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Nardhwen β .:Short Comic 13 - Insecurities:.
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Published: 2012-07-09 18:48:20 +0000 UTC; Views: 3968; Favourites: 100; Downloads: 0
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Well to explain this further you'd have to know a bit of my childhood. I grew up being told I was fat and that I had to lose weight and be skinny to be beautiful. My parents were good to me but that was their only flaw. They always wanted me to be someone I wasn't. I have a curvy body and my mom, despite blaming my eating habits, never truly started me off by feeding me the right foods I was supposed to eat growing up to prevent me from being over weight so I have to change my whole lifestyle to make it happen.Anyway, I'm very self conscious cus my parents always told me I wasn't good enough to keep or get a guy. They always told me I had to be perfect looking and skinny lol. So when I went shopping for clothes and I couldn't fit in a pair of jeans I broke down XD. I'm such a cry baby. So that's what my bf told me.
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I'm glad you have someone to remind you are beautiful. ^_^
Wait, Puertorican? Que cool! I am puertorican too! I live in the island.
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hahaha I'm in Arizona but my whole family is in puerto rico
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Your Boyfriend needs to be CLONED!!! You are one lucky girl!! And I think your PARENTS need a lot of back talk from YOU. No one that does that to their child...should get away with it. We all love our parents...even when they are so misguided that they think putting down/degrading, their own children is like an Olympic SPORT. Giving them a little SAND in their face..would be satisfying. Tell them FLAT OUT that you like yourself the way you are. And if they tell you that you are wrong...or shouldn't ...then you tell them that the GREY in their hair...or lack OF HAIR...is so unflattering. NO ONE likes having the ugly facts of AGING being pointed out to them. >; D
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hahaha I try to block them out. They're ignorant old fashioned people I think.
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Ahaha! X D I would think so TOO! >: D Good for you darling!!! ^ o ^ //
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My dad used to do that too. Casually making comments about my weigth and that I should thrive to be a little lighter even though IΒ΄m not even overweight. But I got it to stop by sitting down with him and explaining that his jabs didnΒ΄t help at all, that they were hurting me and making me feel miserable. Fortunately he understood and those comments stopped.
Fitting in a pair of jeans... I feel your pain. Thought my problem is that the sport I do has earned me pretty good muscles in my thighs (look up speedskating and see for yourself some examples) and its always such a depressing feat to try and find jeans that fit me.
Either they are perfect on my thighs and too big on my hips or they are too small in my thighs and perfect on my hips...
It sucks and doesnΒ΄t help my self esteem at all.
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Ahhh... Real guys cannot be that perfect. To say all the right things at the right time. Are you sure you didn't snatch the only one in the world? And now rub it in our unfortunate faces... 
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XD what can I say... Karma sucks. Don't do to other what you would not like others do to you is what I say.
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*gasp* that's not something parents should say to their kids D8 but its nice to know how much he cares about YOU instead of what you look like and it's just so freaking sweet TT^TT *tears of joy lol*
also when i read the description part i couldn't help but get so upset that someone had the audacity to make one of my favorite artists feel like poo >
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Been in the exact same situation.. except it was my mom that was the one to always degrade me and tell my husband he deserved better then a fat ass like myself. My problem was more from steroids that was in my asthma medicines when I was a child... so I have slightly chunkier legs then most females... Its also alot harder to get rid of weight cause from medicines then it is from foods cause it takes triple the amount of exercise and that becomes difficult because of my asthma flaring up if I exorcize more then a little under an hour a day.
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Aww! Every time I read on of your little doodles, it reminds me of me and my husband, because we do the exact same things! XD
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aawwwww remind of me and my boyfriend but im super skinny i need some weight and we i mean i always bring back the conversation of other girl being pretty and i need more weight
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Awe this is so sweet!!!
(oh in part 2 you have a grammar error. You have put while it should be but. Just thought I would let you know. not trying to be mean.)
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XD I had noticed that before but I thought I uploaded the right copy. Thanks for letting me know.
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Your welcome. I love your little short comics. They are so cute and when I'm note having a good day they put me in a better mood.
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Awesome! I'm glad
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I know the feeling about the whole situation, it sucks.
I'm happy though that someone tells you that you're beautiful and that they love you.
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