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Yi-Phan — When all is said and done...
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Published: 2007-09-06 16:16:24 +0000 UTC; Views: 2924; Favourites: 24; Downloads: 90
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"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words shall never hurt me." Whoever said this phrase, obviously never went through a true life lesson... Words, even though they may not have meant to be malicious, can cut worse than any weapons could hope to...I know this is a bit off my usual art pieces, but please bear with me. This is the only way to really release my emotions, without breaking down into tears. Sometimes, it's all I can do...
(The name on screen is NOT the real name. So don't go asking to speak with them. I'll not give that information out...)
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I know how you feel... Trust me. Go through my Journal history. It happened to me recently...
..But if that there is exactly what they said, that's heaven compared to what I got...
I know this probably happened a while ago, I just hate to see this sort of thing happen to people... D:
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Thank you for your kind words, and yes, it is a terrible thing to go thru. As for the dialog and the heartfelt words, yes, they were near exact to this... myself and this friend are still so very close to one another, and dealing with that situation was very painful for us both. But time goes on, and relations stay tight.
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I wish happy endings like that were for everyone...
I must have done something terible, because she still hates me... She thinks I hate her too, but I don't. I don't hate anyone. She is obviously being pressured by someone else, and I just don't want her to sink any lower than she has... Because I still love her...
She's taken everything from me. My confidence, my happiness, my hope, my friends... She even left me only a few days after she kissed me for the first time... She's made my life a living hell, and for what? All I ever did was care for her. I was there whenever she needed me...
...Ehhh... I don't want to randomly dump it all on you like that. Sorry. I just want to know what I should do...
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Sometimes my dear, there's nothing that can be done. I didn't speak to my friend for quite a while. I thought she hated me and didn't want to speak to me ever again. So I didn't say anything. But that was what I was willing to do, set her free if she didn't want to talk to me again.
Honestly, things like this are different for everyone, and my way might not work for another. Advice on a situation like this is extremely tough and a touchy matter.
Honestly, what I'd do is give it as much time as you might feel is necessary, but don't let it ruin your life over it. That's not how you should feel, nor what she tried to do, I'm sure.
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It is absolutely what she intended.
I found out with solid proof that she never loved me in the first place. She was a user. And now that she's used me up, she's using my friends against me.
But no, It will not control my life. Time really is the best cure for anything. I do believe there is nothing I can do anymore, and I have half-gotten-over that. But what hurts is that forgiving and getting over it is easy. Forgetting is impossible.
Anyway, thank you for the advice. It may be a touchy subject, but no one has really cared enough to give me advice. Thank you. :3
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I Give You..
Nah i'm joking screw the lemon..i'll just give you another hug.
(one of the top 5 worst things to see is a female crying..or even hearing about it..)
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iT is really sad..i'm sorry about it x
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Usually, my best way to fight my despressions, or any other negative feeling for that matter, is to play games with other people, and hopefully demolish them in horrible ways. Doesn't always happen that way, but at least if I get angry, it's directed elsewhere.
Also, card games seem to help. I mean, deck building does take focus. Playing against other people can get you some funny jokes in the game. Laughter is great medicine.
Well, those are my anti-depressants. Maybe they'll work for you, but we'll see.
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Sometimes the best way to fight depression is to lunge forward.
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Sometimes ya gotta rise above it, ya know? Lingering in sorrow or whatever isn't healthy. You gonna let little things destroy ya, or ya gonna be the strong Yi-Phan we all know?
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Been there, I'm sorry to hear you're going through that problem as it really does suck.
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I'm sorry to hear Yi-Chan, hope you'll feel better soon
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Yi... *hugs you* Im very sorry Im always here for you tho.
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what power does a sword have, when their are words.
i hope you feel better.
your picture definantely shows me exactly how much pain is in your heart. and i give you my remorse, as mcuh as i can give.
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Once I read a phrase: "A truth said with bad intentions is more painful that all lies in the world". Sometimes, I think it´s true. But the worse thing is not always we can control our words effects in the others.
Very sorry for that, I won´t ask about nothing cause there´s not my business, but I´m sorry to know you´re bad. I hope you can recover of that. No, I know you´ll do it; I don´t know you too much, but I´m sure you´re a strong woman and you´ll can go out from this. As it´s said: "Whatever don´t kill you, make you stronger"
Come on, you can do it
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Aww... I'm sorry to hear that happened.... Whoever that person was, may he have an STD from the new one for hurting you >O
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Ach! Sad
I well sory for you, if that is sumthing that actualy happened
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thanks for caring.. and yes, it did, that's why I made this art piece...
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Sorry to hear that, hope you'll be alrite!
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