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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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Comments: 935

Aryatex [2016-05-13 03:43:43 +0000 UTC]

this is so pretty

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LunaRenaDeVandall [2016-05-13 02:37:47 +0000 UTC]

Was wondering if you would be ok with me using this as a facebook cover page for my Butterfly project page on Facebook? Will link back to your DA and give credit... This  picture really touches my heart because how self harm has effected my life.

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kitkatsforever [2016-05-11 20:40:29 +0000 UTC]

Wow, that is so beautiful, and meaningful. I'm nnot half the artist you are, but I'm off to draw a butterfly!

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lumenite88 [2016-04-30 03:09:20 +0000 UTC]

Totally doing this.

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Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-04-12 05:16:16 +0000 UTC]

I honestly have been suffering from depression for too long now.. One of my friend showed this to me, for the second time..I tried to the the "Butterfly Project"..it failed..because my life keeps on getting worse. So, I just cut when I feel the need too..I do so many different things to self-harm now.. I do so many different things..

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-04-30 03:06:37 +0000 UTC]

Don't cut. God created you to be someone special. He made you to live. You can be strong. I have faith in you.  

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Camaro-GirlZl1 In reply to lumenite88 [2016-04-30 03:28:58 +0000 UTC]

To be honest..I used to "follow God" but when my depression got worse..I'm like," Nope!" And stopped.. I'm homeless now...going through hell...

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-04-30 03:40:50 +0000 UTC]

Oh. Sorry. Ummm.....words can't explain how embarrassed I am. Anyway, keep your chin up! You're still here, aren't you?

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Camaro-GirlZl1 In reply to lumenite88 [2016-05-02 14:49:54 +0000 UTC]

No. It's fine..sorry for the late reply..I have been very suicidal and busy..

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-05-02 20:52:12 +0000 UTC]

It's okay. A new butterfly has been added to my collection. Now I must go explain to my boyfriend why there are butterflies on my arms.

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Camaro-GirlZl1 In reply to lumenite88 [2016-05-02 21:03:06 +0000 UTC]

I don't do the butterflies.. I just cut..cut till I feel pain..sometimes that's not even enough for me..sometimes I have to do more than cutting..suicide.. I tried two nights ago..and going to try again..hopin that no one stops me...I mean, I really am too depressed to live... I am nothing.. I am worthless... I don't need to keep on living with all of his pain I have..... 

Your not alone. You don't have to be.

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-05-02 21:25:35 +0000 UTC]

Please don't. Your family will be devastated! I'll be crying for you. You have a life to live. I'm rambling, sorry.

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Camaro-GirlZl1 In reply to lumenite88 [2016-05-02 21:37:45 +0000 UTC]

*sighs*

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-05-07 22:02:37 +0000 UTC]

Umm.....Was it something I said?

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Camaro-GirlZl1 In reply to lumenite88 [2016-05-10 18:24:27 +0000 UTC]

No..Justin's going through hell...

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lumenite88 In reply to Camaro-GirlZl1 [2016-05-12 00:56:19 +0000 UTC]

Oh my. I'm sorry to hear that.....my deepest concern. And empathy. But not pity. I'm rambling, sorry.

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Ever-CW [2016-04-03 13:15:19 +0000 UTC]

Love the butterfly...colours...actually I love everything about your picture♥

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hundredcolors [2016-03-28 17:58:24 +0000 UTC]

Deep...  

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BrunoTito [2016-03-27 15:17:20 +0000 UTC]

Great work... really beautiful!!! which app you use to get a clear picture? whenever I take a picture the paper is dark

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gamersphotography [2016-03-26 22:30:14 +0000 UTC]

I can't, I take showers every night. is there any other way I could do this? like a butterfly on a paper note?

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lumenite88 In reply to gamersphotography [2016-04-30 03:08:31 +0000 UTC]

What about paint? I know from experience that it works. (Talk to my newly painted walls.)

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gamersphotography In reply to lumenite88 [2016-04-30 03:29:43 +0000 UTC]

I-it's too l-late, I-I've already f-failed the challenge 5 t-times

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lumenite88 In reply to gamersphotography [2016-04-30 03:38:46 +0000 UTC]

*pats you on the head* I've barely started, and I've already killed 3 moths.

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gamersphotography In reply to lumenite88 [2016-04-30 14:40:07 +0000 UTC]

y-yea. and paint wouldn't be a good idea, I'd either mess up horribly or drink it, trying to kill myself

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lumenite88 In reply to gamersphotography [2016-05-02 20:53:58 +0000 UTC]

better not come to my house. I have paint by the bucket.

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gamersphotography In reply to lumenite88 [2016-05-03 02:33:54 +0000 UTC]

well, my family has a cupboard full of cleaning shit... so if I wanted to I could probably wait until my parents aren't home and drink some of that... that would be a lot less complex than what my original plan was... but at least I have some will to live... I guess...

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lumenite88 In reply to gamersphotography [2016-05-07 21:58:49 +0000 UTC]

.........okay.............glad you have a will to live.

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mccnofstars In reply to gamersphotography [2016-03-27 06:28:27 +0000 UTC]

well, you could use Sharpie... It comes off a lot less easier.

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gamersphotography In reply to mccnofstars [2016-03-27 06:50:20 +0000 UTC]

I can't find a sharpie

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mccnofstars In reply to gamersphotography [2016-03-27 07:46:29 +0000 UTC]

...oh...

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gamersphotography In reply to mccnofstars [2016-03-27 07:53:44 +0000 UTC]

meh, doesn't matter. I'm good at being crazy so I can just imagine, butterflies I guess

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mccnofstars In reply to gamersphotography [2016-03-27 08:05:35 +0000 UTC]

lol

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DimondsAce [2016-03-24 16:20:20 +0000 UTC]

I love this but what gets me kinda worked up is that boys self harm too they can feel love hate and loneliness .they can hate themselves just like us boys can cry after a breakup or a loss of someone they love .we are all human we just fight different levels with the same devil

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Wilde-Cheetah In reply to DimondsAce [2016-03-29 11:44:28 +0000 UTC]

and boys can do this too. she isn't denying the fact that boys can self-harm as well.

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DimondsAce In reply to Wilde-Cheetah [2016-03-29 19:10:52 +0000 UTC]

I know i'm Just saying and ps i adore your art

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Wilde-Cheetah In reply to DimondsAce [2016-03-31 10:15:44 +0000 UTC]

aw thanks <3

i understand i may have come across as a little rude back there ^^

i get how some people tend to think that only girls self-harm. anyway, have a nice day c:

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DimondsAce In reply to Wilde-Cheetah [2016-03-31 18:57:48 +0000 UTC]

Ik i esa rude too , people even think that boys arent victims of rape and violence We All Are Human no matter what and we all need love ❤️💯

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Qua-ttro [2016-03-17 03:05:37 +0000 UTC]

This is such a great idea! I'm going to show this to a struggling friend of mine who has become suicidal again, and do it myself in support. I hope you're doing well, Blue, and everything is going well for you. Your artwork is amazing and so deep, and some are extremely relatable. I love how deep they all are, and your absolutely beautiful style. Best wishes Blue!

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matzgamerHD [2016-03-13 21:07:38 +0000 UTC]

Your art is like so freakin cool

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HEE-Girl [2016-03-06 14:25:07 +0000 UTC]

I did something similar to this last summer - horse heads versus butterflies - and it was the same goal = save the horse and don't cut it's head off. I feel better now, and am back to my normal self. Well, my usual self, I'm not really normal..

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REDDYROSE [2016-03-06 05:03:14 +0000 UTC]

OMG YAS

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lordofthecrazies [2016-03-06 04:04:20 +0000 UTC]

Pretty!!

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Weird-Puppy-Studios [2016-03-04 05:48:24 +0000 UTC]

S T U N N I N G ^.^

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KamiQoo [2016-03-03 19:13:20 +0000 UTC]

Your style of drawing is very well. I realy love it!! Just can't discribe how i like it!

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Bethysnittz [2016-03-03 08:51:03 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful love your drawings, and you meaningfulness to them

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BrendiH [2016-03-03 02:02:58 +0000 UTC]

Really beautiful!! <3

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Sasumin [2016-03-03 01:55:26 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful    

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Mystie-Wolf [2016-03-01 23:17:35 +0000 UTC]

thanks you. thanks you for this. this make me feel so much better  

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Silent--Jay [2016-02-29 03:13:22 +0000 UTC]

I may try this actually 

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JTBPreston [2016-02-28 22:47:02 +0000 UTC]

That is so beautiful, cute and deep! 

 

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