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And if you believe that, holy crap do I ever feel sorry for you.Related content
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except not all traits are acquired from your parents. I have asthma, which no one in my family has yet it was somewhere in my wiring.Β
Regardless of whether it comes from genes or it's just something you develope as you age and grow a natural sexual attraction, doesn't excuse you or anyone else being a homophobic cunt.Β
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If homosexuality was genetic and if humans were naturally homophobic, number of abortions would rise.
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Hmm guess your right.
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Actually, there is such thing as ex-gay, and I'm not talking about conversion therapies now. Sexual orientation isn't carved into the rock, it changes by itself with age. Some gay people simply loose interest towards same sex and go towards opposite sex instead. Gay people I've met have been straight and become gay in some point of their life. That's called sexual fluidity.
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that's called bisexuality...
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No, sexual fluidity isn't same as bisexuality. Bisexuality is physical attraction to both sexes, then sexual fluidity is that your physical attraction changes.
www.livingout.org/can-your-sexβ¦
www.aarp.org/home-family/sex-iβ¦
metro.co.uk/2017/11/17/why-we-β¦
theconversation.com/explainer-β¦
You can google more articles with just writing "sexual fluidity."
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siogaagusarrachtaigh.deviantar⦠You should read this. :3
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You can change it by will... however, don't bother with those stupid ass programs. They probably just want your money... the reason people think you can't change, is because gays who want to keep going to other people... be a man and fix it yourself, there's no therapy place to do it for you.
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wrong, Wrong, WRONG, WRONG!
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I'm sorry.. but I know I'm right...
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you're about as right as people in the middle ages were right when they said the world was round.
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There is such a thing as people in grave denial, though.
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Personally, I don't think that's true. One of the things sexuality is influenced by is hormones, which have a habit of changing. I believe anyone can change sexuality, gay to straight, straight to gay, straight to bi, gay to bi, bi to gay, ect, not by choice, of course, but there have been people who have changed.
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Honestly, sexuality is a fluid thing. While some people may be completely straight their whole lives, others may subconsciously change their sexual preferences, perhaps for certain people.
That said, all the "ex-gay" programs out there suck. You can't force a sexuality change. -_- They just don't get that.
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You can make it change.. but those programs do suck
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Amen to that. It doesn't matter what it is; drinking, drugs, cheating, or leaving one's socks on the floor, if someone doesn't want to change you can't make 'em. That's something that most of my girl-friends have learned the hard way.
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You pretty much took the words right out of my mouth. I think sexuality is more rigid for some people, but that's pretty rare. I think most people bounce around the spectrum.
But yeah that still doesn't change that those programs are dumb though.
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I have to agree with this. Sexuality can be fluid (especially with women). While most people don't change their sexuality, it can happen, but isn't something you can really force nor should it be forced.
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What if it is like uhh, a phrase or something and you go out from it? Does that count as Ex-Gay?
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I think people can change their sexuality over time. It's like growing up. Things you like change, including who you get attracted to. Most gay people were straight first, before finding out they like other guys/girls. And I think it's possible for them to go back to being straight. Although I don't personally know any gay people in real life, so other people would know more than me.
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That's called laying dormant, not outright changing.
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OK dormant then. You were gay, then became straight. Or were straight, then became gay. Whatever.
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Dude, that's not true. Sexuality may change with time. A lot of gay guys I know used to date girls and think they were straight, until they "discover" they were homosexual, and it works in both way, some guys can think they are gay, yet become heterosexual later. Sexuality CAN change.
However, while reading the comment, I think you're talking about those programs supposed to change your sexuality... I agree then, this is bullshit. But you should be more specific. Your stamp and its description doesn't talk about it, and you just sound heterophobic. No offense.
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uh, no such thing as heterophobia. Nice try.
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Gay's standing up to their religious oppressors=Heterophobia.
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Dude, of course there is. That's the same freakin thing than homophobia. Hating because of the sexuality of someone. That's the same shit. You're not better because you're heterophobe, that's just as bad.
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a) I'm not heterophobe, especially since *that doesn't exist*.
b) Are you going to claim there's racism against white people, too?
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Actually, I'm going to have to respectfully agree with Nacht-Vico here. Heterophobia, or as I prefer to call it, homosexism indeed exists. While it's not nearly as common as heterosexism (what people commonly refer to as homophobia), I've seen it a handful of times. Hell, I ended up quitting my campus LGBT club because I was sick of all of the heterosexist remarks two or three members kept making, which was especially inappropriate considering there were straight allies within said club. *shrugs*
I would also have to concur with him on the "racism" front as well. I honestly can't say I have experienced it firsthand, but racism applies to all races of people, not just non-Caucasian ones. I've heard plenty of stories from friends, seen things on the news, and read papers in my sociology class on it.
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Get back to me on that when the straight population is being systematically oppressed to the point laws are made that they can't marry and straight teens are killing themselves due to harassment.
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I understand you're upset, but it really does occur. I think that everyone should get along without judging other people...that all types of sexism or "sexualityism" (I wish that was a word qq) didn't exist. x<
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Of course there is. Racism is racism. This is not "discrimination against black people", this is "discrimination against someone because of his skin's color". World isn't all black and white. I agree that there is more case of homophobia and racism against dark skinned people than homophobia and racism against white people, but it still exist. Hate is hate.
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OK, the fact that you just admitted to buying into "reverse racism exists" just proves I no longer need to engage with you.
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Dude, that's not "reverse racism". Racism is discriminating someone because of the color of his skin or his origins. Nothing more, nothing less. You can't say it only apply to dark skinned people, that's stupid. There is racism towards EVERYONE. Americans (never heard of the "ALL AMERICANS ARE FAT AND STUPID" argument? That's racism), Asians (even when it's a positive stereotype, like "ALL ASIANS ARE SMART, that's racism).
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Actually, that first example was more "nationalism", which, while annoying, isn't that discriminatory.
And what the fuck does that have to do any so-called "ex-gay" movement?
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Nationalism is pride in one's country.
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Dude, I told it like 2 times in the first comments, your description/stamp isn't clear, it sounds like you're against the idea of gay people becoming heterosexual, which can happens. If you are talking of the ex-gay movement, with those awfull camps shit and everything, then I agree with you, but you should explain it in the description.
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I believe a person can go from gay to strait, but not for any religious reason. I absolutely hate that some people are being forced, because that doesn't work a lot of the times.
I think being gay is caused by chemicals, or other things in the body. The same thing applies for being straight. I really don't believe it is some specific gene unless it can change over time. Which genes have been known to do that. Anyways. I'm trying to say that when not forced someone can fall out of being gay or straight. Although that doesn't mean they were just faking it, or that they are lying to themselves.
I remember reading this one thing where the person said that the feelings they had while being gay were real, but they just weren't attracted to the same sex anymore. However they said that it didn't make them fake, and they weren't lying to themselves. They were being true to the way their bodies changed over time. I truly believe bodies can change over time.
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Ah, the link didn't take. So here- [link]
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Citation besides another stamp?
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Way to ignore half my argument. I don't think I will provide anymore citations, because the citations would involve screen capping and blocking out names. Why should I do that for anyone who won't even respond to the whole debate?
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Citations as in some *actual factual articles*?
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Can you give me some to why people can't be fluid in their sexualities? You didn't really provide any articles either.
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If someone can be gender fluid why can't sexuality be just as fluid? Why do you have such a hang up with it huh? Come on. Put up more of an than citation needed, but I will give you one.
Here- [link]
Also, actually talk with some communities. There will be many more stories like that. I'm involved in several GSA clubs on the internet, and there are many many stories like that.
To say that no one can be ex-gay you are either saying they are lying or you are invalidating their feelings they once had to the same gender. Shame on you.
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Of course there is something called make believe as in Jesus.
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i heard of that on t.v once but it was in a movie lmao people say that?!
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ex-gay? come on! I also feel bad for those who believe that
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I think you can be. Sexuality often changes throughout time. Not by force or by trying to, its just that at some points in your life you are more attracted to one gender than another. This is often seen in abuse or rape victims. Not that being gay is wrong, but no longer being gay isn't wrong either. We don't bash heterosexual people who suddenly decide they're gay, why bash gay people who suddenly decide they're straight?
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