you seriously regret what you did, then it is a mistake. A mistake is choice you make consciously that you later regret. If you cheat on someone, and then realize that what you've done is wrong, then you realize it was a mistake.
You believe cheating is a mistake because you're a cheater and unrealistic person.
Lol, proof that you know absolutely nothing about my personal life. I've never even been in a relationship so I couldn't possibly be a cheater.
Oh, and by the way, personal attacks are an informal fallacy.
Have more knowledge about reality that you and this is why cheating is not a mistake only a pansy believe cheating is a mistake.
As I already said multiple times, a mistake is a choice you regret. So if you regret that you cheated on your partner, then cheating on your partner was a mistake. A wise person would learn from their mistake and never do it again, while an unwise person would make the same mistake over and over again without learning their lesson.
Mistake =/= Accident
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Obviously you fail end of story and here is my respond to your comment > www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRKz82…
Cheating is not a mistake that how reality work
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I already explain why cheating is not a mistake, but what the point when you're living on a fantasy word and keep dying the logic that I giving you kid. I will not waste my time to telling you the same thing that explain million of time to you.
Is thanks to people like you that the word is so in chaos because you want to justify all irresponsibility in humanity. I would not be surprised if you're trying to justify Osama's action and Hitler's action.
Your views have not logic or any logical explanation, and the reaction I believe you want to believe cheating is a mistake is because maybe you're a cheater and you enjoy cheating at other people.
Which doesn't surprise me since cheaters always want to justify their action. So, end of discussion here buddy because I won and you loses this for your illogical explanation.
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I just gave you a chance to explain your position clearly. Instead of arguing your case in a sensible manner, all you did was sprout a load of incoherent personal attacks against me. I often find that people attack the person they are arguing with when they have no means of attacking the argument itself. In Michael Jackson's words, "you're throwing stones to hide your hands."
However, I'll explain the meaning of the word "mistake" once more.
A mistake is a bad move, bad choice or bad decision. To make a mistake is to knowingly do something wrong that will make your life difficult in future. The fact that you made a mistake, however, is not an excuse for what you did. Saying "I made a mistake" doesn't mean "it wasn't my fault". It means "I did something stupid. I know what I did was wrong, and now I regret it." In other words, when you admit that you made a mistake, you are automatically acknowledging that what you did was wrong. "I made a mistake" is never an excuse. So I think one thing we can both agree on is that there is no excuse for cheating.
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Like I said before, I already explain to you but you still refuse to know the truth. So not act like I loses because I won Attack? XD Like I never attack you 
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Yes, I explain to you like a million of time on why cheating is not a mistake, but you keep refusing the truth, and this why I will end this discussion because I wouldn't continue to talking to someone who want to ignore logical explanation.
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I explain it maybe you do not read it because you are lazy or something. I explain why cheating is not a mistake and yet here you're saying I do not explain it when I did, and my argument is valid since is logical unlike yours. The only explanation you giving are terrible and illogical.
So, not tell me I didn't explain it when I did it on every respond I gave you. So, is nothing for me to explain it to you since I did million of time in every respond, but you keep refusing it. So, with anything else you're going to tell me we done here sir.
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I explain it with logical sense, and in what part you do not understand that we done here?
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Maybe because you not read it harder enough because anyone can see the logic very easy. I explain very clearly it in both description and in the respond comments of yours.
But I will explain to you one last time and if you still refusing it's your problem and not mine, and whit that here is the explanations: Having sex with someone else even though they're married or have a someone else in the relationship, it isn't a mistake at all, but a choice because when someone decide to cheat on her/his boyfriend/girlfriend without think on the consequence knowing exactly what they are doing. Cheating is defiantly a choice you can't cheat on someone by choice even if you are drunk or taken drugs its still a choice you made because you chose to do that knowing what it could lead to.
When someone cheats they know what they're doing, it's not as if they have no idea that they have just done something wrong, otherwise people wouldn't try so hard to hide. Everyone have a choice whether to cheat or not, and saying that cheating is a mistake is like making some excuse as if the person had no self-control over itself. Something it's a mistake only if someone become careless on something for example you're playing a video game and you get beat all the time, but then you realize that you forgot to level-up your character or you just forgot to get the correct weapon a very honest mistake there.
Everything what we do such as drinking, driving, playing games, watching TV etc, we do it by a choice and having sex is not an exception. I mean people who choose to cheat they aren't being forced, I mean "if someone kisses you despise you already have someone on your relationship you are the only one that can decide to kiss the person back or push that person away". A Choice to cheat is a fully conscious decision with no regard or respect for anyone but self, and just because you regret it, doesn't mean it's a mistake. A mistake is not a regret but a decision.
Now I just explain it to you very clearly as possible and anyone can understand the explanation crystal clear and the rest is up to you to believe it or not, I'm not trying to forcing you to believe, but I was simple educated you about reality, and neither trying to arguing with you because I', don't here to fight.
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If the person knows what she/he doing then it doesn't mean it's a mistake because a mistake was something you did without intention, while the bad decision was made intentionally, often without regard for the consequence. For example "you mistake someone for someone else that you know" or "you mistakenly the dog of someone else for your dog".
An accident is an unforeseen and unplanned event or circumstance, often with lack of intention or necessity. In general, an unplanned, unexpected, and undersigned not purposefully caused event which occurs suddenly which is not deliberately caused, and which is not inevitable. For example "you're walking around and then you fall to the floor because you never saw a cable in the middle where you were walking".
So, if the person knows what she/he doing then it doesn't mean it's a mistake and neither an accident, and a bad-choice it doesn't mean it's a mistake and neither an accident because an choice is something that involves mentally making a decision such judging the merits of multiple options and selecting one or more of them such as might include what to eat for dinner or what to wear on a Saturday morning, and every decision someone make, has a consequence and can by good or bad that have the potential of changing the entire path in the person's life.
So when someone decide to cheat at his/her boyfriend/girlfriend they already set their path, and it's too late to go back and they are stuck with the path they chose in the first place on their own. So, if the person knows what she/he doing then it doesn't mean it's a mistake and neither an accident, and a bad-choice it doesn't mean it's a mistake and neither an accident.
It's easy to dismiss your bad-decisions by reclassifying them as mistakes or an accident, and reclassifying a bad-decision as a mistake or accident removes your sense of responsibility, making it no longer your fault, and it's a lot easier to live with your bad decisions if they aren’t your fault, but deep down you know that it's your fault.
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Mathematical calculation was only a example about a real mistake definition, and if the person take responsibility on something like cheating on his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. Then she/he is a real responsible person, but his/her action on cheating still doesn't make it a mistake it will still look as a choice.
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Again a bad-decision doesn't make it a mistake.
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Were you paying attention at all? They use the word "mistake" as a poor excuse to get away with their action such as cheating and murder.
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It does not matter if the person regret something or admits something it still doesn't make it a mistake.
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Did you really believe that every thing have answer? People still used the world because they are arrogant and they want to believe that their action is a mistake. In other word people use the word because they want to used it.
There are not logical reason for it and it simple that people want to used it because they believe their action it was a mistake when in reality it was not a mistake. Some action are a mistake when there are others such as cheating are not a mistake.
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English have nothing to do with the meaning of mistake and I just told you what mistake really mean. So, I know what the real meaning mean, I simple told you that it doesn't matter if the person regret his/her previously action or decision it doesn't make it a mistake.
And yes when someone use the word mistake is a simple poor excuse to justify their decision and action. After all I do not let myself by influence with false information of others and because I realistic.
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Language have nothing to do with the meaning of the word mistake when you're really talking about is point of views. I know how the word is used and I know it used for some people as a poor excuse to avoid responsibility and others to justify their action.
But you probably do not that because you let yourself by influence by others and never study it yourself. Now I just told you the truth now is after you to decide, and so you can now stop this because I right now going to do something more important that this.
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Peque? This is only point of view semantic have nothing to do with this. Again just because someone apologize it doesn't going to change the meaning of mistake. The only think I know that cause infidelity are People who want to cheat on his/her boyfriend/girlfriend because they want to do it.
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I really do not known where you get that silly information, but this is only point of view and not semantics, but I done talking about that fake information of yours.
I already explain why what cause infidelity and not everything has an answer, I mean seriously did you really think everything have a answer? Because the infidelity is one of many thing that not have a answer because people cause infidelity because they want to do it without a reason.
Because humanity are selfish creatures and they believe they have the right to do it without a care for others. Infidelity have no answer on why people cheat to each others, but is a simple choice they made because they are selfish people.
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Like I already gave you the definition of mistake hours ago. Not everything have a reason, I always look for a reason and all I find is poor reason for humanity to cheat and commit crimes. So, I know what I saying I a person who spend his time on research and have the experience on life.
A unsatisfied or unhappy with the relationship is not a excuse and neither justify the person action on cheating. If the person not want to be with his/her boyfriend/girlfriend the simple way is talk with her/him to break the relationship as a civilized person because cheating on someone without the other person knows it is a selfish act.
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If people lack bravery and People who aren't happy with just one partner are weak and lack of self-control which, I was right all long that humans are soft and pathetic creatures
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No is weak relationship because a real mature person only have one partner and do not have millions of them. If the person lack of self-control it's a meaning of weakness. The only who have more that just one partner is animals but that because they follow instinct, and humanity is supposed to have self-control something that differentiates humans to animals.
You simple want to justify everyone and their ridicules behaviors like cheating and crimes. Let us see if you can justify Osama and Hitler and their actions XD
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True but is still doesn't change that they have not self-control, and you really thing I bossing people around? XD Really you saying I not place to tell them otherwise XD Sorry tot ell you but that not mean they are above disagreements just because they are free to do whatever they want with their life.
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