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Stamp by ChikitaWolf

Update 2018: If you're using this stamp as a response to someone calling you out on using your disorder, disability, etc, as a blatant guilt trip or a way to avoid apologizing for your shitty-ass behavior, then you're using it wrong and you're part of the reason why people like us gotta deal with this crap from others.

I'm tired of seeing people getting all "righteous" towards those complaining or speaking about their problems.

We all have problems. Stop with the "I'm worse than you", "my disease is worse", "you have no idea", "stop using your disease as a crutch" bull crap.

Aren't we allowed to voice our pains? There's always someone worse out there-- I know that. But still. To sit there and bash someone for voicing their pain... it's obnoxious.

I've been called on using my ADD as a crutch. Well, guess what? I DON'T. The only reason I freely talk about it is so I can friggin' accept it. I don't have ADHD-- or at least, I've been diagnosed a little farther off from it-- but does that mean I'm not suffering? Does that mean I shouldn't attempt to accept it through speaking about it or maybe getting some irritations off my chest about it every once in a while?

We all suffer from disorders, diseases, disabilities, or something of the kind. Why must we compare and snap at each other?

I recently read a conversation about someone speaking of their disease -- a rather annoying disease at that -- and most definately sounding upset through their words. And then someone bursts on about how they "have no idea what real suffering is" and to stop using their "disease as a crutch".

WTF?

Seriously?

GET OVER YOURSELVES.

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Note: Yes, I know there are variations of suffering depending on the disease, disorder, etc. Nah dip, Sherlock. I still don't see how that gives you the right to bash someone when they're speaking of their pain or suffering. And this isn't about pity-partying or pansies either. I'm talking about diseases, disorders, disabilities, and so on; not paper cuts, knee scrapes, etc. So don't make assumptions too quickly and be mature in your comment(s).

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EDIT: To be frank, I'm tired of getting comments from people. Especially people who completely miss the point of the stamp, or find some way to twist my words to satisfy their need to be offended and chastise someone.
The stamps are old. I don't really make stamps anymore. I just keep my rants to myself now. Hell, some of my opinions have softened up too in regards to actually caring about those topics these days.
But yeah, comments are disabled now. Thanks to those who offered some interesting insight on any subjects on my stamps!

Description
Stamp by ChikitaWolf

Update 2018: If you're using this stamp as a response to someone calling you out on using your disorder, disability, etc, as a blatant guilt trip or a way to avoid apologizing for your shitty-ass behavior, then you're using it wrong and you're part of the reason why people like us gotta deal with this crap from others.

I'm tired of seeing people getting all "righteous" towards those complaining or speaking about their problems.

We all have problems. Stop with the "I'm worse than you", "my disease is worse", "you have no idea", "stop using your disease as a crutch" bull crap.

Aren't we allowed to voice our pains? There's always someone worse out there-- I know that. But still. To sit there and bash someone for voicing their pain... it's obnoxious.

I've been called on using my ADD as a crutch. Well, guess what? I DON'T. The only reason I freely talk about it is so I can friggin' accept it. I don't have ADHD-- or at least, I've been diagnosed a little farther off from it-- but does that mean I'm not suffering? Does that mean I shouldn't attempt to accept it through speaking about it or maybe getting some irritations off my chest about it every once in a while?

We all suffer from disorders, diseases, disabilities, or something of the kind. Why must we compare and snap at each other?

I recently read a conversation about someone speaking of their disease -- a rather annoying disease at that -- and most definately sounding upset through their words. And then someone bursts on about how they "have no idea what real suffering is" and to stop using their "disease as a crutch".

WTF?

Seriously?

GET OVER YOURSELVES.

---

Note: Yes, I know there are variations of suffering depending on the disease, disorder, etc. Nah dip, Sherlock. I still don't see how that gives you the right to bash someone when they're speaking of their pain or suffering. And this isn't about pity-partying or pansies either. I'm talking about diseases, disorders, disabilities, and so on; not paper cuts, knee scrapes, etc. So don't make assumptions too quickly and be mature in your comment(s).

-------------------------------------------------------

EDIT: To be frank, I'm tired of getting comments from people. Especially people who completely miss the point of the stamp, or find some way to twist my words to satisfy their need to be offended and chastise someone.
The stamps are old. I don't really make stamps anymore. I just keep my rants to myself now. Hell, some of my opinions have softened up too in regards to actually caring about those topics these days.
But yeah, comments are disabled now. Thanks to those who offered some interesting insight on any subjects on my stamps!