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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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bubblesamillion [2022-12-22 20:40:09 +0000 UTC]

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KOTLCSummer [2021-11-08 11:46:05 +0000 UTC]

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aspieprincess99 [2021-03-22 10:30:21 +0000 UTC]

Very lovely artwork!

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BriMerry [2021-03-08 00:05:56 +0000 UTC]

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lenny2055 [2020-09-03 03:40:20 +0000 UTC]

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SoLiTheL [2020-04-29 14:01:27 +0000 UTC]

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UncleSunday [2019-04-01 19:02:57 +0000 UTC]

Words can't

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rivalsecret [2019-03-18 11:59:10 +0000 UTC]

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FreyaIchigosai [2019-02-25 02:31:46 +0000 UTC]

You know, this picture and your message probably saved my life back then. I was in such a horrible place and this was what gave me the incentive to start my road to recovery. I was 14 then, miserable and suicidal and cutting myself. I’m 19 now, going to university. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

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jumpugly [2018-07-16 21:53:00 +0000 UTC]

Beautifully realized!

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DKFDenial [2018-07-15 13:29:02 +0000 UTC]

   

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BiaMidori [2018-02-21 23:32:48 +0000 UTC]

Love the expression!!

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JNerd300 [2018-02-21 19:10:03 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful I'm thinking of showing this to a friend.

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Yilleo [2018-01-23 05:00:36 +0000 UTC]

I no longer have a reason to draw butterflies.

If I did, they would only die.

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Sugar-For-Sugar [2017-12-26 18:47:38 +0000 UTC]

I love your art! It looks absolutely amazing. And I love the colour of her eyes and the way her lips look. You create stunning pieces, with concepts I can relate to. I actually listened to a song which had this picture in it, and I thought, "Wow. That looks absolutely amazing."
Here's the video:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivlvFO…
You inspire me a lot. Thanks.

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StrawberryScissors [2017-11-22 00:38:31 +0000 UTC]

It's beautiful! I really like the message behind it.

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pandacreampuff [2017-10-27 17:21:54 +0000 UTC]

It looks so beautyful.

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ShatteredDragonFlame [2017-09-04 18:15:53 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, Destiny Blue. Thank you from me and my friends. We love your art, and after seeing the butterfly project, we decided to try it. I'm the only one of my friends who actually needed it, but they did it along with me. They gave me butterflies, and whenever I drew a new one, they did too. On themselves. This has really helped me, Destiny Blue. So thank you.

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MouseTwitt [2017-08-25 19:29:07 +0000 UTC]

Amazing work and post! I like the text and warm colors. 

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MerakiPainter [2017-07-10 03:33:18 +0000 UTC]

STUNNING!

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kelsblu [2017-04-04 16:21:51 +0000 UTC]

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NeonKalixy [2017-03-21 14:37:43 +0000 UTC]

Oh my goodness.

Honestly, I was just scrolling through a bunch of pictures on dA, clicking on the ones I liked and commenting on all of them in hopes to become a little more social on here again. And then I see this picture; and I'll tell you, this is the best one. From that description I might not have even cared what the drawing looked like- but the drawing is SO GORGEOUS. Not only does your description explain your meaning, your art does too, and that REALLY IS the best type of art.

I've been through some hard times myself, and I agree, having the butterfly die if you cut isn't a very good rule. I love Hope- Hope the butterfly needs her own project!! To all of you out there struggling, do what you have to do, but don't give up. Do what it takes to keep yourself alive and maybe someday you'll realize your actually LIVING. <3

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IngheanBhuidhe [2017-02-15 14:44:49 +0000 UTC]

This is so beautiful

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AnotherUnknownPerson [2016-12-08 20:39:14 +0000 UTC]

I'm a selfharmer, and this picture actually made me cry... it's stunning..

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IDS-Studios In reply to AnotherUnknownPerson [2017-06-20 03:04:27 +0000 UTC]

Same!

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CrybabyKitsune [2016-12-08 18:53:57 +0000 UTC]

May I edit this picture? please?

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NearlyHeadlesZDragon [2016-11-19 22:27:39 +0000 UTC]

Very captivating image! Stunning, I really have no more words for it. 

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NM-D4n3 [2016-11-10 19:56:33 +0000 UTC]

I hope you don't mind ^_^

youtu.be/a-gQnLlpN9Q

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Moonyeclipse [2016-11-05 13:00:37 +0000 UTC]

Love the expression of the face ! Very nice

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Biancamarie24 [2016-08-28 04:25:33 +0000 UTC]

pretty i like it

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rainbowbookworm101 [2016-08-22 03:50:56 +0000 UTC]

I'm not sure if you're going to read this, but for the past few years you have been a huge inspiration to me. You are an amazing artist and writer, and both your colors and words remind me to look on the bright side of things, which, to be honest, isn't always that easy. I love how you always manage to find beauty in your pain. This year I was more depressed than usual and I began self harming. I saw the picture you drew and realized that I wasn't alone, and that not everyone hated me. It's an easy thing to forget at times, but I began to do the butterfly project to help me remember. Thank you so much for being the wonderful person you are. It always makes me happy to look at your artwork.

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FairyTail4322 [2016-07-26 01:30:40 +0000 UTC]

You don't know how much this Butterfly Project has helped me or my best friend. We were both going though depression just showing it in different ways I would Cut she would starve herself but the butterfly project help us both. Stopped me from cutting stopped her from starbing herself. I am so glad people like this are out there to help us in depression. It is truly a miracle. Please continue this amazing art. 

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Shadow-0f-A-Flame [2016-07-20 18:04:49 +0000 UTC]

This is so so sooo beautiful, as always. It gives such a powerful message, and you captured it perfectly with this piece. I don't self harm, but I put a butterfly on my wrist to show support. I also drew something for the butterfly project as well. Thank you so much for being my inspiration!! All of your art is so beautiful, and I'm certain that you are just as beautiful as a person. I hope you get well as soon as possible, you deserve to be happy! <3

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LilyTree [2016-07-15 22:40:44 +0000 UTC]

Powerful.

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SnowySparkles [2016-07-12 20:16:32 +0000 UTC]

WARNING! Carry on reading! Or you will die, even if you only looked at the word warning!
Once there was a little girl called Clarissa, she was ten-years-old and she lived in a mental hospital, because she killed her mom and her dad. She got so bad she went to kill all the staff in the hospital so the More-government decided that best idea was to get rid of her so they set up aSPECIALROOM to kill her, as humane as possible but it went wrong the machine they were using went wrong. And she sat there in agony for hours until she died.
Now every week on the day of her death she returns to the person that reads this letter, on a monday night at 12:00a.m. She creeps into your room and kills you slowly, by cutting you and watching you bleed to death.
Now send this to ten other pictures on this one site, and she will haunt someone else who doesn't. This isn't fake. apparently, if u copy and paste this to ten comments in the next ten minutes u will have the best day of ur life tomorrow. u will either get kissed or asked out, if u break this chain u will see a little dead girl in your room tonight. in 53 mins someone will say i love you or imSORRY

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ArtisticOceana [2016-06-13 21:20:41 +0000 UTC]

fantabulous

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Chocolatekitty27 [2016-05-21 18:27:52 +0000 UTC]

I'll draw Hope on me- just to have some company.
Thanks for sharing her with me!

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FunkyHeartist [2016-05-16 10:36:34 +0000 UTC]

Hey, I'm using this photo (watermark intact) for my tumblr blog witchyfanperson because I feel a strong connection with your work and this picture works really well with everything I'm going through. Thought I'd make sure you knew
www.tumblr.com/blog/witchyfanp…

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Blaringlaze [2016-05-14 19:04:58 +0000 UTC]

I love your art you have such a fascinating style

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syviethorne [2016-05-14 18:08:06 +0000 UTC]

wow! ;u;

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TheHolyBagel [2016-05-14 05:58:56 +0000 UTC]

I always recognize your art because of the vibrant colors you use. Great job!~

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emeraldtopaz [2016-05-13 12:44:37 +0000 UTC]

So beautiful

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Scatman2945 [2016-05-13 11:27:59 +0000 UTC]

This, along with the cause, is just amazing!

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Gerardsuncle [2016-05-13 07:56:31 +0000 UTC]

so majestic

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