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Published: 2013-11-03 18:51:10 +0000 UTC; Views: 8366; Favourites: 311; Downloads: 0
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All this talk about forcing children to believe in gods/God, it's a tragic thing, I agree. I feel horrible when I hear people are being forced to say what they don't believe in, just like many of you who had overzealous families that made you go to church without your consent. And I will say it's wrong to force children to engage in what they don't understand.But guys, there is nothing harmful about teaching religion to children.
"But teaching children religion slows human progress! In order to kill religion we must stop teaching it to kids!"
It does not slow so-called "progress". People who actually believe this, you have to realize that by killing off a religion, you or other people just end up creating and teaching ANOTHER one. Religion has been with us since the ANCIENT times, and no matter how much you try to be rid of it, it will always be replaced by some other dogmatic belief system, with or without gods. See also fav.me/d4xgjt3
"But children do not need to learn from such a bloody and gorey book such as the Bible!"
I agree, many children are not ready to experience the deep contexts of the Bible, but it doesn't harm the child to give the a rated G version that they can enjoy and understand:
No blood and gore in this little beauty. Antitheists and fundemental Christians, did you really expect a kid to be able to comprehend the adult version?
"But children do not need to be brainwashed by Christian camps!"
What about atheist children camps that have been around since 1996? They do just as much preaching about how God doesn't exist, it's liable to be called "brain-washing" as well when you put them both into that sort of context. The truth is, kids want to learn and be around other kids, and camps are the perfect opportunity for that. I strongly oppose camps that act more like boot-camps in general, so I can understand the concern inside children camps very much! Parents must choose wisely and know exactly what their children are being taught about when it comes to that sort of thing, so children can avoid being put into compromising situations.
" But children are taught that being an atheist is bad! They are trapped into thinking something they may not actually believe in! "
And I don't think it's right for that to happen. Alot of that behavior does not come from the actual message of Christianity, but from the parents themselves, because of THEIR faith. If a parent is THAT intimidated by someone who lacks the faith, their own faith is liable to be weaker than they wanted, and that is a problem they need to deal with themselves instead of bringing their children into it. Having doubt is not a bad thing, it's something everyone experiences at some point, and children should/are being taught to explore their beliefs. See also fav.me/d50o69g
I could go on and on about it, but here is where I think the real issue is. Misguided parenting.
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Orangecraz In reply to ??? [2014-03-24 00:07:29 +0000 UTC]
Then I really have no idea why the mother did it, other than god willed her, or she was drunk at the time.
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SilentRosySunrise In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:53:23 +0000 UTC]
Agreed. Teaching religious beliefs is one thing; forcing them on someone is another.
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peacefulinvasion In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:51:21 +0000 UTC]
Also sorry for bad grammar the smartphone did most of the errors...then again I need to stop with using smary phones for da
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peacefulinvasion In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:49:54 +0000 UTC]
I'm sorry but by todays standards its child abuse. We live in a society where doing any disipline evrn having your child sittinging in the cornor is child abuse. Its sad really.
That b err ing said I agree with you. Children need to be exposed to different views in terms of religion. As for the bible being gory so what? Children are exposed to violence all the time. Watch superman that's pretty violent.
Yah we need to give chi ldren wiggle rpomto think for themselves but ddon't cut religion out of their lives complrtely cause an idiot said so.
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LilBearStudios In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:46:41 +0000 UTC]
Also want to add that teaching religion is not bad, but forcing it on someone is wrong. And I can't stand religious parents that disown their child just because they have a different religion/have no religion.
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LilBearStudios In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:43:45 +0000 UTC]
People who think like that are stupid.
I don't mind religion, you can do as you wish, as long as it doesn't effect other people in a negative way.
The majority of my friends are religious, and I don't care. But there's a few people in my school who are constantly questioning me about why I don't believe in god. I've been punched before just because I said that I don't believe in god, which is ridiculous. Those are the kind of religious people I don't like.
You can have a religion, you can talk about it with me, but I will give my opinion on the subjects that come up, even if it's against yours, and if you try to shove it down my throat then I'll probably tell you to fuck off.
People really need to learn to be more accepting of things. Sighs.
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DruDrewDraws In reply to LilBearStudios [2013-11-10 02:00:12 +0000 UTC]
someone punched you!? oh honey!
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LilBearStudios In reply to DruDrewDraws [2013-11-10 03:46:58 +0000 UTC]
Yeah..It was only my arm though. It was one very hard punch though. Like, I didn't say "God doesn't exist, you're wrong" I simply said that I personally don't think he does. Completely uncalled for
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DruDrewDraws In reply to LilBearStudios [2013-11-10 05:05:21 +0000 UTC]
that sucks hon, i'm sorry you have to deal with people like that. my dad never got physically abusive with me for not believing in god, but he didn't handle it well either. so in a way i know what it's like to have to deal with a lot of shit for having a lack of belief.
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Lindsfluff In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:42:00 +0000 UTC]
I agree that it's fine to teach children about your beliefs, but I know so many people that have to come to church with their parents and read the bible etc. even when they don't believe in God. That, I think, is ridiculous.
If you want to be a christian, go ahead, believe in God, it's fine, but if your child doesn't believe in God, don't go and force them to do so, because that'll only make them dislike religion.
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Roasted-Torkoals In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:40:26 +0000 UTC]
FORCING IS BAD
IF THEY WANT TO OR IF ITS A CATHOLIC SCHOOL
ITS OK
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PieWriter In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:09:38 +0000 UTC]
I've never understood why raising YOUR child with your personal beliefs is bad. It's one thing to "micro-manage" and to not properly teach a child your religion, but it's another to answer their questions according to what you believe and to encourage research. I've been doing A LOT of theological reading and minor research with questions of my own since I found out I was pregnant, because I want to be able to answer questions my kid may have, and to thouroughly know what I am raising them to believe. Will I be a perfect expert and know everything? No, and that's okay. That's when I look for an answer with my child, and we can both be enriched by a learning faith experience. I hardly find this type of bonding harmful!
It's the responsibility of every parent to instill morals and to teach your kids about the world; it's no different when applied with religious or secular worldviews. Telling your kid they can believe whatever they want and giving them vague, subjective answers to deep questions they may have instead of raising them with some sort of foundation is akin to throwing them into the middle of the rain forest with nothing but a compass (that they don't know how to use) to find their way home; why not provide them with your map and survival kit as well? Or give them tips on how to deal with the difficulties that come with wilderness survival?
They have parents for a reason: so that they can be lead and taught, and have the ability to think for themselves when they are mature enough to handle their beliefs on their own. Using your personal faith as a foundation to start that is far from abuse.
Sorry for the long comment. This stamp expresses what I have been feeling for a while, especially with all the "I will be such a good parent because I won't teach my kids my beliefs; I'm better than the religious ppl!111!!!" stamps out there.
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Twilightlover2007 In reply to PieWriter [2013-11-03 20:03:33 +0000 UTC]
I agree with this comment, girl you are amazing!
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Ecanusiofiel In reply to ??? [2013-11-03 19:03:13 +0000 UTC]
Thank's for this! It's all very true; it's not the religion its the people behind it!
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