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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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Comments: 935

TheScarlettWolf [2016-02-27 11:39:47 +0000 UTC]

This is really inspiring and the art is great!

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Yilleo [2016-02-22 23:03:40 +0000 UTC]

I remember the first time I came & looked at this, maybe a year or two ago, and thought, hm, the butterfly idea sounds nice... Now it is actually relevant to me.
Thanks for all your inspiring art. 

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sparklesMc [2016-02-20 00:08:58 +0000 UTC]

I really love this!!! I've loved butterflies, for as long as I can remember. 
I think I'll try that draw a butterfly thing sometime if i need it
   

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Nemyt [2016-02-04 17:40:29 +0000 UTC]

Truly amazing, every drawing you make has its own story.
I really like this one, great job

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littledandeliontears [2016-02-03 02:01:00 +0000 UTC]

so sweet

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MisheruOff In reply to ??? [2016-02-02 16:46:22 +0000 UTC]

Amazing !!

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Qwen2018 In reply to ??? [2016-02-02 13:12:27 +0000 UTC]

That's so cute I love it 

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CrazyBannanas121903 In reply to ??? [2016-01-30 15:54:42 +0000 UTC]

WARNING! Carry on reading! Or you will die, even if you only looked at the word warning!
Once there was a little girl called Clarissa, she was ten-years-old and she lived in a mental hospital, because she killed her mom and her dad. She got so bad she went to kill all the staff in the hospital so the More-government decided that best idea was to get rid of her so they set up aSPECIALROOM to kill her, as humane as possible but it went wrong the machine they were using went wrong. And she sat there in agony for hours until she died.
Now every week on the day of her death she returns to the person that reads this letter, on a monday night at 12:00a.m. She creeps into your room and kills you slowly, by cutting you and watching you bleed to death.
Now send this to ten other pictures on this one site, and she will haunt someone else who doesn't. This isn't fake. apparently, if u copy and paste this to ten comments in the next ten minutes u will have the best day of ur life tomorrow. u will either get kissed or asked out, if u break this chain u will see a little dead girl in your room tonight. in 53 mins someone will say i love you or imSORRY

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WaterEnchanter In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-03-24 19:42:22 +0000 UTC]

Yea, I read this like a month ago, didn't post it anywhere, and I'm still not dead, so... go and post crappy chain letters on some other social media, stop ruining the atmosphere of this lovely place, and this lovely art

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Yilleo In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-22 23:00:59 +0000 UTC]

Rude...

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sparklesMc In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-19 23:53:28 +0000 UTC]

Wow... Another one of these... Especially on a beautiful piece of artwork like this? Are you really that insensitive?! I really wish there was a way to flag comments
(if there is, I do not know of it)

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alinaalina804 In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-10 16:59:40 +0000 UTC]

Are you that disrespectful? This beautiful piece of art is about awareness of people cutting and trying to stop it! You must be mentally retarded as there are people that need help, and you're ruining the page that should help, not be filled with spam.

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Qua-ttro In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-04 04:29:07 +0000 UTC]

SPAM!!!! Stop trying to scare people! This is carp >

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rinihimme In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-04 03:23:03 +0000 UTC]

bruh pls no i get enough of this on Pandora

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rainfaIIed In reply to rinihimme [2016-03-06 04:09:47 +0000 UTC]

XD oml

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gdpr-31743956 In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-02-03 04:04:06 +0000 UTC]

oh man not le spam

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afternoon-girl In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-01-31 19:00:24 +0000 UTC]

oh man im so scared

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AlyOnyx In reply to CrazyBannanas121903 [2016-01-31 00:20:48 +0000 UTC]

don't do this is SPAM!! this isn't even real!!!

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Cynnics [2016-01-30 06:23:57 +0000 UTC]

It's been roughly a year and a half since I've found this picture and truth be told, this kept me a bit steady for a while. At the time I was heavily addicted to self harm and didn't have any coping to counter it before this introduced me to the Butterfly project. Which ultimately helped me gradually stop after about a year. In the past six months different symptoms of mental illness arose here and there and I still sometimes struggle slightly with urges to self harm and I've still found myself relapsing every once in a while. But even a year and a half later I still draw butterflies which helped me more than I thought it could < 3

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ShewolfAlpha-Sam [2016-01-26 04:16:18 +0000 UTC]

Putting a special folder for this so i can always find it... thank you so much, DestinyBlue. I'm sending this to a friend in need and I'm drawing a butterfly on myself to show support

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YouAreCool10 In reply to ??? [2016-01-23 17:20:06 +0000 UTC]

I am totally going to do the butterfly project!

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HernandezGDI In reply to ??? [2015-12-29 17:11:30 +0000 UTC]

Amazing

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AlinaSca In reply to ??? [2015-12-21 20:16:03 +0000 UTC]

The thing you did is very important.
You are a well known artist here on Deviantart and this message had reached and will reach many many people with this problem.
The message I read in this page, in the comments, not only in the drawing, is "break the silence".
I think it's very important to meet other people that passed through this things and to talk talk talk with them, knowing that they understand and that you're not alone.
I passed through other kind of problems of anxiety and depression. I never cut myself, only once, but other things... I felt like I need to.. punish myself, to destroy myself.
Now I'm really seeing the end of the tunnel even if I know the street will never be an highway, but always a path.
Anyway talking was the first thing helping me... with people who could understand me! because other way it could be even worst

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AscendedDemon In reply to ??? [2015-12-16 03:14:52 +0000 UTC]

I love how color makes for a completely different feel in art work. After seeing the blue version and looking at it side by side with this one... All I can think of is a gif that shows the blue and starting at the butterfly a fade into the warm colored version. Hope radiating from sorrow...

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SilverTheRoboticWolf In reply to ??? [2015-12-13 04:39:12 +0000 UTC]

Woah...

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AmazingFNAFCabinets In reply to ??? [2015-12-12 15:19:19 +0000 UTC]

No.

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Dreepoogie In reply to ??? [2015-12-12 12:56:55 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful. In ways I can't say.  

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Psychromanic In reply to ??? [2015-12-11 14:37:42 +0000 UTC]

I'd actually really like to get this as a tattoo to cover up my SH scars on my upper arm. ^-^ You're such an amazing artist~

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thesonofsalvation In reply to ??? [2015-12-11 09:25:00 +0000 UTC]

Angelic

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ilovenikkimaxwell In reply to ??? [2015-12-11 08:13:39 +0000 UTC]

OMG... LOVE THE COLOR!

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KaysLogic In reply to ??? [2015-12-10 02:06:30 +0000 UTC]

I love all of your artwork. <3

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AlexisOddity In reply to ??? [2015-12-09 21:19:53 +0000 UTC]

I've been doing the butterfly project for a week now <3

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KaysLogic In reply to AlexisOddity [2015-12-10 02:08:06 +0000 UTC]

Stay strong. I used to cut, and the struggle is real. I am now 2 months clean. Stay strong, you are beautiful.  

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adileibu2014 In reply to ??? [2015-12-07 13:16:42 +0000 UTC]

it's so beautiful!! I've been looking at the other paintings and I just fell in love with them! they are so amazing and I could feel the artist soul in every one of them. You are really really talnted artist!! 

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YatoAndYukine4Life In reply to ??? [2015-12-06 16:33:00 +0000 UTC]

I love it its beautiful!!!! ^^

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RoxieIsAlive In reply to ??? [2015-12-06 02:01:48 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful! <3

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rottendickcheese In reply to ??? [2015-12-05 13:29:38 +0000 UTC]

dafaq

i want to draw like y ou

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Breesing100 [2015-12-02 03:06:09 +0000 UTC]

Its so gorgeous

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Nishithepainter [2015-12-01 21:57:50 +0000 UTC]

"to feel so bad you hurt yourself to feel better"
i'll have to remember this if i ever have to explain.
thankyou, for the amazing speech <3

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Sukiao [2015-11-29 21:07:26 +0000 UTC]

Really Powerful.

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Katipie777 [2015-11-28 12:11:37 +0000 UTC]

IM SPEECHLESS THIS IS AMAZING!

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MontyEverest [2015-11-27 10:50:42 +0000 UTC]

its so beautiful. 

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LilChiisai [2015-11-23 04:16:17 +0000 UTC]

Thank you...♥

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SebastianStevens [2015-11-21 17:23:00 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful message and artwork, keep up the good work!

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Quantum-Optic [2015-11-21 11:10:38 +0000 UTC]

such beautiful warmth, and a touching description

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LittlePervert1 [2015-11-11 18:49:07 +0000 UTC]

Captivating!  These look like the colors of Autumn.  Beautifully done. <3

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Tena360 [2015-11-03 02:27:14 +0000 UTC]

I really like your art. I noticed how most of the lighting was on the butterfly and there was some darkness on the girl. I don't know if this was intentional or not, but I thought this was very expressive. I also liked how you did the scars, as many scars are permanent. I really love your art, it is so beautiful and artistic!

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Le-Papillon-57 [2015-11-01 01:33:29 +0000 UTC]

Again a wonderful picture and a beautiful text
As butterlfy, I hope I'll can help to bring some hope in this world. I'm not anymore in dA thoses days (years !!), but I am happy that I found your page today. 

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LilitRose [2015-10-28 22:48:52 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful. The person I love suffers from depression....
...it's so fitting to be a butterfly. This has been in my saved pictures forever, and stumbling across it again and reading your description filled me with hope. Thank you.

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untitledcanvas [2015-10-26 18:38:20 +0000 UTC]

Thank so much for helping others out there who suffer from depression, I love your art because It really shows the horror of depression in a beautiful way. Keep up the good work! Also, thank you again!

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