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Published: 2013-07-29 15:38:18 +0000 UTC; Views: 22880; Favourites: 1673; Downloads: 0
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And if you can't picture a day, picture a moment. Sometimes, a moment can be the best year of your life.This is for all the sad secrets I have read lately. I'm so sorry you are all suffering...I know how pain can make you hurt, and stop believing there is a light at the end of the tunnel. This isn't a permanent fix. But it has worked for me when I was depressed and I found a few minutes of happiness. I hope it works for all of you a little bit too.
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it helped but when i close my eyes i see my dead dog.....my best friend ever....so it wont work
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I'm sorry. Maybe focussing on a good memory would help better?
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nothing will help me....okay btw i will try to be happy!~
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If you're seeing your dead dog than clearly that isn't the /best/ day of your life.
Imagine your friends, your family, times when you were happiest,
stop dwelling on the past and worrying about what was - there is /nothing/ you can do to change it.
Forget about the past.
Live for Now.
Because one day you'll wake up, and realize it's too late.
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thanx for tring to help but....i cant get something else in my head....
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i felt like that when my parrot died, so far, one of the greatest pains in my life. But it helped me to remember he was loved everyday in his life. We only can do so much.
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thanx for trying to cheer me up....but its impossible...she was my whole life and my soulsister! not a dog in my eyes she were a human like me but cancer is hard to change...it was to late to make her alive it
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Sorry for your lossΒ 
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yeah maybe but i just cant...its really even worse than my human friends death!....
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1 - when a emotional disturbance is too strong, it helps to try to see from the outside. Imagine yourself looking at yourself from a distance, pretend its happening to someone else.
2 - the same way your dog belonged to you, you belong to someone else, or will be. SO, you must take care of yourself.
3 - one part of your life has ended, another part begins. You donΒ΄t know what good surprises are going to happen, so wash your face and man-up!
4 - from the biological point of view, pain consumes the body, as fuel, so you must recover the vitamins through healthy food. not sugar, not candy, not coffee. but almonds, pumpkin seeds, peanuts, honey, bananas, things with zync. otherwise you might be injured for real.
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i will try but im never gonna be like before now.... im sorry i know you try to cheer me up but i just cant....i have hurted myself so much already today i almost got a knife through my arm 
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i donΒ΄t know know what to say except,Β order some Nutella, heal your emotional wounds, better than to call the hospital.
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im really very thankful for the help...
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that's the idea of thinking about /happy/ times.
Other wise you're going to end up a 40yo woman with nothing but regret and doubt.Β
All animals die eventually, its the way of life, even my dog died, but that was /years/ ago.Β
Think about that life you gave to your dog.Β All the /happy/ times you had. Don't focus on the doubt and the sad side of things all the time otherwise it'll get you down even more, and eventually people won't want to know you.
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but...she did'nt have a really happy life....she was sick all the time...but when she was'nt she was allways hugging me....the last hour when i realized it was something wrong....she layed in my lap and (she did know how to cry) cried i saw her tears and i cried to...she was trying to get the closest to me....cause she was sick...we promised to never leave each other...but the cancer changed it all....and tosday all i am thinking of is her and our cuddle times when she layed in my lap!...
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Oh man, I know how you feel, I'm an only child, and when I was a kid I got a dog who actually liked to wear clothes, and hated getting dirty, I immediately decided that this was the little sister I had always wanted. It was rough loosing my sister to. All I can telly you is that it gets better, and sometimes it can feel like that takes a really long time, you will never forget, or replace her, but eventually it will hurt less. Getting engaged in things, an ambitious art project, taking up a new sport, volunteering for a cause you believe in, these things can help distract you while you wait for time to heal.
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everybody says but im not as others!...i really never gonna think about something else ever again!!!....thanx btw for try to help me!.... 
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I used to think the same thing after a loss. It was terribly painful and I sunk into a dark, scary depression. I used to think that I'd never be able to forget and get over the pain..and now with time, a lot of time, it's getting better. I won't forget what happened, but the pain is finally easing...and it feels good, and I'm confident that with even more time it'll get even better. So I know it might seem very hard for you to think you'll get better Β right now, because you're so locked up in your suffering, but I'm confident that you will eventually get better, even if you won't forget your dog...It might take time, but hang in there..
(hug)
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(hug) thanx everyone is helping a lot today....all of you cares for once...someone is seeing me im not invisible anymore.....but i dont think its getting better....i promise i wont get ''good'' ever again!!! :/
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This is so wise 
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Thank you my lovely.
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also, a calming color, my favorite color btw LOLΒ I once had a 55 Mercury this color
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