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...Argh, freakin' title limit.Full Title: DA Stamp - Sexualities are not Personalities
You are more than welcome to place this stamp in your journal/shoutboard/etc. You don't have to ask.
Products with this phrase can be found in one of my online shops: [link]
This is my attempt at discouraging stereotypes, as they are not only frustrating, but can be quite judgmental as well.
Although there is nothing wrong with loving sports, not every heterosexual male does. Just like not every homosexual male loves shopping, not every heterosexual female is a princess, and not every homosexual female is butch. A person's sexuality does not determine his or her general interests.
The only thing it really says about someone is the gender(s) the person is attracted to. It doesn't say how they will love someone; if they will love someone; how devoted they are; how promiscuous they are; that they do or do not care about consent; the activities they will participate in; or many other things people seem to assume about someone just from knowing one fact about them. Those are based on the individual's personality; something that varies among many groups of people, no matter their sexuality, ethnicity, or age.
Don't believe me? I'm reasonably sure that if you were to approach a group of people, even if it's a group of people with similar interests or backgrounds, and asked them a few questions (about 10), they will not agree on everything. And that's only a small group with a few questions. Now imagine a large group of people and every possible opinion and interest they could possibly have. It's rather overwhelming, isn't it?
Edit: This also includes asexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, transsexuality ( I know it's not a sexuality, but it's LGBT related ), and any other sexuality out there. I only mentioned the main ones that are usually discussed in the example, but I believe it stands for all of them.
Others of This Series:
Ethnicities are not Personalities
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Stamp by The Phantom Panther ( *phantompanther )
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Comments: 391
untildawnchris In reply to ??? [2015-06-27 00:45:57 +0000 UTC]
"ANY MAN THAT CHEATS ON ME BETTER THINK TWICE!Β OR IM GONNA TELL THAT ASSHOLE TO SKY ROCKET TO HELL!!!"
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Disappointed-Gastly In reply to lyurskanen [2015-03-22 01:31:19 +0000 UTC]
I only used 'your' once and, in context, it was correct. Here, "YOUR SEXUALITY DOESN'T DEFINE YOU IN THE SLIGHTEST-". Here your is possessive, if I was to use "you're " I would be saying "you are sexuality-" and that doesn't make sense. Calm down little one.
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g0thi-cr0c In reply to ??? [2015-01-18 13:34:32 +0000 UTC]
I'm asexual and still girly
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TheGhoulAvenue In reply to ??? [2014-12-09 18:23:22 +0000 UTC]
I agree. Ive had many people think I was a lesbian because I'm a tomboy and gamer. I have nothing against lesbians but the stereotypes are bothering me. Also "You dont act your gender" is something I heard alot too and its just..silly. People should act how they want to not depending on their gender stereotype.
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Sportsisformeasagirl In reply to ??? [2014-06-25 19:03:10 +0000 UTC]
So true! Im a tomboy and my grandma said that I cant be masculine. Im a girl, not girly. I am done.
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KATZENSAFT In reply to Sportsisformeasagirl [2014-10-18 15:14:01 +0000 UTC]
Tomboy isn't a sexuality...
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Sportsisformeasagirl In reply to KATZENSAFT [2014-10-18 22:25:53 +0000 UTC]
That's an old comment I made...
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NecromanticOwl In reply to ??? [2014-06-19 14:52:23 +0000 UTC]
Agreed. Everyone around here seems to think that flamboyant/'camp' = gay. But in fact I knows some completely and utterly flamboyant guys, many with wives and or children.
Same goes for the tomboy = lesbian and crossdresser = gay Bullshit. It's annoying. Damn you stereotypes, I shake my fish at you Β
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Cirirasp In reply to ??? [2014-06-03 18:12:14 +0000 UTC]
I really hate it when a hetero boy give a hug to other, and people say: "Oh, it's gay!"
Why? Because he hugged a friend?
Β I mentioned this in other web, and people started to called me homofobic, when I don't have anything against any sexuality, and I support everyone love who they want.
On the other way, I'm hetero, and I'm such a tomboy.
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NiftyNautilus In reply to ??? [2014-05-19 19:58:51 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, I agree. People think that just because I'm straight, that I must hate gays or bisexuals, but even though it goes against my sense of ethics, I still treat them just the same because they are still God's creation.
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Tunder2510 [2013-10-17 14:02:40 +0000 UTC]
I'm tomboy. I hate shopping and most of entertaiment what i love is for boys. But i'm straight!
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ConformalSquid In reply to ??? [2013-09-29 00:32:05 +0000 UTC]
ugh thank you so much for this. I'm so tired of seeing OCs based on stereotypes.
Β people can't seem to make a character with a different sexuality other than straight as just someone with an attraction to said gender/sex, it has to be a stereotype and I'm so tired of it. You wouldn't make an autistic OC come off as being full blown retarded (sorry if I'm being offensive for using that word) or someone with down syndrome as being fully blown stupid, because it's an offensive stereotype, so why this?
Β And not only with OCs, people hear about your sexuality and they just instantly assume shit about you. Yes, I'm a lesbian, no I won't make out with some random chick for you to get your rocks off, no I will not instantly prey on you because you are a girl, piss off.
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gigandjett In reply to ??? [2013-08-27 23:13:11 +0000 UTC]
SO. TRUE.
Thank you! I hate stereotypes... gosh.Β
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N1njaStar28 In reply to ??? [2013-06-27 02:19:11 +0000 UTC]
I'm a Bi sexual dude, but I HATE pink, make up and anything girly(not that there's anything wrong with that, I'm just not into it).
I say be who you are and don't worry about what other people think. We only live one time after all. :3
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to ??? [2013-05-11 05:27:59 +0000 UTC]
This is absurd. A persons sexuality is part of their personality
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inapopovici In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-13 17:58:04 +0000 UTC]
Actually, no.
I am BisexUal, but I never change my personality around someone.
My personality is MINE, it is not chosen by my SEXUALITY.
If it WAS, I would be all BUBBLY and SHY and SHIT LIKE THAT around EVERYONE.
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to inapopovici [2013-08-13 18:19:05 +0000 UTC]
I never said that a sexuality changes a persons personality, but it's certainly part of it, just as much as any other personality trait. Sexuality is a personality trait.
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inapopovici In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-13 18:22:37 +0000 UTC]
Actually not. If yes, like most of them, Heterosexuals would be all snobby hating and bashing on every Bi/Homo/As they see.
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to inapopovici [2013-08-13 18:25:17 +0000 UTC]
Let's see if this is difficult to understand
Sexuality
Is a personality trait
That can affect other traits
But not necessarily the same way in the same people
It's not that complicatedΒ
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inapopovici In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-13 18:27:59 +0000 UTC]
Okie.
As you say............
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to inapopovici [2013-08-13 18:31:49 +0000 UTC]
Also your assumption that a majority of heterosexuals are homophobic is kind of ridiculous and inaccurateΒ
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Chicken-Yuki In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-14 22:49:07 +0000 UTC]
It's also hypocritical.
She basically said afterwards that Homophobia essentially makes up a heterosexual's personality.
Thats... essentially an attempt to cripple her own argument.
But, you know, "if she says so".Β
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inapopovici In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-13 18:33:45 +0000 UTC]
I actually live with Homophobes, they are all Heterosexuals and BASHED, BULLIED, BEAT UP and made one kid in the school SUICIDE because he was gay.
And they bullied, beat up, and stole money from two lesbians in my class.
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to inapopovici [2013-08-13 18:35:11 +0000 UTC]
Alright. I'm aware that most homophobes are heterosexuals, but that doesn't make most heterosexuals homophobesΒ
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inapopovici In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-08-13 18:45:34 +0000 UTC]
C: If you say so...
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vriskasexual In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-07-06 01:30:13 +0000 UTC]
You're joking right? Your sexuality is something about you, it doesn't shape how you act...
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to vriskasexual [2013-07-06 01:32:57 +0000 UTC]
Well, if you like penis, naturally, you're going to act differently around a penis than someone who doesn't, right?
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vriskasexual In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2013-07-06 02:33:44 +0000 UTC]
Uh no actually. Just because you are attracted to a certain gender doesn't mean you act a certain way around a person of that gender.
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to vriskasexual [2013-07-06 02:51:20 +0000 UTC]
Now we both know that isn't true. Sexuality does affect our actions. It is part of a person's personality, but it in no way is the defining trait of them
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Wallsofgoo In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2014-03-12 06:09:39 +0000 UTC]
theres no way to act a sexuality so its not a personality trait O_O
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to Wallsofgoo [2014-03-24 18:49:39 +0000 UTC]
Are you suggesting that a man having sex with another man isn't acting gay
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MysticQuests In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2015-01-24 19:01:47 +0000 UTC]
its not "acting" gay ts being gay wtf lmaoooo
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to MysticQuests [2015-01-26 21:48:06 +0000 UTC]
Well
I mean
Yeah
It's both
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Wallsofgoo In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2014-03-24 22:36:46 +0000 UTC]
yes
its having sex with another man
not acting gay
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to Wallsofgoo [2014-04-08 00:12:09 +0000 UTC]
Is there a differenceΒ
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Wallsofgoo In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2014-04-08 00:16:03 +0000 UTC]
yeah one is real the other isnt
theres no real thing as "acting gay" the only thing it does is stereotype people
"gay" is not a personality trait
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to Wallsofgoo [2014-04-09 02:21:49 +0000 UTC]
Well again
Isn't engaging in homosexual intercourse "Acting gay"
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Wallsofgoo In reply to TeamUnitedNerds [2014-04-09 02:22:56 +0000 UTC]
no, its engaging in homosexual intercourseΒ
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TeamUnitedNerds In reply to Wallsofgoo [2014-04-09 17:15:18 +0000 UTC]
Which would be
Indisputably, acting gay
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