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Published: 2014-02-13 17:42:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 372390; Favourites: 21161; Downloads: 3459
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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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Comments: 935

taoMega20 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:56:15 +0000 UTC]

this is a very beautiful piece, maybe even your best yet, and I support the project, 100% keep up your great work, ill continue to love it all

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3picMartianWill In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:51:55 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful.

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FairyGuardian23 [2014-02-14 16:42:43 +0000 UTC]

This is absolutely beautiful. And I like the Butterfly Project, though you are right about rule #4. However, I love what you are doing, and this beautiful drawing you made is probably the most beautiful/inspiring/personal piece of artwork I have ever seen. And I have seen many, but this is really perfect.

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Ruiku-Sama [2014-02-14 16:42:21 +0000 UTC]

This is really beautiful and a truly amazing idea - thank you for creating this gorgeous art and promoting such a great project!

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NChick [2014-02-14 16:42:03 +0000 UTC]

Yowza. I logged in to comment on this - it looked utterly gorgeous from the thumb, but clicking and being able to see a previously hidden depth was awesome.

On a lighter note, I loved the colouring on her cheek.

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definestupid In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:37:13 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful.

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Softballlife16 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:29:38 +0000 UTC]

amazing!!

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Scarlett1987 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:25:50 +0000 UTC]

If you don't know the story behind it the drawing is real cute yet sad. Hope that you are doing better. 

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rumRei In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:24:44 +0000 UTC]

so beautiful.

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Dube1 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:22:57 +0000 UTC]

Not from this world

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pudsey99 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:10:36 +0000 UTC]

This is so beautiful! We all should keep Hope in our hearts, even if we forget it's there. Nicely created!

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darkmorgainelefay In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:10:03 +0000 UTC]

this is really beautiful!!

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marikadaa In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:09:08 +0000 UTC]

awesome, lovely!

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LadyoftheGeneral In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:08:40 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for Hope. I drew her on my arm.

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LeneMichelle In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:05:35 +0000 UTC]

ive compleatly fallen in love with this picture. Its such an amazing moment captured . Thank you for sharing <3

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LivingDreamer97 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 16:04:15 +0000 UTC]

Inspiring. A word to describe both the picture and the story behind it.

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Mrmonkeyalsodraws In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:54:40 +0000 UTC]

This is a stunning piece of work; beautiful, warm, it flows so well and a lovely message and emotion behind it. I also like it for the extra reason that it looks how I imagined the heroine from my next novel. I never considered that she might self harm, but I don't want it to be that dark. I fully support your message with this and thank you for putting it out here

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pur6e In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:47:47 +0000 UTC]

Removed the watermark and make it a little bigger and this would make a nice wallpaper.

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rajasegar In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:47:24 +0000 UTC]

Great piece of work!!
Thanks for sharing....
Featured in Daily Inspirations at hangaroundtheweb.com/2014/02/d…

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babydonnie In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:46:27 +0000 UTC]

so pretty

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MelodiaMystic In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:45:49 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful! 

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KatiesTopHat In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:39:56 +0000 UTC]

Really good job! Keep up the great work!

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huy-truong In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:39:16 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful light. Your brave honest expression is inspiring as always xxx

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Hermionefan58 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:38:05 +0000 UTC]

That is sooooo majestic!

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CorryRox In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:36:01 +0000 UTC]

WOW!....

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slowku In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:27:24 +0000 UTC]

beautiful

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fofo128 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:19:33 +0000 UTC]

Looks like Rapunzel

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DrawingsMF In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:18:02 +0000 UTC]

i love your drawings are so good  

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Linzerj In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:13:31 +0000 UTC]

Oh gosh, this is beautiful - and not just the picture itself. (Though it is gorgeous and wonderfully done) It's wonderful that you are spreading the message for this Butterfly Project with this piece of work. Thank you for creating this piece for all of those out there in need of support, love, and hope.

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Crystalita131 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:09:02 +0000 UTC]

OMG....this is....beautifull *^*

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chikki587 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 15:03:51 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful

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atram95 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:55:42 +0000 UTC]

Great Job!!

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CrazytigerArtist In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:53:20 +0000 UTC]

This piece is absolutely beautiful! The story behind it has a lot of meaning as well. Lovely!

 

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SomniumObscurum In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:35:43 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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TheBlackJ0ker In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:21:49 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful

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Triumpha In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:15:17 +0000 UTC]

Beauty is both in your mind and in your heart, girl, it's obvious from every single pieve of work you submit!

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SylverSpiritWolf In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 14:09:18 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful concept, C:

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SnowWhiteQueen2000 [2014-02-14 14:03:38 +0000 UTC]

I love it!

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GoldenByNature In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:57:23 +0000 UTC]

So inspiring  

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Lelu-99 [2014-02-14 13:49:03 +0000 UTC]

It is so delicate, i loved, beatiful


 

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tigabelle In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:47:32 +0000 UTC]

The piece is gorgeous in itself, but what really got me was what your wrote after all of it. The idea of Hope, the butterfly who will survive and is there to support others, is beautiful. Thank you for doing this, for showing your love and your care.

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PhoenixHunt [2014-02-14 13:46:21 +0000 UTC]

It's a beautiful drawing for a very original and beautiful cause. Keep up the good work!  

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zameer2u [2014-02-14 13:40:29 +0000 UTC]

Its so perfectly drawn, i love the pain and sadness you portrait in the eyes , she sees the butterfly and asking her self is it going to help  the amount of pain i have.... its amazing.

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TraderVic12 In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:31:44 +0000 UTC]

I know this is lots of work, but it conveys so much emotion and simplicity at the same time. Amazing.

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starrymaze In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:29:43 +0000 UTC]

fabulous art and lovely message. I hope everyone too can find their hope and maybe even a butterfly. And this is why it is so important not to ignore people: include them and develop even a small relationship. One never knows what could come of it. 

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JanPrins In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:23:25 +0000 UTC]

Awesome, it's all I can say

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Ember-star In reply to ??? [2014-02-14 13:09:35 +0000 UTC]

Isn't cutting natural?

I thought its what people did, however painful, to let out there feelings.

And too soothe your suicidal mood.

At least it's what i do it for.

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SomeFrenchToast In reply to Ember-star [2014-02-14 13:43:24 +0000 UTC]

Uh, it's nothing natural. That's not how you let your feelings out.

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Ember-star In reply to SomeFrenchToast [2014-02-14 13:51:21 +0000 UTC]

People do it to make them feel better, and being someone like that, it does help me feel better. It masks the pain for a while. It distracts me from my feelings and also helps me express my lonliness, sorrow, and isolation. I really don't approve of this and that people should go on cutting if it truly makes them feel better. I'd only do this if i was seriously addicted, which you could say i am, yet im doing it only to make me live.

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Jay-The-Punk In reply to Ember-star [2014-02-14 17:22:47 +0000 UTC]

This isn't a judgement on you or a telling off or anything like that this is just my opinion

It's not a natural thing but the feeling as you said masks what actually is the roost cause of the feelings.
Everyone is different in how they express themselves there are other ways to express you feelings and make yourself feel better more productive, creative and positive ways you've just got to find something that works for you.

The problem with cutting yourself is that it can be hazardous to your health that is why people discourage you from doing it.
 There are people out there who could help you it's entirely up to you what you want to do or if you want any help i would help you find it.

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