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UntamedUnwanted β€” For all the Sad Secrets I've Read

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Description And if you can't picture a day, picture a moment. Sometimes, a moment can be the best year of your life.

This is for all the sad secrets I have read lately. I'm so sorry you are all suffering...I know how pain can make you hurt, and stop believing there is a light at the end of the tunnel. This isn't a permanent fix. But it has worked for me when I was depressed and I found a few minutes of happiness. I hope it works for all of you a little bit too.



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hummingbird7 In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 21:45:15 +0000 UTC]

Thank you very much

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ravinniaofcreed In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 21:40:27 +0000 UTC]

*cries * Thank you so much! I needed to hear this!!! I have been battling depression and I am almost defeated... Thank you so much for this!!! *huge grateful hug*

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to ravinniaofcreed [2013-08-02 13:50:19 +0000 UTC]

I am so happy I could help in any way.

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Sushiprincess [2013-07-29 21:32:16 +0000 UTC]

It's a great little advice No one said it would cure depression at once, it just might help to ease the pain for a little while. Reminded me of this song from The Sound of Music:

My Favorite Things
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things

Cream colored ponies and crisp apple streudels
Doorbells and sleigh bells and schnitzel with noodles
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings
These are a few of my favorite things

Girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes
Snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes
Silver white winters that melt into springs
These are a few of my favorite things

When the dog bites
When the bee stings
When I'm feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don't feel so bad


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UntamedUnwanted In reply to Sushiprincess [2013-08-02 13:46:09 +0000 UTC]

Thank you my dear...and I love that movie AND that song.

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EdgeofFear In reply to Sushiprincess [2013-07-29 21:53:32 +0000 UTC]

I totally sang that in my head as I was reading it. I don't even remember how long it's been since I've heard that. It made me smile. Thank you.

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Sushiprincess In reply to EdgeofFear [2013-07-30 18:04:37 +0000 UTC]

My pleasure I listen to this song quite often, it's not the original though but a very sweet version by a Korean jazz singer namend Youn Sun-nah, you can check it out on YT if you like. Β I find it very serene and soothing.Β 

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Leya0987 In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 21:19:10 +0000 UTC]

Thank you. I've been looking for something like this for a while.

Is it bad that most of my good memories are from dreams, and surprisingly, nightmares?

Don't ask how nightmares are good, they just are.

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to Leya0987 [2013-08-02 13:45:48 +0000 UTC]

No thats not bad at all. The best year of my life was twenty minutes in a dream.

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Leya0987 In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-02 16:09:39 +0000 UTC]

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DavidCurser In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 21:08:27 +0000 UTC]

I ... can't remember

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to DavidCurser [2013-08-02 13:45:11 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry.

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DavidCurser In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-02 13:53:40 +0000 UTC]

yeah me too, thanks

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SteffenC-itsjustme [2013-07-29 21:00:22 +0000 UTC]

Remembrance. It is indeed a powerful tool to use. Unfortunately it's often used unconsciously, when we think about our past and what we've lost. I do the same these days and think I will try to focus on something more positive, now that you have reminded me of it. ^^ thanks

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to SteffenC-itsjustme [2013-08-02 13:44:57 +0000 UTC]

Its always easier to focus on what we lose rather than what is positive. I try and focus harder on the positive myself these days. It really helps.

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SteffenC-itsjustme In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-02 18:44:27 +0000 UTC]

That it is. I guess it's our default setting to focus on the negative or the losses we've experienced.
Everyone I know who is able to focus on the positive things in life had to learn to do just that. I think it's a rare thing to be a natural optimist, but some people do have a very bright outlook on life, even from the get go.
I'm happy to hear it helps you

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AleciaMaria In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 20:36:50 +0000 UTC]

I've read some sad secrets too, and it's nice of you making this for them, very kind!!! I hope they read it and apply it!!!

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to AleciaMaria [2013-08-02 13:26:59 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much, my dear.

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AleciaMaria In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-15 00:27:24 +0000 UTC]

No, thank you for wanting to do something nice for those people with those secrets who are going through tough times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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nastthecffox17 In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 20:27:12 +0000 UTC]

for how deep this is, it's just a glorified 'get over it' comment. you know, the best thing to say to someone who's depressed.

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WhiteRaven90 In reply to nastthecffox17 [2013-07-30 02:03:45 +0000 UTC]

Last time i checked the 'get over it' comments are useless because they don't offer advice, but this does, therefore it's nothing like a 'get over it' comment.

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Get-fancy In reply to nastthecffox17 [2013-07-29 21:09:32 +0000 UTC]

Not really, happy thoughts help me cope, just as if someone were to think of a cat getting ran over to get sad, you think of happy things to cheer yourself up.

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sad-rosesstock In reply to nastthecffox17 [2013-07-29 20:39:30 +0000 UTC]

If it's clinical depression, allΒ 'get over it' can do is kind of annoy the person. Only they are too deep in the pit to feel real annoyance.

In short, it don't work that way.

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to nastthecffox17 [2013-07-29 20:32:50 +0000 UTC]

Its actually a survival technique. As someone who has been depressed, this is what I used to do when I was depressed. I tried to think of something amazing that has happened to me and recapture what I felt, and then keep that feeling long enough.

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Phandagart In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 19:50:40 +0000 UTC]

This is incredible, I read a very similar advice in a book very recently, The Bunker Diaries. It was advice on how to deal with being afraid of tests in school, by imagining the situation having passed and having been successful and then approaching the test with that feeling.
This seems to be good advice if two unrelated people have the same idea.

Btw, don't read that book. It's incredibly well written and very gripping, but you will feel horrible after finishing it, I promise you.

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to Phandagart [2013-07-29 20:35:30 +0000 UTC]

Its the power of mind always. We can convince ourselves of anything,Β 


Now you have me curious! *must read!*

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Phandagart In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-07-30 00:47:28 +0000 UTC]

No seriously, this book eats happy feelings for breakfast. Read at your own risk, you've been warned!

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enteringmymind In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 19:48:19 +0000 UTC]

This is so inspiring!!! Plus we must be grateful that we experienced that special day and forever keep it within our hearts. Thank you for this reminder!!!

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to enteringmymind [2013-08-02 13:26:36 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much for your lovely, positive comment.

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raptorkil In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 19:27:41 +0000 UTC]

Close your eyes, picture the best day of your life... fall asleep with your mind awake.... Wake Induced Lucid DreamΒ  Β 

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to raptorkil [2013-08-02 13:25:37 +0000 UTC]

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AzRaIL922 In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 19:20:41 +0000 UTC]

I dont remember such a day ... what does that mean?! I dont have a bad life or something like that xD There are many great moments but I dont remember them...

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to AzRaIL922 [2013-08-02 13:25:26 +0000 UTC]

Then make new ones!

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ZumSchwarzwald [2013-07-29 19:14:34 +0000 UTC]

But if I close my eyes I can't continue reading the text!


Really sweet

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to ZumSchwarzwald [2013-08-02 13:23:49 +0000 UTC]

Then maybe someone can read it out to you!


Thank you for the comment.

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ZumSchwarzwald In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-02 14:20:17 +0000 UTC]

Humm... Maybe it's a good idea.


You're welcome!

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Mausezahn In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 18:46:43 +0000 UTC]

That's beautiful!
The moment I imagined was holding my baby-princess for the first time. Although bringing her up is still very difficult, I would never ever give her away.

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to Mausezahn [2013-08-02 13:21:50 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for sharing that beautiful moment with me.

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metameme20 In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 18:27:47 +0000 UTC]

I wish I could read with my eyes closed.

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Papuh In reply to metameme20 [2013-07-30 05:04:06 +0000 UTC]

^this

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Diluculi In reply to metameme20 [2013-07-29 19:03:05 +0000 UTC]

maybe someone could read this one out to you then?

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BaconMagic In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 18:25:14 +0000 UTC]

I honestly can't think of an actually good moment of my life.

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to BaconMagic [2013-08-02 13:21:09 +0000 UTC]

Really? Not even a single good moment in your whole life?? No one has ever hugged you or given you a kiss or a present or a smile even?

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BaconMagic In reply to UntamedUnwanted [2013-08-02 15:56:12 +0000 UTC]

I've had a lot of those moments but none of them were really anything special. :/

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Belladonnalilie In reply to BaconMagic [2013-07-29 18:31:53 +0000 UTC]

Same. Thats probably the reason why there are so many DAsecrets.

But nice message anyway, + i like the color.

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BaconMagic In reply to Belladonnalilie [2013-07-29 18:37:00 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, I agree. For me there are no truly great moments, only moments that were better than the rest.

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InkyDuck In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 18:14:19 +0000 UTC]

Well said T ^ T

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to InkyDuck [2013-08-02 13:20:21 +0000 UTC]

Thank you!

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KnowHopePro In reply to ??? [2013-07-29 17:07:16 +0000 UTC]

I really needed something like this. Thanks for reminding me how good our lives are.Β Β 

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UntamedUnwanted In reply to KnowHopePro [2013-08-02 13:20:07 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for the lovely comment!

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