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Published: 2014-02-13 17:42:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 372241; Favourites: 21160; Downloads: 3459
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The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.
They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.
Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.
Butterfly Project rules:
1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs.
2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better.
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.
4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support.
I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not.
So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.
To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.
People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope.
I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.
What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #
What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this
Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x
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Comments: 935
Ari-Heart-Matsuri In reply to ??? [2014-07-21 19:09:25 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful! The Butterfly Projects seems like a really legit idea! I think I'll try it next time, and also to show support!!
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wierdgirlwhodraws In reply to ??? [2014-07-20 21:42:40 +0000 UTC]
there are no words for how amazing and thoughtful this is O-O
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BlueEyes-RedDyes [2014-07-16 21:53:26 +0000 UTC]
I love this drawing. Kind of means a lot to me, as does many of your pieces. I remember a while back, I looked at this and I had to help a friend through some things...I told them about this drawing and about the butterfly project. I guess I wanna say thank you for just helping c:
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Lil-Miss-Scribble [2014-06-30 18:51:12 +0000 UTC]
I showed my friend a few of your pictures since I knew you were amazing and I thought she would like your drawings. She did like it, and agreed that you were indeed amazing, however she didn't seem as excited as I was. Weeks had past as we both dug through your gallery, admiring you and your drawings. Then one day I came back to this drawing again and we both studied it closely as we both were trying to learn how to draw side-views. She was just staring at this piece. I finally asked her what's wrong, and she asked, "Why are all her drawings so sad?" I looked at the piece again. Finally making sense of everything. I understood the drawings perfectly because I, myself have lots of scars in my life, when my friend is always the happy, fun and cheerful person. I then looked back at her and said, "They are not sad, Kate. They are meaningful."
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cloudsonqs In reply to Lil-Miss-Scribble [2015-01-28 18:18:36 +0000 UTC]
That's one beautiful story <3
And yes, they are c:
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Fluffybunny108 In reply to ??? [2014-06-07 11:51:02 +0000 UTC]
Wow this is beautiful, both the message and the drawing. I have never heard of the butterfly project until now, thank you!
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TK6447 In reply to ??? [2014-05-30 22:07:38 +0000 UTC]
Love this picture and a signed copy now hangs on my wall.. Lovely lady and an amazing artist
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CutieKittie999 In reply to ??? [2014-05-30 15:04:25 +0000 UTC]
When I was 13 I was about to cut, but then I remembered that nothing lasts forever, emotional crisis have their end and life gets better soon or later. And I think that project is just brilliant, I'll let people know about it in case they know someone who does self-harm and is someone they love, I love this drawing
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Kagome1172 In reply to ??? [2014-05-21 18:54:08 +0000 UTC]
I don't cut, but I used to be in a really bad place, this is beautiful and made me cry, I love all your art, it's so personal, everyone can relate to at least one of your works.
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TheButterflyOfHope In reply to ??? [2014-05-21 11:38:55 +0000 UTC]
This is a very personal piece and I'm glad you shared it. I've been through similar things and try to advocate the use of this project (despite it's flaws) Well done
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Bellathea In reply to ??? [2014-04-27 15:30:02 +0000 UTC]
This butterfly idea is so beautiful <3 It should be really supported to help people with problems <3 To make their world more beautiful
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SocQA In reply to ??? [2014-04-21 20:17:38 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful picture with so much meaning behind it... Thank you for spreading awareness of the project.
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puIsar In reply to ??? [2014-04-18 23:57:35 +0000 UTC]
for anyone who this might help:
i used to self-harm, but ive stopped a bit more than a month ago, because i knew how it wasn't getting me anywhere and how i was sure of how it wasn't a good thing, it made me feel better, but in the end it simplily made me hate myself even more. so one day, i dragged that blade for the last time.
two weeks later i was having an anxiety attack because i needed to do it, but i had promissed my best friend that i would stop with it. and because of Hope; things might seem terrible now, but you have to believe that they will get better. i cant promise that things will always be okay, but i can promise that in the end it will all be alright! (:
ps: if you need to talk, you can note me! <33
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Bellathea In reply to puIsar [2014-04-27 15:30:40 +0000 UTC]
I love your comment <3 Sharing your experiences to help others is awesome
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forty-foursunsets In reply to ??? [2014-04-04 18:51:55 +0000 UTC]
Is there anything else you can tell me about the butterfly project? I'm running a group focused on ending self harm and depression, and I would like to share as much as I can with the group
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Bairdsgirl11797 In reply to ??? [2014-04-03 00:20:12 +0000 UTC]
Very beautiful, and deeply personal.
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BleachForever121 In reply to ??? [2014-04-02 20:38:46 +0000 UTC]
Thank you Destiny Blue for today I found out one of my friends were harming herself. It's something I'd never imagined of her to do but because of your artwork and spreading the word of the butterfly project I was able to give my friend some hope.
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CWest212 In reply to ??? [2014-04-02 18:51:08 +0000 UTC]
Beautiful & powerful! I also love the blue version of this piece. How did you switch out the colors so flawlessly in photoshop??
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GoldenheartMEW In reply to ??? [2014-03-30 01:08:07 +0000 UTC]
That is soo sweet. The depth and emotion in these drawings are amazingly inspiring!
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ChrishChrish In reply to ??? [2014-03-27 10:56:49 +0000 UTC]
You're pieces, especially this one, I always feel emotional about. I love your work and how deep your pieces can be.
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TyneCrevan In reply to ??? [2014-03-20 18:01:39 +0000 UTC]
Thank you for drawing this. It helps to see that other people know what you're going through...I've been trying to stop the harmful behavior, this picture inspired me to make plans to get butterfly tattoos on my wrists <3 For me my art is my therapy
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rysnovem In reply to ??? [2014-03-14 02:55:34 +0000 UTC]
just saying- i found this and i'm not sure if this is art theft or not, and whether or not you made it sketchtoy.com/59398840
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ooawesomeoo [2014-03-11 00:51:50 +0000 UTC]
once again, destinyblue you have created something not only beautiful but wit a story and meaning, truly beautiful! well done
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JustLucas [2014-03-10 17:49:42 +0000 UTC]
Thanks for this Destiny, it's amazing, beautiful and awesome, I do the Butterfly Project too, 'cause I'll stop with SH, and I'm sure it gonna works if I look to this picture sometimes <3
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BlackEyes17 [2014-03-10 03:12:57 +0000 UTC]
I just love reading all the comments, and imaging Destiny's reaction to all the lives she's touched with this piece.
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snnrslnx In reply to ??? [2014-03-09 16:12:49 +0000 UTC]
Your drawings seem just like those gabbyd70.deviantart.com/ 's
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DanikaMilles [2014-03-09 09:29:07 +0000 UTC]
Just bought this!! Super excited to have it! Can't wait to get it!!!
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CaTaLiDe [2014-03-08 22:14:26 +0000 UTC]
Comparing the yellow to the blue, realize it takes the brightest light to see your own scars u.u
BEAUTIFUL work
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DemiMailix [2014-03-08 06:44:22 +0000 UTC]
OMG. Your art is just fantastic.. I don't have words for it..
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skepticaIdreamer In reply to ??? [2014-03-03 17:55:16 +0000 UTC]
I love you.
Like, so fucking much.
I've never cut, I'm too afraid too- but I do slowly strokes my skin against something that may hurt slightly, but straight after I cry, and/or apologise to myself multiple times.
I can't bring myself to do it, but when I get so bad, I just think about how fucked up everything is, and "How could I let everything get this way"
I'm sure you've inspired MaNY people with this simple picture!
also,
I'm not sure if I prefer this picture blue or yellow- I feel the yellow is more positive, as yellow is a 'happy' colour c:
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MoonSnake12 In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 22:34:02 +0000 UTC]
This is one of my favourite pieces of artwork ever and this saves me when i'm at my lowest and helps me through bad times. Yesterday I was very close to harming myself badly but I remembered Hope and your beautiful picture and it touched my heart; I managed to not hurt myself badly and drew lots of little Hopes over my arm and legs so I couldn't hurt them. Your art really saved me from doing something worse and i'm so grateful for your art. I don't understand anyone who says they hate people who self-harm or cut themselves because they don't know the reasons behind it sometimes. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful talent and helping me through ^^
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Honey-chan15 In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 19:30:11 +0000 UTC]
this is amazing and i think its wonderful what your doing, totally supporting you here!
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Esaltato In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 12:23:23 +0000 UTC]
Every little gentle thought which you can say that, just like the butterfly, should not still be alive in this crazy environment, every one of these may lit your hope.
All of you, open you inner eye and let butterflies pass through.
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gvcci-hvcci In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 09:43:23 +0000 UTC]
But cutting is fun and a little addicting ;_;
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