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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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Comments: 935

JadexTorii In reply to ??? [2015-06-20 06:19:43 +0000 UTC]

Yeah thanks you get a cookie *Hands cookie*

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Okeki In reply to JadexTorii [2015-06-20 15:10:06 +0000 UTC]

//eats

thanks

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JadexTorii [2015-06-09 20:13:50 +0000 UTC]

I did this once but one I was at school a girl had a knife and cut me where the butterfly was she killed my butterfly my little ava

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Eatherai [2015-06-09 08:46:17 +0000 UTC]

wow.. i need to draw a butterfly and I'm gonna call it Faith.

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ageha-nacht [2015-06-09 04:23:17 +0000 UTC]

This really hits close to home because I have a really close friend who's going through some tough times and self harm is/was one of her main methods of coping. Regardless of circumstance I'm always there to support her no matter what to the best of my ability. She's taken the butterfly challenge before and named one of them after her boyfriend, a close friend who she talks to long distance, and myself. I continue to be strong for her and many others and support them because I don't want to see them fall into their own darkness. Thank you for what you do, your art is incredibly inspirational and it gives its own hope to those who look at it.

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Prettyportie40 In reply to ??? [2015-06-08 23:32:54 +0000 UTC]

KAWAII                    EVEN MORE KAWAII THAN A LLAMA. AND A LLAMA IS HARD TO BEAT IN A KAWAII CONTEST                         

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rosepetal179 In reply to ??? [2015-06-07 23:37:20 +0000 UTC]

this is a pretty neat drawing. i love the butterfly, and i love the butterfly project. i'll have to try that whenever im depressed.

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TheRosyPinkPrincess In reply to ??? [2015-06-07 19:16:57 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful <3

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CrystalartMLP In reply to ??? [2015-06-07 15:00:53 +0000 UTC]

i can use your images for a video in youtube?

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xlivcor In reply to ??? [2015-06-07 13:21:49 +0000 UTC]

soo wow !          

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BakaGee In reply to ??? [2015-06-06 07:35:55 +0000 UTC]

Your art is absolutely beautiful. You portray the messages so well, they warm my heart so much. It is things like this that should be seen globally.

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mushroommudkip In reply to ??? [2015-06-05 02:01:33 +0000 UTC]

Wow i didnt notice the scars in the other photo but this makes it stand out so much more.

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AgentKK In reply to mushroommudkip [2015-06-05 19:04:45 +0000 UTC]

In the other photo, there weren't any scars on the girl, because she has scars you could never find on her skin. Scars that she holds deep in her heart, that you would never guess she had if you didn't know her. At least, that's how I interpret it. In the other photo, only the butterfly's wings are visibly damaged. It does stand out more when things are visible, doesn't it? 

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IlluminatedinShadows In reply to ??? [2015-06-03 09:00:07 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful, gorgeous, captivating . . . 

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rei--nbow In reply to ??? [2015-05-31 02:39:37 +0000 UTC]

i walked in on my friend while she was cutting...i swear its the only reason i cry.

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shadamy20 In reply to ??? [2015-05-28 21:16:00 +0000 UTC]

I love the style!

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RoseDuelistBBSHM In reply to ??? [2015-05-28 07:29:25 +0000 UTC]

SO beautiful!

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MoonrakerTrainer In reply to ??? [2015-05-27 20:48:34 +0000 UTC]

This is an amazing piece. It has helped a lot, your work is truly amazing!

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Athena1000 In reply to ??? [2015-05-27 19:58:57 +0000 UTC]

love this  

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SabrinaAmatistaKaila In reply to ??? [2015-05-27 17:14:16 +0000 UTC]

Wow.........sad story.....but I like the drawing!

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Pandorazx In reply to ??? [2015-05-27 09:56:29 +0000 UTC]

I love this! 

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lololala9 In reply to ??? [2015-05-26 16:09:00 +0000 UTC]

this is really amazing, thank you.

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KtheKreative In reply to ??? [2015-05-26 07:47:18 +0000 UTC]

I'm gonna draw a butterfly on my wrist now... No, in the morning.
I'm not depressed. I just wanna be a supporter.

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TFAngelwolf In reply to ??? [2015-05-25 17:57:47 +0000 UTC]

wow. I know some one who cuts, I'm going to tell her about this. It makes me cry when I see people do it. 

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Shapmaiore In reply to ??? [2015-05-25 13:28:18 +0000 UTC]

I'll show that to my friends. One of them has this problem, and I wanna help her.
You can show the light to everyone. Keep it up.

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LoveFromSky In reply to ??? [2015-05-25 10:40:01 +0000 UTC]

I nearly cried!

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YukiHaira In reply to ??? [2015-05-25 10:37:05 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful......
I also really like the butterfly project!

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uhlivyaa In reply to ??? [2015-05-25 03:41:03 +0000 UTC]

this is stunning...

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Maja-ll In reply to ??? [2015-05-24 21:49:12 +0000 UTC]

thank you so much

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DlNOSAUR In reply to ??? [2015-05-24 06:09:44 +0000 UTC]

This helped me a lot, thank you with all of my heart blu.

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Pipinchek In reply to ??? [2015-05-23 10:12:30 +0000 UTC]

So cute!

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SillyScribblet In reply to ??? [2015-05-23 02:42:44 +0000 UTC]

Everything you do is so beautiful. It makes my heartache. You're such a wonderful human being

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Fur-Fag013 In reply to ??? [2015-05-22 23:40:41 +0000 UTC]

I saw this awhile ago and started drawing butterflies on myself where I want to harm. I finally found it again. Thank you.
Thank you so much.

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Samhayn In reply to ??? [2015-05-22 19:16:34 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for this, I really needed to see it. I haven't self harmed in over 4 years but the urge is stronger than ever right now and I don't think I'll ever be done with the habit entirely. This saved me for another day. 

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Meru-Black-Neko In reply to ??? [2015-05-22 13:00:08 +0000 UTC]

Whoa,that innocent feeling in this artwork..Whoa.

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Gl0Viih In reply to ??? [2015-05-22 09:25:56 +0000 UTC]

W0W!  That colors...  

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Little-Waterfall In reply to ??? [2015-05-20 16:07:28 +0000 UTC]

wow i love this one!

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LukaMegurineLover [2015-05-12 19:39:09 +0000 UTC]

I love this pic, really

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Demon-Kitty9890 [2015-05-07 22:46:33 +0000 UTC]

I think you did best on her face, but really I don't care cause I love it all!    AND ALL YOUR ART!

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aliceingemlandltd [2015-05-01 17:41:17 +0000 UTC]

can you buy these prints?

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aliceingemlandltd [2015-05-01 17:10:28 +0000 UTC]

lots of my jewellery is butterflies.... I am a little obsessed with them, and bright colours. very much in love with this one!

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ArielPalubeski [2015-04-30 11:12:24 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful. 

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livintoinspire [2015-04-21 07:08:18 +0000 UTC]

Wow... am I the only one who cried when I saw this..? I regret not buying this one when I saw you 👍: 0 ⏩: 0

RayelleFnaf [2015-04-02 23:11:42 +0000 UTC]

If I do this I would have butterflies all over my stomach and palms.

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Dakaido [2015-04-02 21:04:08 +0000 UTC]

I need to do this with the butterfly. 
I don't cut, but I often feel bad, and I think this somehow could help me

Thanks a lot for sharing your art, this is amazing

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DreamsAll In reply to ??? [2015-04-02 13:07:32 +0000 UTC]

That's fine . Fairy ?.

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xXArtIsTheWeaponXx In reply to ??? [2015-03-29 19:53:15 +0000 UTC]

I drew a butterfly on my wrist to support my best friend and cousin who both cut

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kittylove456 In reply to ??? [2015-03-29 01:55:29 +0000 UTC]

I love the idea of the butterfly project. What you said is really sweet and the picture is beautiful

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JCherry12 In reply to ??? [2015-03-28 20:07:11 +0000 UTC]

I love the meaning behind this drawing! You're such an amazing artist!

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Freedom50 In reply to ??? [2015-03-26 20:18:23 +0000 UTC]

Wow.....Truly inspiring.

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