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Published: 2016-08-15 15:15:10 +0000 UTC; Views: 2918; Favourites: 53; Downloads: 2
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edit 4/21/2020 - i dont agree with this take anymore. im not active on this account & havent been since 2017 so ive just never gotten around to adding this addendum to the description. i'll leave it up, y'all can still use it, but i'm not transmed anymore, infact since im cis i never should have involved myself in trans discourse in the first place, but i was young, i was i think 14? maybe 15 when i posted this, you live and you learn. i'm 18 now and i know a lot better than i did. so... yuh. use this if you want, don't if you don't, but this is not a take i agree with anymore lolif you think you don't need dysphoria to be transgender or nonbinary, you're implying that you woke up one day and made a choice to be transgender or nonbinary. trans and nonbinary people experience dysphoria. while it might not always be Self Hateβ’, it's awful based on my encounters with trans/nb people. dysphoria comes in many different forms, it might just be severe discomfort with your genitalia or it could be as extreme as wanting to mutilate your body. if you believe that you don't need dysphoria, you're making actual trans and nb people look like a joke. i don't care if you think this makes me "TRANSFOBIK!!!!!!!!!!!!!11!!1!!!!one1!!!!" because, as i said, if you seriously believe that you don't need dysphoria, you imply that being transgender or nb is a choice you can randomly make. tucute are the reason that idiotic genders like "cancergender" have appeared on this website.
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Pinecoon In reply to ??? [2016-11-05 03:14:07 +0000 UTC]
Okay? I find rats cute so thanks for the picture.
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Nidobunny In reply to ??? [2016-10-12 16:41:51 +0000 UTC]
Oh Get a life you stupid Tucute
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CAT-CUBE In reply to Nidobunny [2016-10-12 17:50:28 +0000 UTC]
do i need to sacrifice someone
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CAT-CUBE In reply to Nidobunny [2016-10-12 17:49:08 +0000 UTC]
how though, like, pls tell me how to get a life, do u buy them or like do they grow from smth??
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hypersonic6 In reply to ??? [2016-10-01 15:23:53 +0000 UTC]
What does them being cis have to do with anything? You seem to think something someone can't control makes their opinion invalid.
I suggest you think before you type idiotic shit.
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CAT-CUBE In reply to hypersonic6 [2016-10-01 19:27:52 +0000 UTC]
pbs.twimg.com/media/CtssvKvUEAβ¦
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hypersonic6 In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-10-01 19:38:39 +0000 UTC]
Why did you link me to that?
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CAT-CUBE In reply to hypersonic6 [2016-10-01 21:15:13 +0000 UTC]
b/c u made that man not happy n hes gonna kick ur ass now
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clivehandforth In reply to ??? [2016-09-16 00:52:11 +0000 UTC]
im uneducated? bitch im not the one who thinks that you can wake up one day and say ur trans. and what the fuck does me being cis have to do with it? i feel dysphoria but i dont know my god damn gender, so i just go as a cis female to reduce fucking confusion.
secondly, neogenders can be incredibly fucking harmful to real nonbinary and trans people. for a lot of reasons. they make the community look like a damn JOKE. and the dysphoria doesnt have to be extreme but you cant fuckin wake up one day and be like "YOU KNOW I WANNA BE A MCFUCKIN STAR TODAY. A STAR. THATS MY GENDER". that isnt. how it fucking works. you have to feel out of place in your own body. because if you seriously think you dont need dysphoria to be trans, then YOU ARE MAKING THE FUCKING TRANS COMMUNITY LOOK LIKE A JOKE.
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CAT-CUBE In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-16 04:00:10 +0000 UTC]
im laughingf oh god why are you, a cis person, telling me what is harmful to trans people. why do u think theres..nothing wrong with that.
im agender and you arent, dont fucking lecture me on what is harmful to me
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clivehandforth In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-16 07:28:43 +0000 UTC]
lol k, keep these delusions in ur head
but i have actual agender ppl in my life who educated me and made me believe you need dysphoria. cause i used to go as a dumbass neogender when i was thirteen. my nonbinary friend fucking EDUCATED me.
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CAT-CUBE In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-16 13:40:57 +0000 UTC]
mm lmao ok ur mysterious non-binary friend
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GlatzGoughlin In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-16 21:22:53 +0000 UTC]
Hi.
Gender dysphoria isn't just "dysphoria" AKA Self Hate (tm), it's true dissociation with your assigned sex and knowing something is very wrong with what was put on you at birth.
Looking at your profile, you make you being "transgender APPROVED " look like some kind of meme or inside joke rather than an honest political statement. Your "pronouns" are more cute accessories than anything and I don't think Legit Trans Ppl (tm) would even find those acceptable in their community or even safe spaces.
Voi/voids? Well, you're actually kinda like one-- anything we try to inform you with just gets lost and falls forever. Good- goodbye, logic. We'll miss you.
And honestly, if you're tryna' say ya trans just for the sake of wanting to be PC, fucking don't. Just do research, and you're no more of a burden for having privilege other those who don't. Knowledge is what makes you a better person.
Ya 17. Me and Ashton are around 14; we really shouldn't be tellin' ya this.
Here's a post on some symptoms of gender dysphoria and how it can help you better understand transness:Β common-sense-cockatoo.tumblr.cβ¦
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CAT-CUBE In reply to GlatzGoughlin [2016-09-17 09:11:50 +0000 UTC]
www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JaiM8β¦
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clivehandforth In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-16 13:44:23 +0000 UTC]
qeneslmmons ur mysterious help me out here friend
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CAT-CUBE In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-16 13:55:47 +0000 UTC]
i did not mean go @ them here but ok anyways i doubt they will tell me anything i havent heard before yall always got the exact same bullshit arguments i should make a bingo card
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clivehandforth In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-16 14:00:52 +0000 UTC]
why are you so mad about the truth lmao
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CAT-CUBE In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-16 14:24:48 +0000 UTC]
aight keep calling it that lmao anyways im making a bingo card right now
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clivehandforth In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-16 14:30:16 +0000 UTC]
i asked why you're mad i didnt tell u to make a mcfreakin bingo card
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CAT-CUBE In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-16 14:51:30 +0000 UTC]
sta.sh/05kdus8ibuq
man i almost won too bad u didnt question why i have pronouns you hate
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Nidobunny In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-10-12 16:43:27 +0000 UTC]
That's a UGLY bingo card man XD
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clivehandforth In reply to CAT-CUBE [2016-09-17 01:08:57 +0000 UTC]
ok bitch but when did i ever say i identified as some weird ass shrek gender
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KantiaCartography In reply to ??? [2016-09-10 02:11:44 +0000 UTC]
Even though I don't 100% agree with your message or how you've chosen to present it, I think that you are coming from the right place and much of what you are trying to say is lost on others.Β
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clivehandforth In reply to KantiaCartography [2016-09-10 14:02:25 +0000 UTC]
i do not have an issue with people who are nonbinary. i don't understand why people have to pick the weirdest gender labels on the planet, though.
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KantiaCartography In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-10 17:16:39 +0000 UTC]
I feel like people are conflicted, between the desire to fit in and the desire to stand out. Many Non-binary people understand that being Non-binary makes them part of a group, but they also want to feel unique so they find/create gender identities that are hyper-specific, but still fall under the Non-binary umbrella. While I feel such labels to be unnecessarily specific and confusing, I also don't feel that they are necessarily invalid or harmful. On the other hand, people who find/create "gender" identities simply to label themselves as part of the LGBT community, even when they're not, are immature and dangerous.Β
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quailboyfriends In reply to ??? [2016-09-04 03:58:16 +0000 UTC]
this is so fucking stupid i cannot believe you still think being truscum is cool in 2016
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clivehandforth In reply to quailboyfriends [2016-09-04 11:30:32 +0000 UTC]
I've been expecting you to comment on these
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Seiden-Kaczka [2016-08-16 11:40:30 +0000 UTC]
Naah, you just need to wake up and feel like you want to be a snowflake, then you open tumblr and pick a random made-up gender, and tadaa, you can now enjoy how unique and special you are.Β
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clivehandforth In reply to Seiden-Kaczka [2016-08-16 15:33:16 +0000 UTC]
God people like that are the worst
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glovannas In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-07 21:07:11 +0000 UTC]
trueΒ
but claiming nb is fake is bullshit
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KantiaCartography In reply to clivehandforth [2016-09-10 02:03:47 +0000 UTC]
Tumblr is the reason that I take like 98% of "Gender Identities" with a grain of salt. Within the Non-binary/Genderqueer community, there is such a huge array of individuals that you could literally create thousands of labels to signify each person's "feelings". Once we have an inexhaustible list of genders, it becomes much too easy to start sneaking in bullshit ones that have nothing to do with Gender Identity. I think that its important for people to realize that Non-binary/Genderqueer is purposefully broad so that it can contain anyone outside of the binary. If you aren't Cisgender or Transgender, then you are Non-binary/Genderqueer. It's that simple.Β
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clivehandforth In reply to KantiaCartography [2016-09-10 14:03:13 +0000 UTC]
thank you! i agree with you completely.
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OscarProud In reply to ??? [2016-08-15 16:47:35 +0000 UTC]
o look another nice stamp to add to my ironic stamp collection lol,,,,,,,,
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gendersea In reply to OscarProud [2016-08-15 23:21:02 +0000 UTC]
ugh i kknow i ssaw this on your ppage,, ttgis stap is so transphobic!
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OscarProud In reply to gendersea [2016-08-16 02:05:34 +0000 UTC]
i know,,,,,,,, if u wanna be trans then u can,,,,,,,,, smh u dont need dysphoria
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KantiaCartography In reply to OscarProud [2016-09-10 02:09:51 +0000 UTC]
Excuse me for butting in, but I don't feel like your statement is true. While I don't necessarily think that gender dysphoria is absolutely required in order for a person to be transgender, I definitely don't think that wanting to be transgender is enough for a person to then be transgender. There is this emphasis within the LGBT community on how people "identify", but I think that we often forget that gender identity is not something that we control. It is not something we can choose, regardless of what we want.Β
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clivehandforth In reply to OscarProud [2016-08-15 17:31:10 +0000 UTC]
you're just giving me more favorites honey bunches
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OscarProud In reply to clivehandforth [2016-08-16 02:04:08 +0000 UTC]
lol,,,,,,,, sweaty,,,,,,,,
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