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Published: 2012-10-25 01:59:34 +0000 UTC; Views: 27154; Favourites: 350; Downloads: 201
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Description Assalaamu alaikum [peace be to you],

while reading the messages in my inbox, I found In Hijab-Lovers's journal the link to this tumblr article. After I read it, I thought it deserved reading from more people, so here I am sharing it with you guys/girls.

I hope it can push you to reflect a little on the consequences of being judgmental...



"I went to the mall, and a little girl called me a terrorist...

My name is Ela. I am seventeen years old. I am not Muslim, but my friend told me about her friend being discriminated against for wearing a hijab. So I decided to see the discrimination firsthand to get a better understanding of what Muslim women go through.

My friend and I pinned scarves around our heads, and then we went to the mall. Normally, vendors try to get us to buy things and ask us to sample a snack. Clerks usually ask us if we need help, tell us about sales, and smile at us. Not today. People, including vendors, clerks, and other shoppers, wouldn’t look at us. They didn’t talk to us. They acted like we didn’t exist. They didn’t want to be caught staring at us, so they didn’t look at all.

And then, in one store, a girl (who looked about four years old) asked her mom if my friend and I were terrorists. She wasn’t trying to be mean or anything. I don’t even think she could have grasped the idea of prejudice. However, her mother’s response is one I can never forgive or forget. The mother hushed her child, glared at me, and then took her daughter by the hand and led her out of the store.

All that because I put a scarf on my head. Just like that, a mother taught her little girl that being Muslim was evil. It didn’t matter that I was a nice person. All that mattered was that I looked different. That little girl may grow up and teach her children the same thing.

This experiment gave me a huge wakeup call. It lasted for only a few hours, so I can’t even begin to imagine how much prejudice Muslim girls go through every day. It reminded me of something that many people know but rarely remember: the women in hijabs are people, just like all those women out there who aren’t Muslim.

People of Tumblr, please help me spread this message. Treat Muslims, Jews, Christians, Buddhists, Hindus, Pagans, Taoists, etc., exactly the way you want to be treated, regardless of what they’re wearing or not wearing, no exceptions. Reblog this. Tell your friends. I don’t know that the world will ever totally wipe out prejudice, but we can try, one blog at a time."

written by Ela from [link]



I hope this was beneficial.
if you like the above article and feel it can help, by all means, share it.


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Comments: 70

ZhaoZoharEX In reply to ??? [2012-10-25 02:43:46 +0000 UTC]

What is happening to society this day and age

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Shirei-Shou In reply to ??? [2012-10-25 02:37:20 +0000 UTC]

So sad.... I cant imagine if I'm in her place. I also wear hijab, but lucky stay in place where mostly people use it too. Generalization just too sad

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PinkSkullBunny In reply to ??? [2012-10-25 02:32:38 +0000 UTC]

People always seem to forget the one rule that all are taught when they are young, the golden rule. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
This is why the world has such problems, people are always discriminating against one another. However, without trying to sound mean spirited, this is how westerners are treated by many muslims as well.
When I went to muslim forums to learn more about muslims, and Islam, the people on the forums were saying awful things about western cultured people. So you see, its a double edged sword. Every community should be responsible for teaching their people not to judge others. And every community should speak out against their members who say bad or act poorly, against people of differing appearance or faith.

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heliozero In reply to ??? [2012-10-25 02:26:17 +0000 UTC]

Stories like these are heartbreaking. It's a necessary wake up call. Thank you for sharing. Thanks a lot.

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FaceTheWorldDude [2012-10-25 02:26:15 +0000 UTC]

I kind of felt the same way....
But it's okay since I live in a country where that kind of circumstance would never happen.

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Sagittarianism [2012-10-25 02:23:18 +0000 UTC]

That was well said! Muslim girls are just that: girls! They are us and we are them. The women and girls who wear scarves because of their religion deserve better than what they get; they deserve to be treated as the human beings that they are. I'm always angry when people start talking about Islam = Terrorism... that's not true! There's nothing wrong with showing humility to the Creator, be he or she known as Allah, Brahma, Buddha, Gaia, God, the Great Spirit, etc... Too many people don't realize that a whole lot of faiths on this planet start in the same area on Earth: the Middle East, the Holy Land. And most likely Jesus was not white, but dark skinned because of the amount of sun that is there and the amount of melanin in the skin of the people there to be able to withstand the sun because sunblock had not been invented yet. Jesus probably looked like any normal person that lived in that part of the world.
Anyway, I'm getting off-topic. The point is that a person is a person, with or without a head scarf or turban or what-have-you.
I'm glad that the author of the article did that little experiment; such things open our eyes and humanize us and the people we want to be close to.
Very glad you put this up; more people need to see this.

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Tito-Mosquito In reply to ??? [2012-10-25 02:21:07 +0000 UTC]

They deserve a lot of respect and love.

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Sonic1234567891 [2012-10-25 02:18:21 +0000 UTC]

they're human beings so yes, they deserve respect

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silvermitten [2012-10-25 02:16:42 +0000 UTC]

I actually was wondering about this myself.. I happen to come across a lot of muhajibat on a daily basis. and I always look at them and smile, and treat them just like normal. But on days where I'm walking around and I don't feel like smiling cause I'm too tired, I don't make eye contact with them because I don't want them to think I'm like glaring at them or staring because I think they're strange. 0.o I always wondered if I made prolonged eye contact in those situations... if that would be taken the wrong way. Even though maybe it's obvious that I'm tired or just don't feel like smiling?
Then I find myself smiling at only Muslims and looking past everybody else. That makes me feel weird too..

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Nova-Blaze [2012-10-25 02:14:50 +0000 UTC]

Love it. I love all religions and I respect them. They deserve it. We all deserve. Religious or not. I'm glad my parents teach me to respect them all.

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TheCreatorOf4 [2012-10-25 02:13:13 +0000 UTC]

Assuming this was in the USA, 'America' sounds more and more like a backwater nation.

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Dukewolfendoom [2012-10-25 02:07:22 +0000 UTC]

Jeez, I thought it was bad that I was a Mormon and was constantly called an "alien" or "heretic". ._.;;

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SparkleyKitKat [2012-10-25 02:05:55 +0000 UTC]

Im am a religious catholic but i respect all religions and even your choice of style. My best friends are all muslim and I feel left out cuz I don't have a scarf XD im the odd ball

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DragonVampriss [2012-10-25 02:05:28 +0000 UTC]

that is really sad...especially what the mother did...

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yayotaXD [2012-10-25 02:05:05 +0000 UTC]

happy eid : )

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SirDracoex [2012-10-25 02:03:01 +0000 UTC]

...okay, I'm a very faithful Catholic, but being called a terrorist JUST because you're a Muslim? That's just...



My condolences to the author of that article.

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Nayzak In reply to SirDracoex [2012-10-25 02:11:19 +0000 UTC]

if you, a very faithful Catholic, wore the hijab, you would probably also be called like that...

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SirDracoex In reply to Nayzak [2012-10-25 02:22:17 +0000 UTC]

The lack of logic in people these days is just... ludicrious.

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Nayzak In reply to SirDracoex [2012-10-25 02:23:24 +0000 UTC]

sadly...

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